Fellas, how do we restore balance?

As a man dating online is incredibly frustrating. I think I’m a reasonably good looking and charming guy. I’ve had some success on hinge. I’ve met some really cool women and had some really fun nights but for the most part I feel like I’m at a fucking job fair. Constantly having to prove my worthiness in a sea of other candidates all doing the same. Rarely do I get the sense that women feel the same pressure to impress outside of being attractive which is a relative quality. I understand that most women are probably swamped in messages and matches that they can afford to be extremely picky to the point where a guy they would normally have interest in doesn’t even get consideration on the app. I spoke to an old fling of mine and asked her how many likes she gets a day. She said anywhere between 20-40! And she only had 2 pictures lol. So my question is how can we fix this issue? My initial thought is Hinge shouldn’t be the primary way of meeting people BUT it is the easiest way to start a conversation (I’m not the type to just walk up to a cute girl at a bar or the gym). We as men must collectively stand up and say no more! We will no longer be forced to be funny’ thoughtful, romantic, and tall all before the first date! We can do this guys we just have to be less horny!