Health issues aside, if he’s young and he has ED, there’s a high likelihood that it’s caused by his usage of porn.

Why are women expected to tolerate men’s porn use and then expected to be tactful and to spare their feelings when they can’t get it up? Men were never so forgiving of women. They’ll pump and dump us (quoting them in their words), body shame us, and dehumanize us every way possible. There have been incidents where the scrote will have the audacity to ask his sexual partner to try this or try that so that hopefully he gets hard. Fuck that. Tell him he sucks in bed and that it’s his fault and that he needs to sort that shit out ASAP because you’re not sticking around for mediocre sex. Look for someone else. Destroy his ego because I guarantee you there’s plenty more where it came from.

If he’s a situationship, dump him. Life is too damn short to be a Bob the Builder for his dick issues. If he’s your partner, make him go to the doctor because ED can also be caused by health conditions. If it’s not really his initiative or he hesitates, procrastinates, or doesn’t want to deal with it, dump him.

ED is your opportunity to GTFO.