Valentines

failure_apparent · 2024-02-14T15:43:49+00:00

Wish I could see my daughter tonight to give her something special but I had to give her back to her mom at the start of the week (last weekend was mine) so of course, as usual, her mom gets to spoil her and keep winning her over pretending to be super mom. I've had one holiday in over 2 years now...

BilboMontague1 · 2024-02-13T22:05:41+00:00

Great advice. I got my Walmart $.99 boxes and some better candy bars. The donuts are a great idea. Maybe even $5 sushi or Whopper Wednesday for dinner!! Thanks for thinking of others.

DCnative2020 · 2024-02-13T18:56:32+00:00

tell her you will go. BUT bring a hot date with you to this dinner. Don't tell ex wife in advance you are bringing this hot date. This will set ex wife straight and teach her a lesson not to mess with you again

captainchippsixx · 2024-02-13T18:30:23+00:00

Is it your night with the kids? Is she trying to worm her way into the night?

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-02-13T17:59:30+00:00

Another advantage of celibacy. You don't have to spend money on stupid shit. Leave flowers alone.

Ecstatic-Shopping313 · 2024-02-13T17:19:54+00:00

Go with her, treat her like she's you're sister, pretend to take a call halfway through from your girlfriend. Watch the lights in her eyes die.

stent00 · 2024-02-13T16:28:00+00:00

I don't need to give my kids cards and chocolate to tell hem I love them. Such a bogus holiday and has no meaning to me anymore.

OpeScuseMe74 · 2024-02-13T14:03:11+00:00

Better than my plans tomorrow. I've got our first hearing with my STBXW.

Canadian_builder1081 · 2024-02-13T13:59:58+00:00

Why wouldn’t you want to have dinner with your kids snd show them you can still spend time together on occasion?

AdrianInLimbo · 2024-02-13T13:57:14+00:00

This. Remember your kids on this Valentine's day, especially if the Ex won't remember to do something for them.

guy_n_cognito_tu · 2024-02-13T13:52:00+00:00

Let me translate for you: she's not worried about the kids......she wants to insure that you are otherwise occupied on Valentines day. Let me guess, this is your first V day separated?

RichardCleveland · 2024-02-13T13:39:25+00:00

Ugh, that is so obnoxious! Why would ANYONE want to go to special events with their exes, kids or not. Did you tell her you are already going out with "insert name"? LOL

Miserable_Ad_1172 · 2024-02-13T13:12:15+00:00

Never thought to do that for my boys. Thank you. Great advice they are only 2 and 4 so won’t be to embarrassed yet 😅😊

RedWineStrat · 2024-02-13T13:02:57+00:00

For the kids then. Nice play on the donuts.

Title	Valentines
Author	DivorceTA1988
Upvotes	59
Comments	52
Date	February 13, 2024 12:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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