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Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.

eveninghope

September 23, 2020
309 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.
Author

eveninghope

Upvotes 309
Comments 54
Date September 23, 2020 7:28 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iyh4a9/can_we_stop_using_walk_date_like_its_an_actual/
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[–]falsademonstratioFDS Newbie132 points133 points134 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

we should call it a field trip instead 😹

[–]The_kilt_liftaFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jason Voorhees has entered the chat

[–]Kitty015FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

A field trip might actually be interesting though. Like a trip to a museum or something? I would totally be into that.

These walk dates are just walking in a neighbourhood. Boring!

[–]falsademonstratioFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Noo, I didnt mean an actual trip to an interesting place followed by dinner... check out the creepy field dude, for a good laugh fellow queens 😉😉 https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iw3z3m/i_think_she_discovered_fds_better_late_than_never/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

[–]Annia_CornificiaFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg this is where the meme came from. 😂

[–]manisfestationqueenFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So true. Because it's so childish

[–]calmandcollectiveFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can imagine a walk date turning into an actual trip to the field 😂

[–]myousernameRuthless Strategist95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This was reported for being "rude, vulgar, or offensive"

Omfg the male snowflakes are on the prowl today 😂

[–]RabidWenchFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait, can men subscribe? I know they can't post or comment. The thought of them pushing us over 100k is making me giggle irrationally.

[–]myousernameRuthless Strategist22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They technically can I suppose even if they are banned. And yes, the thought that they helped boost us over 100K made me giggle too 😂

[–]youdipthongFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

but what about a walk date... in a field? 😳🤔

[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only if you’ve made SURE he’s a serial killer and you’re not getting enough adrenaline from sky diving.

[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmaoo let me show you this...field 😭

[–]hypointellectualFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I’ve been off the market for 3.5 years. Is this actually a thing?????? What on earth? They’re not even putting in the effort to plan a hike?!!

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple68 points69 points70 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No. They just want to mindless walk around a park or town. If you're lucky you might get a coffee, if not I hope you brought your own drink because you ain't getting any. But in the end they'll expect to take the date home for some Netflix and chilling or expect a second "date". Maybe since he now sees you might not be a gold digger, you now get a coffee date but come prepared with your wallet to pay for your coffee lol

[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's what cheap men do hoping to score. Don't be a cheap man's catch!

[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I was off the market for 9 years before I got into it. It’s really, really BAD.

I remember my dates picking me up from my parents house with flowers. What happened?!

[–]PalmFruitWineFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s a good question. I don’t know.

[–]WkndwhorechataFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That 2008 recession, man.

[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

😭😭😭

[–]Sage_PlanterFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Online dating. Seriously. Instead of meeting a woman every few weeks and wanting to invest in her, men meet 4-6 women every week and want to invent nothing in any of them.

[–]nonchalantasianFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I cringe when I hear let’s have a walk date. Especially if they set up a walk date close to the area they live near.

I’m not a dog, I don’t need to be walked.

[–]WkndwhorechataFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Going for a walk with no endpoint in mind is SYMBOLIC OF AN UMAMBITIOUS LVM. You'll be walking in circles for the rest of your life 😂😭

[–]PalmFruitWineFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

👏🏼 This.

[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

If they ask you on a walk (I won’t even use the D word), just tell them it’ll be nice to have a workout FRIEND while you stay in shape for when someone asks you out in the future 😂

[–]falsademonstratioFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

LMAO, thats the best response ever!!! Running right into the friendzone🏃🏃🏃

[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean if they have such a phobia of proper dating, how else could these attempts to ”hang out” or ”vibe” be interpreted? Obviously he is not interested in you like THAT or he would actually put time and effort to impress you.

[–]skyerippaFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my god I am so saying this

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[–]vereelimeeFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He probably needs all those red flags to mark a trail in his murder field. Big yikes!

[–]tiavargaFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why are they so quick to try and call you. I reply to a guy on Hinge for the first time and he starts trying to call me right then and there via the app. Settle down, bro!

[–]souadezzFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just saw people talking about walk dates on dating advice sub . I was like WTH is that ?

[–]bananna_nutFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have to thanks FDS because I’ve been taken on walk dates without me knowing this entire time 😳 Men always it seem like it was something just to catch up as friends and I thought I was crazy for reading into things and feeling like they were trying to ask me out when they proposed going to museums, but little did I know that they were testing me out on our “casual” walks all along! I’m never walking anywhere again with a guy, honestly without this sub idk what I would do because I’m apparently too innocent for this world :/

[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One guy asked me if I wanted to go for a walk in the park, and find a spot to get to know one another better. What a creep!

