I just have so much anger today. Everybody keeps pressuring me to just “move on”but it is so hard when there is no closure and accountability. It is almost like when I talk about all the terrible things she has done towards me, people are like ,”well, what did you do to her to deserve her treatment.” It is like I am guilty until proven innocent while she is innocent until proven guilty.

I was faithful in my marriage; my ex cheated five times. Sometimes people minimize her affairs and it drives me crazy. My ex lied chronically; I never did. My ex used and manipulated me without care for my emotional safety; I never did that. My ex manipulated me out of my own home. She has told everyone that she is the victim of our relationship and has treated me terribly. She even did the silver-bullet strategy.

It is just wild to me that it seems like people try to find what I must have done to deserve all of this treatment. I’ve even had people tell me that I must have needed too much in the relationship and this justifies why she did all of this. I feel crazy.