These people ignore reality

millennialpink2000 · 2021-01-29T16:10:17+00:00

100% of pregnancies result from a man's orgasm yet it's all her fault she got pregnant. Right.

Hennyyenni · 2021-01-29T15:47:34+00:00

These dudes act like they don’t choose to come in and impregnate women. 😂 also pretend like single dads don’t get 10000 compliments for doing their own child’s hair but imagine If a single mom posted cutting their sons hair they would be blasted to hell and back

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-01-29T16:26:11+00:00

If only these shitheads could sit through 10 divorce proceedings involving kids. 😂😂😂

NEWSFLASH: 99.99999% of the time, child custody/visitation is jointly drafted and consented to by both parties. Judges aren’t running around making those decisions unless it’s contested, which it almost never is.

Men LOVE their sweetheart deal. They specifically REQUEST every other weekend, Thanksgiving and 4th of July weekend because they love getting the glory of being an “involved” father while also making minimal sacrifices to their newly single lifestyle. They do virtually no parenting in these arrangements but somehow still want to argue for equal say. Make that make sense, y’all 🥴

fattestdink · 2021-01-29T15:44:57+00:00

“Women get to choose who they have sex with!” And men don’t? What is the point there?

ETA: lmao @ whoever decided to PM me talking about “make him glove up”. First of all, how is it the woman’s sole responsibility to use birth control methods? A grown ass man doesn’t need to be “made” to wear a condom, he makes a choice and needs to deal with the consequences of that choice.

Secondly, don’t come into my PMs with some shit you know is going to be downvoted to hell. Say it in public or keep it to yourself.

souredskittles · 2021-01-29T16:14:35+00:00

I’ve heard this argument before. They say the woman is at fault because she had all the options. Meaning he only had one option of who to have sex with. They tell on themselves. They literally say they settle with whomever they can so it’s not their fault what baby mama they chose.

This is the same reason they cite divorce rates as being the woman’s fault. My dude no one told you to settle but you were being a desperate sac of shit.

This is why you throw out men who don’t put in the work to court you.

Altowhovian93 · 2021-01-29T17:27:53+00:00

Uuuuugggggghhhhh CPS worker here. Court is not that biased. They work with who shows up to court and puts on the work. It’s usually mom because dad ran off and she doesn’t know how to contact him.

mynameisrominka · 2021-01-29T16:15:10+00:00

Omg the headache. You can put the reality in their face, they'd still refuse to see it. Don't preach to the deaf, you time is gold.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-29T16:29:30+00:00

"what data?"

Men who want custody get it 70% of the time even when they are abusers. I've even known women who were forced by the court to continue to see their fathers that raped them and molested them as children.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-01-29T16:16:33+00:00

I wonder if anybody actually does have stats on how many men fight for custody in any meaningful way, compared to the number who slink off and hide from the child support office. Because we all know from the people in our own real lives that deadbeats grossly outnumber fighter dads.

I have known one actual fighter dad, he was trying to protect his teen daughters from the revolving middle aged party boys his ex-wife was letting party around their daughters in her home. He was genuinely high value, and would have roasted all the whiner men who make children, abandon them, then whine and act pitiful.

7Cuervos · 2021-01-29T17:29:25+00:00

Petition for castration.

berrylikeova · 2021-01-29T18:38:36+00:00

Cause there’s no way he manipulated, tricked her, coerced her or forced her into bed without bc right!?!? 🤦‍♀️

FrequentPoetry · 2021-01-29T16:29:48+00:00

oh no not the court system argument AHAHAHAHAHAHA

Mcccy · 2021-01-29T17:06:19+00:00

These are a lot of words for " BuT Mah PP pRobLemS"

frogchickenhorse · 2021-01-29T22:15:38+00:00

My parents were married for 25yrs before they divorced and from the age of 10 I lived with mum full time with every second weekend at my dad - who neglected me. I had to feed and entertain myself. The only out was whatever religious thing he was into at that time (I was not allowed to make noise or fidget). He paid $7 a fortnight for child support. He soon started another family and even that piddling amount was less. My sister fell pregnant a year later accidentally- the pill failed after she became sick when living with her bf. So I got to see everything she went thru for the next 4 yrs as she moved back home. The reason my parents split was dad cheating several times, and sister’s bf was extremely immature asshole low life.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-29T16:13:45+00:00

The court system is not biased, and gladly hands joint custody to the majority of fathers who ask for it.

More men and pickmes lying their way through life.

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2021-01-30T06:38:22+00:00

There was a man I worked with that was a deadbeat dad. Constantly bitched about the child support he had to pay, talked shit about the mom and called his teenage daughter a slut. He even said that if his ex asked for more money he would go out and get 10 women pregnant, because apparently he thinks the government will let his ass off the hook if he has "too many children to pay for". And then he had the audacity to complain about how unfair the courts are to men and that his daughter doesn't love him (blamed his ex for that too).

_mooness · 2021-01-30T01:52:49+00:00

Pathetic low life doesn’t understand the meaning of responsibility. Fucking scum.

PrimarySupply · 2021-01-29T18:27:23+00:00

The thing is most men pretend they’re someone they’re not to fool women into having a kid with them and once they do they change into dead beats, so it’s not the women’s fault. She couldn’t have possibly predicted the future and he seemed genuine before.

JpopAnimeGirl_420 · 2021-01-29T20:27:26+00:00

Women and girls don't get a choice to decide who to sleep with because men lie and pretend to be something they're not untill they get what they want out of us. Then once they do NOW they want you to know they really wasn't shit from the jump. After all the months, all the lies, and all the pretending to be a good guy, it all a ploy just to get you emotionally invested enough to wanna sleep with them and then after you've slept with them now they wanna switch up and show you who they REALLY were from jump street.This is also how men gaslight us, they pretend they like you, respect you, and care about you just long enough to have sex with you and then show you who they really are after. They went from being a good guy( which was a lie from the start) to going back to being the asshole (who he really is ) and women see that dramatic change and think it's because of them. No sweetheart, they just finally obtained what they wanted from you so now they don't have to pretend to be good to impress you anymore. They can go back to being who they actually are now because they already hit it, so if you stay or leave it doesn't matter. The fact that men will say they do this to women because "If I was honest about what I wanted from you you wouldn't give me the time of day" but won't admit that they do this when confronted about it by women is why we should just stop dealing with them.

Title	These people ignore reality
Author	Hennyyenni
Upvotes	291
Comments	45
Date	January 29, 2021 3:43 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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