Tonight the wife came home from a long day at work, her boss flew into town. She comes in and just stands by the counter. Clearly I know itc was a bad day for her. I ask her what's wrong and she tears up a little saying she feels like nothing is going right and that most of it is due to me. I feel horrible because even though I don't think we should be married I'm still a human, I still care. I just didn't know what to do to ease her crying. I feel like this would almost be easier if we hated each other.