So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about him

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-13T16:35:35+00:00

Removed. Remember to block out Reddit screen names.

Kimpractical · 2020-11-13T13:46:10+00:00

Why is he on a female subreddit asking for compliments? Men can compliment each other too. And I have given a lot of compliments to men in the past. you get compliments when you do things that are worth complimenting. Like taking care of your physical appearance or being a good person/working hard. Guaranteed these scrotes going around begging for compliments do nothing to earn them

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-11-13T14:14:40+00:00

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maracat1989 · 2020-11-13T13:31:41+00:00

That sub is called TwoXChromosomes not FragileMaleEgo

Platipus6 · 2020-11-13T13:58:19+00:00

"Didn't think about that"

Printing out this comment and framing it. First time a male has told the truth 😂

Novemberinthechair · 2020-11-13T13:59:44+00:00

First off, he shouldn't be on that sub, but I've know it's been run by dudes forever...I think the mods are male too. Women shouldn't go there. Secondly, I hate how he tells her to compliment men like a mom telling a child, "Don't forget to brush your teeth!"

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-11-13T14:16:44+00:00

"I know your whole life you've been told the reason for your existence is to cater to men, but why don't you try doing it a little more sometimes just for me, okay sweetie?" please go die

Journalist_Full · 2020-11-13T14:47:20+00:00

I used to give compliments to strangers at the mall a lot when I worked there. When I would give girls compliments, they would smile and shine the way out the door or they would compliment me back in a friendly and casual way.

Men though? They would stop, ask for my number. Ask if I had a boyfriend. One was bold enough to ask if I wanted to go to the bathroom with him. One man even stayed after hours and followed me to my car and proceeded to beg for a kiss before I go. I'm not exaggerating btw. Also last time I gave a man other than my bf a compliment.

When men learn that compliments are not a tool for sex, is the day I will start complimenting them again.

I am bi, and I love men and women and think people are just beautiful and deserving of compliments.

But like...I would literally get harassed if I complimented men so...

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-11-13T13:49:06+00:00

I complimented male family members in the past, they take it like a permission for being rude towards me.

tossed_salad100 · 2020-11-13T15:05:31+00:00

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Innanaspeaks · 2020-11-13T14:22:16+00:00

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veruscka · 2020-11-13T14:26:08+00:00

“Yeah no you’re right I didn’t think about that!” 🙄🙄🙄

Karolin99_Ger · 2020-11-13T15:26:30+00:00

Do that and it's a guaranteed way to get harrassed / sexually assaulted /stalked or screamed at for leading him on at least once...

oh_shit_oh_fuck · 2020-11-13T13:51:36+00:00

Pfffft whenever I compliment men they either a) hurl abuse at me because of their deep self-hatred or b) take it as permission to pursue me sexually

give men an inch, and they’ll take a mile

throwmefaraway85 · 2020-11-13T16:07:52+00:00

Men have openly admitted to developing crushes and obsessions with women that gave them compliments for YEARS after the fact

From something as simple as saying they like their shoes or shirt

This can be dangerous for women, a strange man can read way too much into it and follow you home because he thinks you're leading him on. They are often so incapable of telling the difference between being nice and flirting. EVERYTHING has to be sexual for them, it's so annoying. Can't even say hi or have a conversation without their dicks getting involved

I just don't feel safe giving men compliments. I wish I did, because sometimes I genuinely want to, in the same way I do women. I want to brighten someone's day

Men should start complimenting each other more. Why do so many men go years without compliments when other men are perfectly capable of doing so?

It's not women's responsibility to compliment men

thruwuwayy · 2020-11-13T14:13:46+00:00

Fuck complimenting men. We exclusively supporting women now

tossed_salad100 · 2020-11-13T15:21:30+00:00

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tossed_salad100 · 2020-11-13T15:35:37+00:00

"Yeah, no you're right"

Of course she is.

I few days ago I commented on witchesvspatriarchy to say that men deserve to be judged more harshly for voting for trump because they voted for him at higher rates than women did. And I got downvoted. So I commented to say that now I was sure the sub was run by men. And 3 minutes later I was banned. Theyre such fragile little morons.

shellofthemshellf · 2020-11-13T15:03:46+00:00

TwoX has not been about women for a long time. FDS is the only truly women’s subreddit left, and I’m sure its days are numbered. Because Reddit hates women. There’s spaces outside of Reddit for women though, including the FDS website. ❤️

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-13T15:59:52+00:00

The patriarchy already gives men everything they want without working for it. That's more then enough of a compliment.

guacamole1987 · 2020-11-13T16:11:31+00:00

Dated a few guys that would turn a convo around just to make it about themselves... typical. Gross. I am reading this in one guy in particular’s voice and I wouldn’t be surprised if it ended up being him (hi Jeremy! 🤣). These types are WILLFULLY ignorant to a woman’s plight but still find a way to want something selfishly regardless of dangers because nOT aLL mEN ArE bAd.

VelvetKnuckleduster · 2020-11-13T16:18:23+00:00

I feel uncomfortable giving compliments to men because they interpret it as sexual interest 100% of the time and may react unpredictably when rejected.

I'm not going to change my behaviour just so it can come back to bite me, men can change theirs if they want things to be different.

polardonut · 2020-11-13T16:26:04+00:00

I really do hate when I see comments/posts about men wanting women to give them compliments. Like no. Why don't u ask other men to give u compliments??? Why does it have to be women? And when u bring up the argument that men think that u r hitting on them when u r just being nice, they come back with typical bUt nOt aLl mEn. Ffs... go away with that garbage. Women don't own anything to ur pathetic ass. Get over urself....

suspended_animation_ · 2020-11-13T16:25:00+00:00

Men hated receiving compliments from me. So I stopped

CompanyUnusual · 2020-11-13T16:24:30+00:00

That girl is showing some light PickMe tendencies. She's aware that complimenting men leads to unwanted attention, but, at the same time, she wishes to feel more comfortable complimenting them?

And, I'm going to be a little bit mean here and assume that majority of her male "friends" only care about getting into her pants. Hopefully, she'll learn better.

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LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-13T16:40:01+00:00

Why? So he can rape me and get away with it because I clearly wanted it, why else would I compliment him?!

Fuck that, they can go die. I’m not taking that kind of risk to make some random asshole feel good.

Title	So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about him
Author	tossed_salad100
Upvotes	140
Comments	52
Date	November 13, 2020 1:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jtgikp/so_when_will_two_x_get_banned_for_being/
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