Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan!

manisfestationqueen · 2020-08-14T13:43:31+00:00

This is the problem with deep seated self-hatred. You will distrust and dislike anyone who really likes you.

dior-not-war · 2020-08-14T13:54:02+00:00

This is just so bizarre. And they don’t even care to level up so they’ll actually be worthy of someone liking them. Weirdos.

eveninghope · 2020-08-14T13:59:50+00:00

If you're self esteem is so low you don't trust women to be into you, get your shit out of the dating pool and work on your damn self.

peaka25 · 2020-08-14T15:08:26+00:00

The dude saying he DESERVES BETTER than someone who's into low-brow, low-life sketchy things like him... what. 😦🤦🏼‍♀️ Bro, you're lucky if anyone even wants you. Why are they so fucking entitled? 😖

These same dudes would be pissed at women for having standards or valuing themselves. Men will always want what they can't have.

heleninthealps · 2020-08-14T14:08:38+00:00

The question on this tread was: "What is a dealbreaker for you as a guy that minimises your dating pool?"

The fact that almost 2000 upvoted and therefore agrees that a girl being attracted to them is a dealbreaker for them is just fucking fucked up.

IAmGoingToBeBetter · 2020-08-14T13:59:08+00:00

They could just you know, work on themselves until they would date themselves? 🤷🏽‍♀️Just some food for thought.

2020-08-14T14:40:00+00:00

A lot of men need therapy, even when my esteem was at its lowest, I never thought so low of myself to this extent. Somewhere at the back of my mind amidst the dark thoughts, I still knew I was a Queen and a PRIZE, TF???

NeedsHolyWater · 2020-08-14T14:10:14+00:00

Like....do they not realize that they don't have to be perfect to be loved? Like, presumably, their parents, siblings and friends love them?

plutonian_princess · 2020-08-14T13:53:38+00:00

Lol that makes total sense

imyoursoulmate · 2020-08-14T16:03:01+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely a way for them to continue their shitty behavior with no accountability. If the person they’re dating calls them out on their behavior they can just say “Well why are you with me, what’s wrong with you?!” instead of being an adult and correcting their their ways. It’s ridiculous. My ex would do this and even had his low life shitty friend would side with him as well. Glad I’m out of that situation. Never again! Lol

throwawayaway388 · 2020-08-14T18:18:46+00:00

Whenever a man says "I don't deserve you", I believe him and move along. Lol

Ms_Tilly · 2020-08-14T15:38:28+00:00

Damned if you do and damned if you don't. This is a real thing that the worst of men experience. I know because a guy I was dating told me he didn't trust my judgement because I was with someone like him. It was the weirdest thing anyone I've dated has texted me. At the time I was looking for fun, not a long term partner, and he was fun. My answer to him when he asked what I saw in him was always "chemistry", but he was right to question it. There was nothing else good about him besides chemistry and he spent a lot of time convincing me through actions that I should dump him.

tiniekittie · 2020-08-14T15:04:57+00:00

For my sanity I’ll refuse to believe this is actually real...

myousername · 2020-08-14T17:24:07+00:00

This isn't really that surprising. Men hate the women they are attracted to. It has nothing to do with their self esteem. It's about misogyny and having moral license to treat women like shit.

mostdefinitelynturs · 2020-08-14T16:14:01+00:00

If a guy thinks I'm desperate to have him, that says more about him than it does about me. People treat you how they feel about themselves...

mimkadinka · 2020-08-14T18:25:49+00:00

"if she's into me it makes me think what other sketchy things is she also into? I deserve better than that."

WHAT THE FUCK ???

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-08-14T15:33:17+00:00

Hope the lurkers are seeing this.

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-08-14T18:14:00+00:00

This is just so strange. Imagine being so willing to call yourself a disgusting human being and doing nothing to change that...

SunflowerinVirgo0903 · 2020-08-14T18:40:48+00:00

Basically this means they want someone out of their league. More proof their accusations that we want cHAdS is just another projection.

LemonEnhancingPolish · 2020-08-14T20:19:16+00:00

Lol I was sifting through that thread earlier this morning. All I can surmise from the entire comments is these dudes do not like ANYTHING about women. Anything and everything mentioned is like they might as well say they hate when "women breathe air".

balladwilds · 2020-08-14T19:37:10+00:00

so basically theyll never have a girlfriend lmaooo

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-15T15:28:27+00:00

It's just an excuse not to take initiative.

smart-tart23 · 2020-08-14T17:22:40+00:00

I saw this exact thread and immediately thought of this sub.... LVM all day

lasolterita · 2020-08-15T07:51:06+00:00

The media has taught many of us to crave the unattainable. "If they like me, that means they can be attained. How boring/unworthy/cheap/easy!" An unhealthy & extreme, but not rare, instance of people who seek the thrill of the chase

PhoenixRisingAsap · 2020-08-15T11:44:49+00:00

This explains why most guys become cold the minute you show any interest in them. So basically they only want women who don’t want them back? This is why their concept of consent is so twisted.

Title	Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan!
Author	heleninthealps
Upvotes	255
Comments	50
Date	August 14, 2020 1:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i9lv8p/most_men_know_they_dont_deserve_you_keep_leveling/
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