PickMes Have No Self Awareness At All 🤣

outside-perception · 2020-06-17T14:50:21+00:00

Proof that making a plate isn't going to keep your man

SayNad · 2020-06-17T16:23:12+00:00

most of y'all single and miserable

This is called subconscious projection.

I've often heard from pickmes who are so afraid of being alone and rather being in a shitty relationship going around saying they "pity those women who can't keep a man and sitting alone, they seem so miserable". And when I see who's talking, they are often in very shitty toxic relationship.

Healthy couple in loving relationship though? They just happy that we are happy, they are content and peaceful inside, they see things for what it is.

If everybody seems miserable and unhappy to you, chances are you are the one feeling it deep down.

ObscureGoldenSphere · 2020-06-17T15:22:00+00:00

We still talking about this plate making issue?

When you're done making you man-child's plate, make sure you also feed him, burp him, change his diapers and rock him to sleep.

Shokkolatte · 2020-06-17T15:10:55+00:00

Lmao at using “single” as an insult. Research says that’s the peak of personal bliss for women.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-06-17T18:52:16+00:00

Some of the most unhappy women I know are in relationships

Rosies_brewer · 2020-06-17T15:10:03+00:00

Who wants to bet that sis is the side chick? It's always them who tend to be the biggest pickme so that the scrote leaves the partner for them.

2020-06-17T17:55:45+00:00

Ummmm...single > abuse any and every day

IrritatedMango · 2020-06-17T15:10:21+00:00

Hahahahahaha that response

Fitncurly · 2020-06-17T17:21:56+00:00

I cook but I don’t make my husband’s plate unless he asks and specifies, which is pretty rare. It’s not because I don’t love him, it’s simply not practical as we do certain portions for certain body goals (if anyone knows bodybuilders you know what I mean). I would actually be unhelpful if I followed this pickme’s advice. Why is there so much emphasis on performative femininity and not practicality?

Lattika · 2020-06-17T18:09:51+00:00

My man makes me plates. Part of it is because he's a very fussy eater and tends to prefer the food he makes so he cooks most of the time. I'll cook for him from time to time if he's late home after work and too bollocksed to do it, but he's putting his own tofu on his own plate smh.

Lavender_flow · 2020-06-17T17:44:02+00:00

"affirmationbae tm" Single mother. Checks out. She would name herself "needvalidationbae".

balladwilds · 2020-06-17T23:06:09+00:00

woooow shes projecting BIG TIMES lol how sad seriously

mythicalnebula · 2020-06-17T15:40:14+00:00

i - omg she’s so wrong for saying that 💀 my mouth practically opened when i read the reply

blk_grl_lvl_up · 2020-06-17T22:43:51+00:00

Exactly. Why are these women shitting on women who don’t want to make an able bodied man (who didn’t ask ) a plate ? Does he pay all the bills? Does he provide and protect? Did you get picked, did he marry you when you got pregnant and put the 1/2 house in your name? Did he buy you a car for the push present ? Or your u 8 months pregnant taking the bus because you fucked a dusty. 😪😪

Budget_Queen · 2020-06-17T17:33:07+00:00

My man almost always makes my plate. If I cook, he serves himself. You won't believe how stoked he is when once a month or so I make one for him.

BungalowBootieBitch · 2020-06-18T01:52:20+00:00

When I was in my senior year of college, I was a year into my then relationship. Between school, my sorority, and my job, I became Suzy homemaker for my ex. I honestly hated it. Rushing home to cook for him because I knew he was going to be moody (I lived in a student apartment so my logic was that I had to cook for him because he didn't live there; so many flaws in my logic honestly). If he would have eaten breakfast and packed food, he wouldn't have depended on chips for lunch. I would tell him maybe eat better food with a regular schedule, but he'd get mad. My dumbass misses him but it was truly like pulling teeth to make him do normal, adult habits.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2020-06-18T01:53:14+00:00

The terms this woman is using makes me think she has stumbled across FDS!

And it has gotten her thinking about her relationship dynamic.

This is a good thing.

At first there may be denial, but in time, there may be progress.

I wish all the best for this woman.

sweatydeath · 2020-06-17T23:26:52+00:00

L M A O🤣🤣😭😭

thedevinefemme · 2020-06-18T01:20:04+00:00

Damn called tf out 👀

2020-06-26T17:41:57+00:00

Lmaoooo

Nightingale1820 · 2020-06-17T17:19:29+00:00

Wow way to tear another woman down!

It’s not her fault some lowlife male chose to abandon his wife/gf and their innocent child.

Title	PickMes Have No Self Awareness At All 🤣
Author	Garbageaccount21045
Upvotes	1204
Comments	62
Date	June 17, 2020 2:46 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hasjs8/pickmes_have_no_self_awareness_at_all/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/pickmes-have-no-self-awareness-at-all.691618 https://theredarchive.com/post/691618

Comments