Hm interesting 😐

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-08-13T20:25:38+00:00

Bless his poor, persecuted soul, how does he struggle on with life in the face of such adversity /s

Subject-Mirror · 2020-08-13T20:45:52+00:00

White woman and black man relationships are the only interracial relationships that are widely accepted?? I’m pretty sure a neonazi was just sentenced last year for killing a white woman in 2009 solely because she was in a relationship with a black man

If anything a white man/asian woman relationship is probably one of the most accepted interracial relationship. They might get harassment for it, but at least they don’t have to worry as much about getting murdered for it

hairwashernova · 2020-08-13T21:05:55+00:00

I'm Asian and have chatted with men with this mind set before. Sadly, it is not rare and most white guys who message me just want someone who is obedient, shy and quiet. They think it's so "sexy" that I'm a petite and curvy Asian woman but never ask me about my interests or hobbies. Barf lol. They always seem to stop responding back when I outsmart them and call them out on their bullshit. Sad.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2020-08-13T20:35:40+00:00

I hope he’s getting dragged by Asian women in the comments for that awful post.

hapahunnie · 2020-08-13T22:16:02+00:00

I’m half Asian and my white mom told me I’m not allowed to bring a white guy home but I would never because I’ve only ever gotten the most creepy and vile messages + comments from guess who? I started a spreadsheet in HS to track all of the creepy comments it got so bad, count me out 🤮

Hhjjuuy · 2020-08-13T21:28:41+00:00

Who shames him exactly? I find it's white dudes who can't handle women wanting anything that isn't them.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-08-13T20:56:16+00:00

I'm Asian (half) and my boyfriend is white. Not about to be one of those Asian pick me's that pander to Asian males by shitting on white people. Just going to say "different strokes for different folks". There are some major cultural differences that can make WMAF dating difficult, like you either have to be white washed like me, or the guy has to be verrry understanding of the woman's culture (which is often very conservative and patriarchal).

Also take into account that many of us Asian women look for men that are financially well-off (not necessarily rich, middle class to upper middle class) and normally we won't settle for less. This can be quite a turn-off for many men. We don't wanna LTR loser burger flippers, sorry. We don't care that you're trying your best-- we'll simply cut contact and look for someone with a higher salary. LVM should greatly dislike us, I would think anyway.

Also, many white dudes are absolute sleaze bags about us being Asian. They'll say shit like "she's hot cause she's asian, look at my asian girlfriend" that is really gross. My exes (not all white, some POC and mixed) were like that. Got called the "cream of the crop" by an ex for the sole basis of being Asian. If you're going to compliment us, do so because of how we are as a person, not just because of our ethnicity. That's WEIRD. Luckily my bf doesn't do that or feels that way, he likes me as a person.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-08-13T21:09:52+00:00

“It’s a two way door”

NeedsHolyWater · 2020-08-13T21:24:05+00:00

Hey, more Asian guys for the rest of us. At least they usually dress well and have good hygiene, unlike a lot of American white guys.

Icchy24 · 2020-08-13T21:21:29+00:00

🤢🤢🤢 this is literally why I don't even attempt to get to know white men like this. I'm not a fetish thanks

eveninghope · 2020-08-13T21:54:09+00:00

I have not had great experiences white guys (sry y'all). To me, they generally come off as very self-centered. It's like their perspective is how can I please them, what can I do for them, etc. I think my upbringing/culture makes a little more sensitive to these things bc I'm sort of a people pleaser then end up feeling resentful bc they ask too much.

TLDR: nah bruh.

BabyGothQ · 2020-08-13T23:35:29+00:00

He.. I.. wow..

No one thinks.. I-

There’s so much wrong here to unpack I’m just going to leave it at fetishist, delusional incel.

just-peepin-at-u · 2020-08-14T01:13:29+00:00

Did he just say white women never face any negativity for dating black men? What delusion.

RiteWriter · 2020-08-13T20:50:53+00:00

Dude had some self hate there

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2020-08-14T03:51:50+00:00

HOLD UP - Indian women and Chinese women treat him the same way??? In what universe?!

bitch_not_it · 2020-08-14T03:11:58+00:00

The basis of his argument is that his experience with them have been true to the negative stereotype that they are submissive, and since they do whatever he wants, he prefers them over white women.

The way he reduces her to her race first and foremost ('chinese japanese taiwan doesnt matter.. they all just seem perfect for me'), and then does not include any aspect of seeing her as a human, he basically described how he fetishes Asian women.

Then concludes his little post with the indignant "why am I getting accused of fetishizing Asian women!?" Ugh. Scrotebrain

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-08-14T16:11:41+00:00

What happened was OP kept chasing white women he claimed were playing hard to get when really they just weren’t interested. On the off chance that an Asian girl is nice to him and is also attracted to him (he thinks oh, white women bad, other women good). This is why we stick up for all women- a man makes a blanket assumption because he can’t figure out the differences between being nice or interested.

GlobalDynamicsEureka · 2020-08-14T14:19:24+00:00

I'm half. My white dad was not in my life. We had to leave him when I was five. My mother had five kids with him. She was pregnant with my younger sibling when we left. So was a woman across town. Edit to say I am the oldest.

eloiselmao · 2020-08-14T16:47:52+00:00

Why does he assume that because a woman is Asian she immediately loves him as a white man?? What in the delusion

Hhjjuuy · 2020-08-14T07:50:57+00:00

I love Asian women the most.

Okay talking about romantic love here

I love white women

Okay still romantic love. No indications otherwise...

My mother is white

Fuck off Oedipus.

SapphoRattie · 2020-08-14T19:10:39+00:00

Question. I'm on the app and I don't know how to see the full images. Help?

2020-08-14T21:51:23+00:00

Okay!! That’s enough internet for today! Thomas has seen everything. I draw the line at being fetishised for my ethnicity 🤢🤢

Title	Hm interesting 😐
Author	Tsionchi
Upvotes	61
Comments	37
Date	August 13, 2020 8:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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