Yikes, girl.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-02-10T17:16:39+00:00

He's still going to call her a hoe after her 21st try at "forgiving him".

kht777 · 2020-02-10T18:20:20+00:00

Yeah lol no ever said she should sleep with the 20 guys, it could be 20 first dates. I feel sorry for her since she could actually meet a great guy on the 20th date. Her loss

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-02-10T17:48:19+00:00

The first woman may or may not be a “hoe” but you are STUPID stupid

FutileDeathStar · 2020-02-10T18:49:13+00:00

Lol. Everyone knows LVM are ABUNDANT. It's honestly a numbers game sometimes - you just have to keep meeting people and being absolutely vicious in your assessment. So yes, that means meeting more men, but it also ups your chances of finding someone decent. Anyone who calls anyone a "ho" is LV.

May26th · 2020-02-10T18:15:33+00:00

This is peak patriarchal brainwashing.

take1990 · 2020-02-10T18:45:51+00:00

Pickmeisha logic

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-10T19:16:57+00:00

I see how Pickmeishas can be very attractive to abusers.

bitchbaby1 · 2020-02-10T19:26:08+00:00

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Left-Comment · 2020-02-10T19:14:25+00:00

I laughed hard here.

Girl likes to suffer.

lay-knee · 2020-02-10T21:14:10+00:00

Some girls never see option number 3, which is to stay single until someone worth your time comes along.

grimreapersdtr · 2020-02-11T00:10:34+00:00

Ew. 20 chances for a loser?

Hope you get some tax write offs for being the epitome of a non-profit, especially with all those charitable donations, sister.

PM_ME_A_STRAYCAT · 2020-02-10T20:37:30+00:00

Id rather be a hoe than a side chick 🤷‍♀️

BlackThummb · 2020-02-11T00:35:40+00:00

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.

2020-02-10T21:04:58+00:00

Lol, "long as you know you stupid." Ugh, whatever. I worked with a woman who felt the exact same way. Her ex constantly cheated on her, paid nothing in child support for their brand new baby, and mooched every dime he could from her. But she was proud of it....

lucky_ducky_ · 2020-02-10T20:48:09+00:00

I'd rather give myself all the chances to make myself happy than give multiple chances to someone who clearly doesn't value me 💖

StrawberryMoon3 · 2020-02-10T19:46:22+00:00

So young and already so brainwashed

7_0f_9 · 2020-02-11T03:43:34+00:00

False dilemma. If you stay monogamous for a scumbag, he's still gonna go bang 20 other pickmes and bring home the stds to you. There's a 3rd option: keep your legs closed until you find a guy who proves himself. Of course, those who lack self control won't view this as an option. You can live without sex. Compromising yourself for one doouche bag is no better than Compromising yourself for 20.

RadarFemef · 2020-02-10T22:55:29+00:00

“Being a hoe” isn’t a thing. It’s a made-up concept used to shame women who have sex. What’s the equivalent for men? There isn’t one. That’s how you know it’s sexist bullshit

quasarbar · 2020-02-10T17:57:43+00:00

Maybe it's just me but I hate the implication that dating a guy one time ("one chance") implies that you're having sex with him.

Or do women get called "hoes" for merely dating?

Nothing wrong with dating more than one guy at a time as long as you're not committed or dishonest about it.

Edit to add: I personally would never call any woman a "hoe" (or "ho") for any reason and I hope it didn't come across otherwise. I only used the word, in quote marks, because it was in the original post.

I do not think any woman ever deserves to be called a "hoe" if she does have sex with lots of men, but the point I was trying to make was about the implication that she is doing so just by dating lots of men. I dated many men before I ever had sex and I think it's unfortunate and harmful to women that it is assumed that we are having sex, or will have sex, simply because we go out with men. We have every right to refuse no matter how much a man spends on us.

Peace. Love y'all and love this sub!

no_pwname · 2020-02-11T00:45:47+00:00

She's gonna have to learn the hard way then.

GingyTheCatt · 2020-02-11T02:52:57+00:00

Yeah and one of those 20 guys could have been a great person who respects her enough not to make her NEED to give him 20 chances because he got it right the first time.

Shellfishhaha · 2020-02-11T01:17:58+00:00

Hoes arent necessarily stupid either

moonchild2998 · 2020-02-11T03:53:58+00:00

Stay with a man who treats her like trash because dating around makes her a hoe. Interesting logic

ana-moss-city · 2020-02-10T21:15:38+00:00

Honestly, I kinda wanna defend her.

We are told never give up, try again and again, you gotta put the work in, while this works in school/ work, sociaty forgets to mention its not applicable to relationships.

HOPE is a double edged sword, maybe she hopes 20th time would be different, like an experiment changing a variable each time, didn't eddison make a light bulb 1000 times before it finally worked. So much time and labour has been invested, its too painful to cut your losses and take the L.

She'll learn eventually, but shittt is painfull!!!

ivy176 · 2020-02-10T22:14:21+00:00

So "I stick with the devil I know because of how I may appear to other people if I date potentially better guys"? Sad.

If she's talking about sex specifically then a shitty guy may be exposing her to 20 other people's bodies and STIs anyway, men or women..

ilikesoy_ · 2020-02-29T21:01:37+00:00

ok pickmeisha, thanks for letting us know you have no standards or self respect

Title	Yikes, girl.
Author	throwawayz187y
Upvotes	3006
Comments	54
Date	February 10, 2020 5:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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