[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would write it as a "walk DaTe" to try to cue sarcasm because its like trying to pass off dog poop as a chocolate pudding. Thats what it means to meetup for a walk.

[–]ScallionOk958FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I live near the beach and they are always asking to go for walks on the beach. What do I reply to them?

[–]KristeninmyskinFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is U/ EclecticBarbarella’s response!

If they ask you on a walk (I won’t even use the D word), just tell them it’ll be nice to have a workout FRIEND while you stay in shape in case someone asks you out in the future 😂

[–]notroyaltyyetFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A guy said to me yesterday we could go for a walk and get something to eat after and I said “like a dog? Walkies and then treats? No.”

[–]calmandcollectiveFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Walk dates in the summer sound like breakups in the winter 😂

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[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

These walking “dates” were a thing long before covid.

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[–]Fatt3stAveng3rFDS Apprentice16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A "walking date" where the guy still makes an effort is ok. If he says "let's go to the waterfront and have a picnic and rent kayaks so we can socially distance on the water and I'll buy you flowers" - yes, fine. Effort.

"Let's go to the park and walk for 15 minutes. I was going there anyways with my dog." - not fine, no effort.

[–]ihavenoideadwhatimdoFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

and it’s often just the park around the corner from his apartment. stay woke

[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Right like if a dude is like, hey there’s this really great botanical garden, I’ll bring a charcuterie board, and we can sit on opposite ends of the picnic table, I wouldn’t consider that a walk date.

[–]Fatt3stAveng3rFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And that's a perfectly acceptable date. Walking in a park is not. There are options out there.

[–]perhapsbutnottodayFDS Disciple[🍰] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I need you to raise your standards a wee bit higher. Consider how much time and prep you put into a date. Now let me hear you call a man who asks for a walk date kind again! It’s a rip off. PUA push this psychology onto these guys that a walk creates or leap frogs intimacy and connection levels without him doing the most - like he should, like we teach. Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier!

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[–]littleredcorvettesFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Wait, so you put no effort into dating or leveling your mentality up (re: you defending the lowest calibre date imaginable that Redpill types use to seek out women just like you)...And subsequently you got picked by a guy who also puts in no effort in dating while reaping the majority of the rewards of a relationship with you... And you're on FDS defending it and proud? I am confusion

Your entire post reminds me of the "my man could propose with a chicken nugget and I'd say yes #2020 #woke #bossbabe" type memes we all cringe at. Are you a liberal feminist by chance? I'm genuinely curious

[–]perhapsbutnottodayFDS Disciple[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

✅ thank you. I have the deleted reply in my previews/ notifications and it went something like “ lol I used to put in hours into getting my hair done before a date/ I don’t put in any effort at all”. I click through and it’s deleted. Oh well. My first and only thought was “ read the handbook”. I understand not all women like to groom/ doll up/ level . She could be a make up hating, crew cut wearing gal who rolls out of bed, into her sneakers for “ walking date” but the threat of rape, being killed, assaulted by a guy means she should at least insist these date places are safe, convenient for her and in public. This is in the handbook. So even if you are one of the girls I described up there , these threats mean you MUST raise your standard. I’m not gonna go into levels of effort, intrinsic value anymore because ...😑

I hope she isnt one of the 2000 mod mails demanding a flair.

[–]littleredcorvettesFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah see I struggle with posts like that. I don't want to be abrasive but it's like sis! Come on! And I agree with you 100%. I carefully chose my wording that hopefully conveyed it wasn't about the make up at all. The focus to me should be on leveling up mentally so that you aren't on a subreddit happily talking about your low effort date and subsequently low effort relationship. I could go to any token relationship sub for that. Then trying to justify it. Idk the whole thing rubbed me like the "not like other girls" type. And whenever you see a post from a woman happily accepting trash dates that could have gone badly for her and justifying it just hits different than the LVM advocating for it.

I guess I also don't understand the point of even being in such a relationship because when two people are giving 0 effort...I'd rather just be in a relationship with a houseplant at that point because it'd be more rewarding

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[–]bearsandchairs28At-Risk Pick Me Youth-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This sounds so cute,, maybe he’s the exception to the rule!

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