They really don't see a difference between rape and infidelity

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-07-24T20:49:16+00:00

Yeah, reminds me of my ex who broke up with me after I was sexually assaulted. He broke up with me because apparently I cheated on him. The worst thing about this whole situation? I thought I really did cheat just because I knew the person.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-07-24T18:15:19+00:00

So his girlfriend was gang raped and it affected his sense of masculinity?

What? What an asshole.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-07-24T16:13:58+00:00

Long story short I got banned from that subreddit for asking OP wtf is wrong with him for not seeing that his then-girlfriend was clearly raped. Never mind how pathetic it is that he made it about him and couldn't get over it decades later. So tired of reddit sometimes and the fact that this is not only normalized but he's apparently the 'victim' here.

Stay far away from men who don't know the definition of rape or even worse blame or question women's experiences of it.

huevos_and_whiskey · 2021-07-24T16:50:55+00:00

WTAF.

She was assaulted by two guys, called him up in tears to try to get support from this guy who claimed he loved her, and this is his takeaway? Really?! Can we just exile these scrotes already, please? I don’t want to be on the same planet as them.

pikachu4me · 2021-07-24T22:41:59+00:00

Recovery? What is he recovering from? I can't with scrotes and their victim mentality. That poor girl, I hope she's healed and living a good life.

Curiousquest2 · 2021-07-24T16:37:23+00:00

Hmmm all this after 20 years? It feels like he’s looking for pity/sympathy. Maybe he saw how phenomenal she’s doing and it triggered him? I can’t really trust these “woe is me” posts. Scrotes ALWAYS will lie to make themselves look better than they really are.

addie_berry · 2021-07-24T17:21:53+00:00

from OP’s comments “One thing lead to another and my impression is the testosterone of these guys took over” 🤢🤢🤢

So not only does he attempt to frame himself as the victim in an incident where this young girl was violently attacked, he then simultaneously absolves the attackers of any responsibility because tEsTOstOrONE. He then goes on to mentioned how the men were just acting out what they’ve seen in porn, framing that as a viable explanation to excuse them traumatizing this young girl for the rest of her life.

Leave it to a scrote to even in the most abhorrent scenarios, stand in solidarity with other men. He could have easily blamed the rapists for his shortcomings as a compassionate human but instead he blames their traumatized victim.

I shudder to once again see that there are men out there who seriously think like this. Once more the importance of vetting as I can’t imagine bonding with a man and talking about life altering events and he chimes in with this 🤢🤢🤢

arnezuara · 2021-07-24T17:55:05+00:00

I still have a hard time comprehending how they manage to blame the woman for getting raped, unable to move past the fact that they now hate her.

It’s like their view of this shiny, innocent, favorite object (a woman) has been tainted forever.

How can someone have no sympathy? How?

catlady4u · 2021-07-24T17:16:14+00:00

This scrote made it all about himself. He is the type to demand this woman to let him act out his rpe fantasies on her, because she 'let' other men rpe her and she is denying him acting out his fantasy.

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-07-24T17:23:39+00:00

Yuck. First of all what is up with men and their twisted version of “masculinity”?

Fuckbois be regularly using women for sex and tossing them aside and this is glorified and celebrated BUT now that two of them raped your girlfriend you feel that ‘it’s incredibly emasculating to envision her being casually used by two guys who tossed her aside once they had their way’.

Second of all, get some bloody therapy. Both of you.

UnpeacefulLily · 2021-07-24T18:31:14+00:00

10 bucks says he was horrible to her in the last year of their relationship. He victim blamed that poor girl.

But he claims he didn't break up with her because she's his best friend. Meanwhile he goes ahead to say he didn't break up because she was only support system.

So he didn't break up with her because he wanted her to support him the last year of high school. Then tosses her aside for someone new in college.

Scrotes really tell on themselves.

Latter_Ostrich2875 · 2021-07-24T22:49:30+00:00

He cares more about his “masculinity” than what his girlfriend went through. Wtf?

driftinglochawe · 2021-07-24T18:18:40+00:00

I wonder if this hadn't been about rape and a 'mere' violent assault would he have felt like this? If this had happened to my partner, friend, or family I would be looking at taking the law into my hands and seeking out the perpetrators, which I know isn't right but I wouldn't be crying victim on Reddit.

sozwrongrobi · 2021-07-24T19:38:04+00:00

What is it with scrotes and their high school obsession? I look back on my time and I’m like “oh my god cringe” but scrotes take it so seriously?! Get a grip seriously, your gf got raped and you’re crying because you got “cheated on” when you were 17?? Everyone got cheated on when they were in high school and no one here is crying

alchemisttrilogy · 2021-07-24T19:55:42+00:00

Disgusting. Poor girl. I hope she is doing better in life

miiju86 · 2021-07-25T11:55:27+00:00

"... even if she had wounded me..." - what the actual fuck!?!!

Really, this one is pure male depravity. Disgusting.

smart-tart23 · 2021-07-24T19:11:34+00:00

What. The. HELL. 🥺

laeriel_c · 2021-07-24T19:56:42+00:00

Wtf did I just read

HexyHag · 2021-07-26T07:55:06+00:00

Can any woman imagine having a life so easy that a tragedy from 20 YEARS AGO that HAPPENED TO SOMEONE ELSE still affects you to this extent? And then they have the audacity to claim that women live on easy mode.

pascalines · 2021-07-27T03:34:00+00:00

Also “I mean, two teenagers banging it out is bound to be good” 🤢🤢🤢

Title	They really don't see a difference between rape and infidelity
Author	Lemon_bars_addiction
Upvotes	448
Comments	43
Date	July 24, 2021 4:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oqszby/they_really_dont_see_a_difference_between_rape/
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