Broke: financially, spiritually and mentally

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-23T15:44:21+00:00

So many angry, ain't shit, poor men in the comments 😂😂😂👏

Edited: they are automod removed comments, dumbass scrote lurker. That's why you can't see them. Just like your reply here. Lol! Thanks, automod!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-23T15:39:33+00:00

And stop having their children!!!

saint-jezebel · 2020-09-23T15:08:52+00:00

I follow her and her lives are everything. If you are Black/AA, POC and grew up poor, came from nothing, it is especially helpful if you follow her as these women tend to struggle the most everywhere in life. It is motivating to have those who started from such humble beginnings teach you enough of the game to succeed. Sheneka is very transparent and down to earth, so she is worth the follow.

Total side note lol, but this is FDS after all and Sheneka is 100% it.

TheMissInformed · 2020-09-23T13:04:24+00:00

Emotionally, too.

This is such an important distinction.

Tons of men who have their own money are still mentally underdeveloped, and that is equally as draining as a man who is financially broke.

We don't allow men in our lives who empty our own full cups -- only men who add to the cup and overflow it.

Sparrow_143 · 2020-09-23T14:07:49+00:00

Has anyone else noticed the uptick of LVMs & pickmes on FB calling women "classist" for refusing to date broke men? It's insane.

I_was_there_for_you · 2020-09-23T17:05:47+00:00

When I was dating it amazed me how many men didn’t understand why we look for financial security.

I’m sorry, did you think owning a house, raising kids, and going on vacation was going to just magically happen on your $12/hr entry level job? Oh and you do the bare minimum at work, with no intentions to move up, AND spend all of your free time smoking and playing video games?

NEXT!

eveninghope · 2020-09-23T14:42:49+00:00

I had this convo w a male friend of mine where he tried to shame me for vetting men by their job/salary (this friend literally just quit his decent job for no reason aside from "being bored" lmao). Honestly, it doesn't make a man HV by default, but being career oriented is at least a first tier shortcut to tell if this guy has some sense of responsibility, long term thinking, interest/passion in something with some social utility, hardworking, etc. Is it a perfect metric? Not at all. But talking to a guy who has no/a really shitty job generally signals something too. Again, not that having a lower wage job necessarily signals something about their character, but it's about accepting that as the status quo. When my family came to the US, they worked as the help, and then built an empire, so it's about motivation/discipline.

2020-09-23T15:13:15+00:00

I have met several men who are uber or food drivers that get angry when women won't date them. It's not their job, it is the women they seek. I have multiple degrees, write code and have a good job with a nice condo. I expect you to have similar ambition and make more than I do. This isn't a hard concept.

getbackzack · 2020-09-23T14:41:22+00:00

The title describes my ex perfectly.

seraphinelysion · 2020-09-23T15:16:13+00:00

STOP PUTTING THE ONUS ON US.

Tell broke men to keep their dicks in their pants and focus on working on themselves instead of pursuing sex.

SunsetOwls · 2020-09-23T11:19:58+00:00

Know your value ladies!

souadezz · 2020-09-23T11:15:09+00:00

Aren't they all broke in a way or another!

BorderComprehensive · 2020-09-23T14:45:16+00:00

Amen! Do they ever have anything to offer but short stamina and d***, nah probably not.

YveisGrey · 2020-09-23T14:00:04+00:00

hypointellectual · 2020-09-23T14:25:35+00:00

Men should stop being broke lazy assholes.

oh_beach_please · 2020-09-23T15:16:25+00:00

Jokes 😂 love this

Niceforwhatthrowaway · 2020-09-23T15:28:07+00:00

Good. Now go tell men to not be broke.

d00tz2 · 2020-09-23T15:23:07+00:00

I’d date a broke man because he like works for a nonprofit or is a teacher or something that adds value to the world, but not a broke man who doesn’t work or works a different job every week or spends his money on nonsense.

HamiltonSucksAss · 2020-09-23T21:21:34+00:00

was this text edited on?

pao664 · 2020-09-24T01:28:17+00:00

Lmao. Love that.

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2020-09-25T01:46:33+00:00

By his tank top I would have assumed he is poor 😳

Title	Broke: financially, spiritually and mentally
Author	LittleBiitchyBanana
Upvotes	1499
Comments	58
Date	September 23, 2020 10:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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