You what mate?

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-17T20:22:56+00:00

People seem to forget "my body, my choice, my consequences."

If the wife had an abortion that he was against her getting, it's not like he's obligated to be happy about it or to stay with her.

Similarly, if he cheats, she's not obligated to (and hopefully didn't) stay with him. Even if this was a joke, I wouldn't want to stay with someone who thinks this sort of thing is funny.

cisero · 2020-07-17T22:03:47+00:00

100% of unwanted pregnancies are caused by irresponsible ejaculation.

shrno · 2020-07-17T20:56:36+00:00

Let me see if I understand... You decided to sabotage your relationship with your WIFE because she believes (and rightly so) that she gets to decide what to do with her life in a hypothetical scenario? So to punish HER you go ahead and have sex with another woman and possibly contract an STD or get her pregnant while destroying your reputation with mutual friends and family just so they can confirm how dumb you are for having the energy to do all this instead of respecting your wife.

I doubt this gremlin has someone to cheat with and his wife is acting surprised just so he won't throw another tantrum until the divorce papers are done.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-07-17T21:41:46+00:00

Men like this are one of the reasons abortions happen in the first place.

sstena · 2020-07-18T00:36:33+00:00

Men punish women for saying no and setting boundaries.

giftofnocondemnation · 2020-07-17T20:00:00+00:00

Well she can show that admission of adultery to her attorney.

applestorm · 2020-07-17T23:23:13+00:00

LMAO men really hate they can't control women and own their bodies.

LaBaronessa · 2020-07-17T20:41:57+00:00

Lmao apples and oranges bruv

2020-07-17T20:43:28+00:00

This is peak idiot.

bluepisces1980 · 2020-07-18T00:07:07+00:00

I do hope she filed for divorce...

DallasOMalley · 2020-07-17T21:00:05+00:00

That's an idiotic comparison to make.

OrchidLion · 2020-07-18T01:23:57+00:00

"And then she left me all alone and desperate, and when I asked her why, she replied: my body my choice"

Tell-Me-Whyy · 2020-07-17T20:17:25+00:00

What the hell! Just when you think they can't get any crazier

2020-07-17T22:00:12+00:00

This makes me want to fucking scream

peaka25 · 2020-07-17T21:25:31+00:00

This false equivalence. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Abortion seems to bring that out a lot in people.

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-07-17T22:24:44+00:00

What a fucking asshole.

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-07-17T23:05:39+00:00

Amazing that men would think that having an affair is in any way comparable with a medical procedure to end a pregnancy, of which both the pregnancy and the procedure are one of the most difficult things to put your body through as a woman. But okay.

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-07-18T01:41:25+00:00

He's so fucking dumb.

--wellDAM-- · 2020-07-18T02:14:46+00:00

Wow instinctive downvote like a mf

YesNoMaybe87 · 2020-07-17T20:02:32+00:00

🤦‍♀️

k20_4 · 2020-07-18T14:35:02+00:00

I am pro-choice. I'm a young woman, who doesn't want to have kids, who wouldn't subject herself to raising a child at this age and jeopardize my education/career as well as raise a child in poverty.

If I tell a man I'm dating/sleeping with this, about 50% of the time they get upset with me because of the possibility of them getting me pregnant accidentally. They always say "well it's MY sperm, it's half my kid, you don't get to decide." Oh, but I do. Because that baby grows inside of ME. MY attendance at the birth of that child is mandatory, his isn't. MY name is going on the birth certificate no matter what, his might not. If he decides not to be a dad, I'm left a single mother to a child that I didn't want to have. So I do get to make the choice, because it's 100% my body, and Im willing to be that any guy reckless enough to complain about wearing a condom during sex probably wouldn't be a great dad anyway.

Men like the idea of raw sex. They like the idea of getting someone pregnant. Many men don't like the idea of what it takes to be a dad (buying a child's necessities, spending time with a child on nights and weekends, changing diapers, taking them to and attending activities, missing work to care for a sick child, etc.)

button-up · 2020-07-17T23:50:30+00:00

Oh, he thinks he owns her body. 60/40.

brainybrink · 2020-07-18T02:48:12+00:00

So fake... he’s never even seen a naked woman, much less got one to marry him!

Lavender_flow · 2020-07-18T10:03:02+00:00

"my body, my choice, divorce" Bye!

sweatydeath · 2020-07-18T03:20:16+00:00

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FaginRagette · 2020-07-18T09:08:10+00:00

Hang on. She didn't even say that she had an abortion. So in this "joke", it seems like the dude just went ahead and cheated as a punishment for his wife believing that she should have the right to decide to abort if it ever came to that. But yeh clever man brain.

sadcello · 2020-07-19T06:34:57+00:00

You took an oath to not cheat you dumbass. She didn't take an oath to not have an abortion. Fucking male logic whose brain can only understand things literally without context.

Title	You what mate?
Author	canine_american
Upvotes	514
Comments	47
Date	July 17, 2020 7:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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