Picking up my things from my cheating boyfriend's house. Ideas for how to revenge as my last goodbye?

wanderluster369 · 2020-01-31T01:01:07+00:00

The best revenge is grabbing your things, walking away and bossing up.

chroma_sparkles · 2020-01-31T01:05:11+00:00

Take the high road.

It's so easy to want to get some sort of revenge, but if you act petty, you will be the one who ends up looking bad. Even if hes the one who screwed up.

Trust me, I still play out revenge fantasies in my head on guys I'll never see again. But I would never act on them because I would make myself look like a fool. I understand the hurt you're going through and you're entitled to be as pissed as you are.

I promise you though, the best revenge is living well. Being spiteful might make you feel good in the moment, but you'll probably regret it later. Don't give him more fuel to use against you.

Leave in peace and with your head held high like a Queen.

funky_worms · 2020-01-31T01:12:34+00:00

Living a successful life is the best revenge. Dont do anything petty to get back at him right now. I promise you It’ll feel good momentarily but you’ll look back on it and cringe.

FemclFleshBeckyBones · 2020-01-31T01:05:17+00:00

Take that anger and use it to fuel a productive change in your life. The best revenge is a life we'll lived. Show him he truly doesn't matter to you anymore, that he's not worth getting upset about.

pissed_af · 2020-01-31T01:36:36+00:00

The best revenge is to be better. Don't you ever look back, work to improve yourself, learn new skills, get a higher education than what you currently have, idc if you have 3 phds get another one, make new friends, etc. He's going to look at you and will regret ever hurting you (or he won't) , but you will look back at this moment and be glad you decided to take the higher road because you will be so much happier than him

HungryExamination · 2020-01-31T06:56:26+00:00

Revenge is a dish best served in a way that never tracks back to you. The favourite among my female friends was done to a husband who cheated. Get a small fine pair of scissors and with all of his trousers - go in and subtly undermine the stitching around the crotch/bum area. They wont fail immediately but they will all at some point fail

hellau1234 · 2020-01-31T05:53:37+00:00

"Revenge is not in my plans. You'll fuck yourself on your own."

3catsandI · 2020-01-31T01:35:36+00:00

Best revenge EVER is you walking away and him NEVER hearing a word from you EVER again. And someday finding out you are living your BEST life without him. That, girl, is priceless!

Amelania · 2020-01-31T01:48:40+00:00

Girl, I know the feeling and I know it well. I have never, ever, ever felt good, long-term, about any kind of vengeful act. It feels good for a minute or two, and then you regret lowering yourself to that level.

Collect your things and close that chapter of your life with a positive mindset, knowing you didn't spend one more minute with that person who was so very undeserving of you. Everything is replaceable, especially that man, so try not to feel too badly about having to leave any possessions behind. You're moving on to better things.

Balkanka · 2020-01-31T17:50:09+00:00

Not letting him see you react in emotion or anger. Be cordial, quick, and on your merry way to enjoy your freedom from his shitty ass and baggage. No spite or revenge is worth your time, he’s already shameless.

2020-01-31T01:35:40+00:00

Don't waste your energy. He doesn't care. It will only make him feel justified for cheating.

2020-01-31T06:54:52+00:00

I don't understand the comments that encourage to not punish men 🤔

Works_For_Treats · 2020-01-31T04:05:35+00:00

Revenge is a trait of a LVW

kaoutanu · 2020-01-31T06:38:45+00:00

"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, first dig two graves".

Don't add legal problems to your existing problems.

Or if you really must, a raw fish smoothie down the back of the shower acrylic. Won't be apparent for a day or two, and by the time he rips the shower out to find the source of the stench there'll be nothing left of it.

2020-01-31T08:23:06+00:00

You take your things, leave, grieve if you need, and then let him watch you live your best life without him. Let him come to the realisation of what a big mistake he’s made, and how he will never get you or your love back. Then, you will find a person who deserves you and treats you like how you should be, and you be happy with him and build a life together.

The best revenge is making them watch you have the life of luxury without them. A lot of men LOSE it when you do this

randomgirlimok · 2020-01-31T04:16:19+00:00

Put raw chicken in his closet or heater vent and it won’t start stinking until later. Jk don’t really do this

WoolfMoonRoom · 2020-01-31T02:00:45+00:00

Hide a piece of raw chicken somewhere in his house that he will have a very, very hard time finding. Like a vent or something.

erowid_sp · 2020-01-31T04:33:20+00:00

Hammer holes in the wall behind each picture that's hung up then put the picture back over it

Accurate-Breadfruit · 2020-01-31T17:30:24+00:00

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traditsh · 2020-01-31T18:40:09+00:00

Revenge harms twice: the inflicted and the inflictor. Don't give him that power and energy over you. Pettiness is unflattering.

Rise above, take actions the you you want to be would. Collect your things, hold your head high, move with dignity, leave him in the past.

crankywithakeyboard · 2020-01-31T20:27:42+00:00

Live a good life. For yourself.

TwinPeakMayor · 2020-02-01T08:56:23+00:00

agree with everything here, but also, ghost his ass. block block block.

nutshit · 2020-01-31T01:15:44+00:00

I highly suggest u do subtle revenge. Those over the top displays like throwing out his clothes show you care. Do some petty stuff like throw out his toothpaste, hair removal cream in shampoo, put a boiled egg in his closet or creasing his shoes 😂😂😂 something that he doesn’t notice immediately

ivy176 · 2020-01-31T05:46:03+00:00

I asked my boyfriend what would freak a guy out and he said leave a fake or false positive pregnancy test at his place.. hahahah. I googled it and apparently there are fake tests or ways to make them positive lol.

Kidding, kidding... don't do that. But I thought the suggestion was funny.

Just get your stuff and be 100% no contact. There's nothing else you can do, except maybe post hot pics of yourself on Instagram and imply you're dating someone great.

Accurate-Breadfruit · 2020-01-31T01:14:54+00:00

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CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-31T01:00:15+00:00

For starters, make sure you very very good, but not like you’re trying.

EDIT: sorry just realized he won’t be home.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-01-31T07:22:27+00:00

The most I would do is take one of his things and then sell it. But don’t make it obvious that you took it. Also I don’t get it, are you going to be at his place alone without him? If yes, I would make myself a nice meal too lol.

Other than that, take the high road.

Title	Picking up my things from my cheating boyfriend's house. Ideas for how to revenge as my last goodbye?
Author	Accurate-Breadfruit
Upvotes	45
Comments	59
Date	January 31, 2020 12:57 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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