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[–]pissedpumpkinFDS Newbie144 points145 points146 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Lol I’ve seen this elsewhere with different images, very pickme.. but I can’t get over “if he gets me a shoe” lmao sis he only bought you one??
[–]kettleodumplinsFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I really want to get you the shoes you like for your birthday, and I really am banking on you getting me that gaming console for xmas want you to have something you like, but times are tough & you think maybe we could go 50/50... Like I buy one shoe & you buy the other cause uh it's just like us we're the perfect pair heh..? I know you aren't like those shallow 2-shoe-hoes, but I wanted to ask because I uh respect you, k? And maybe decide quick so I can pick them up on my way to the suit sizing appointment..?
[–]PottyMouthxFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well you can't buy 2 shoes - that wouldn't be a 50/50!! Unless those 2 shoes are different.
Evidence: men that wear mismatched shoes.
[–]ChristianGirl93FDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pickme-erella
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[–]hvwthrowawayFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
my thoughts exactly!
[–]trumpslefttitFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course only one. 50/50 rule lol
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple79 points80 points81 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If a guy treats me consistently like a queen over a period of time, of course I'll always treat him well and treat him to something once in a while but not on a 50/50 basis.
[–]illusion_believeAt-Risk Pick Me Youth14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve never heard a man say that there is no equal give and take. Like he’s giving to his queen too much and he wants the exact same thing.
Men don’t need you to do thousand of things for them. There are just a couple of things that are important to them that they want you to do often. A masculine man loves to give. The only thing he wants to receive is your appreciation
[–]LevelTurbulentFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Notice in this scenario he always buys the cheaper thing?
That's always how "50/50" seems to go when I see this shit. He spends less, she spends more and he calls it fair.
[–]GlitteringAdvice2020FDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Not only in spending money but housework, childcare and cooking. He works 40 hours a week, does half the laundry, cooks 3 nights a week, drops the kids off at school and takes care of the kids bedtime routines meanwhile she vacuums, cleans the bathrooms, changes sheets, dusts, does the laundry he inevitably misses, clears the clutter, cleans out the fridge and cabinets, cleans out the closets and changes out clothes, sweeps and mops, does the clothing and shoe shopping for the kids, plans birthday parties, takes care of all the Christmas shopping, takes care of the kids until bedtime, takes the kids to birthday parties and extra curriculars, does the parent teacher conferences, takes the kids to the doctors and dentists, cooks 4 nights a week and takes care of breakfast and lunch, takes care of the kids morning routines, picks the kids up from school AND works 40 hours a week and he’ll STILL say he does “half”
[–]LevelTurbulentFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, this was my life. Except all he did was work 40 hours a week and occasionally spend time with our son. I worked too (often more than 40 hours a week) and did everything else. And he acted like I did nothing because I made less than him. And even worse back before I got sick I was the breadwinner for several years and made more than him.
I was an idiot. All that and he acts like I'm a lazy housewife. I made that man three meals a day, getting up at ass o clock in the morning to cook him breakfast.
I'd have been better off by myself. I'm going through the divorce now and my life is already so much easier.
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because in their minds, he shouldn't be spending anything at all. He probably considers this generous as it is.
[–]GlitteringAdvice2020FDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
But if you have a rough day will he help you out? No, he’ll just call you hormonal? That’s what I thought.
When will women learn that it doesn’t matter how much love and respect they give a man he will NEVER fully return it. Women can give 100% and men will still only give 15%......tops. No. More. That’s why men hate FDS so much. We’re calling out this bs. No more giving 100%. From now on we’re giving 15%.....tops.
[–]stankyhoseFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He'll get treated like a King when he proves he is worthy to become mine.
(And it aint gonna be like this bullshit 50/50, how are a pair of shoes and a suit on the same level? Lunch is always cheaper than dinner too...)
[–]heleninthealpsFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly...sounds like 30/70 for me. If we supported this it should still be reversed
[–]gcthrowaway2019FDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
King's don't get stuff from their queens. They get it from their power (connections, townspeople, neighboring kingdoms) to give to her.
[–]giftofnocondemnationFDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kings don't need a woman to buy them dinner.
[–]darkhorse8419FDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So sad. Men want us to audition for them, in the form of sex, emotional labor, and maid duties, but will get so angry at the thought of paying a 30 dollar meal at the Cheesecake Factory. It’s not our fault you’re not dating with intention sir.
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This.
[–]_Atalanta_FDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate this picture for this: she is standing LOWER than him, he is about to LEAD her up the stairs, he is acting and DOING, she is disengaged and PASSIVE. But 50 50 rIgHt?? 😕 These things seem inconsequential but they are actually significant but subtle
[–]wielblademFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's also fully covered, while her dress is very revealing and though we can't see the bottom, less practical and moveable-in even going just by the top.
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Funny they used a pic of Jason Statham and Rosie Huntington Whiteley for this. Jason is not actually taller than her and he's old enough to be her dad. And she's a supermodel who's done acting; he's goodlooking I'll admit but she could have anyone.
[–]RabidWenchFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She can have anyone, i'll take Statham off her hands. I've had a massive stupid crush on him since The Transporter😂😂
[–]chatrebelleFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll be a SERVANT to my man so please pick me kind sir. I'll treat you like a KING even though you will most likely treat me like trash
[–]asteria2002FDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha a true king doesn't need women taking care of him. A true Queen doesn't take care of a men.
[–]ManchurianCantaloupeRuthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I keep seeing versions of this quote accompanying photos of this couple like they're in any way connected?
Rosie HW never said any of this shit and Jason Statham bought her a $300,000 engagement ring. 😂😂
[–]everythingandloveFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤢
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Before reading I thought this photo was about the beauty gap in hetero couples
[–]pao664FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
50/50 is never 50/50. It’s more like 90/10 with the woman running herself ragged. I chose to prioritize my self care over this 50/50 nonsense.
[–]Microwave79FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A queen simply doesn't go 50/50. It isn't in her vocabulary.
[–]fim_de_semanaFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure, the day men do 50% of the emotional labor and 50% of the invisible labor. But they only want to do work that will get them back pats.
[–]VerysoftbunFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What bugs me is this isn't even 50/50 dinner is more than lunch. Suits are very expensive.
[–]Mysterious_Midnight7FDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh ok. And meanwhile 1) you cook and he never does, 2) you keep the house neat as a pin and he never does, 3) you have to dress up in lingerie and give him sex with zero romance or foreplay from him when you don't even feel like it, and 4) you make more money than him. Hmmmm.
why does it just apruptly end in "if he's having a rough day, I'll help him out!" where's his part on this deal?! because men can't give emotional support/be nurturing and women only expect them to buy material things? got it...
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This person who made this statement obviously does not have any kids.
[–]Wtfpwned69FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Comical
[–]burntbpdFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok here's my take. A man wrote this. And put it on the image and posted it on social media. And the pickmes did what pickmes do. They picked it up.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
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