She admitted to making a false rape accusation

jessemfguire87 · 2014-05-13T16:10:54+00:00

Guys this whole post is just bait to try and make MRA's look bad. And when we don't respond with advocating violence the trolls switch account and start advocating it themselves.

Listen /r/srs, were not like you. you can't trick us into being like you. Because were not you. We don't condone violence. We aren't going to fall for stupid troll post like this.

Nomenimion · 2014-05-13T13:24:45+00:00

You went to trial, and were convicted, and only got six months?

smokeybehr · 2014-05-13T14:28:34+00:00

I'm calling shenanigans. The DA/SA would have made sure that there was enough evidence to go to trial, and not just a "he said/she said" bunch of crap. A good defense attorney would have started by going after the lack of physical evidence (rape kit), and would have destroyed her story on the witness stand, since she accused you of a crime that you didn't commit.

vonthe · 2014-05-13T15:04:56+00:00

This story seems a little fishy.

In what jurisdiction does a rape conviction yield a 6 month sentence?
In most of North America, a criminal conviction requires evidence beyond a reasonable doubt. She said/he said doesn't cut it. There's either more evidence you're not revealing or...

GeneStarwind1025 · 2014-05-13T14:12:26+00:00

What proof did you have on your phone that wasn't good enough?

what_the_whale · 2014-05-13T16:58:18+00:00

OP, you've got one of the most fake-looking stories I've ever seen. It's full of cliches -- not only was the accusation taken to its full conclusion for the most unjust outcome, but the good/evil divide here is perfect. You did nothing at all that could be viewed as wrong, and she did everything wrong. She's like a Disney villain. She was even caught admitting her ruse, opening the door for any malicious soul in r/MR to step up and direct you into the revenge phase, which would give any observing anti-MR folks some fresh fodder to harvest for their manipulative victim narrative.

So if this really did happen to you, OP, I feel extra bad for you, because it's so perfectly awful as to be unbelievable even to the few who are inclined to trust alleged victims of false accusations.

EDIT: Of course, if this did really happen to you, I'm sure you can understand how unbelievable it looks and would be happy to provide some corroborating evidence.

GeneralKraeg · 2014-05-13T14:39:52+00:00

How can you get convicted when there is 0 evidence of the act?

If anything I think your story can be seen as a cautionary tale to not be in an enclosed space with a female you don't know without any witnesses.

slideforlife · 2014-05-13T16:43:33+00:00

advocating violence is stupid, inefficient, self-destructive, and just plain illogical. Blowing off steam by throwing darts at a picture of someone, punching a heavy bad and pretending it's an object of rage, etc, etc. can be cathartic IF it doesn't stimulate a further need to carry out real violence.

2014-05-13T17:01:38+00:00

This story is bullshit. OP, thanks for doing exactly what guys don't need. Fuck off with your fake stories.

Revoran · 2014-05-13T13:40:04+00:00

/r/suicidewatch can help. There are people out there who genuinely care, even if they are half a world away.

This fucking cunt tried to take away your life when she had you falsely convicted. But if you commit suicide now you'll be handing you'll be handing your life to her on a silver platter. Don't give that psychopath the satisfaction, she doesn't deserve it - you do. You deserve to live a great life.

It may not seem like it now, but things can get better. When at a point like this in your life the only way to go is up. You need to spite this bitch by getting away from all the people who wrongly think you are awful and making a fresh start. A fresh start being the best and happiest person you can be. And you have your whole life to do it in. That's the best part - your life isn't over, it's just begun. When you're 21 life feels short and fleeting, but life is the longest damn thing anyone ever does. Don't let this incident define you. You can be more than this, you owe it to yourself.

Edit: Figured it might be a troll, but I don't regret making this post. It's still worth it even if 1 life is saved for every 100 trolls.

MRSPArchiver · 2014-05-13T14:43:36+00:00

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Ding_batman · 2014-05-13T17:02:27+00:00

You're full of shit. Bye.

MrLethalWeapon · 2014-05-13T19:05:27+00:00

I don't believe you.

Evets616 · 2014-05-13T16:29:48+00:00

Lawyer up.

See what would count as admissible evidence in court and get someone to record it or get her to talk about it more.

At the very least you could have your record expunged. And if it goes well, she could be prosecuted or be liable civilly for this.

Don't just vent, you have a chance to fix some things here.

lenspirate · 2014-05-13T19:00:53+00:00

Assuming this isn't a troll post..

Ask your friend to get the confession on record. If he/she is worth his/her salt, then it'll be done.

Then take that to court.

Then let your other "friends" know when you've been cleared. Have a swing at it. Let them know about the sub sequential suicide thoughts. And that they probably had something to do with that. Let them suckle on that guilt for a while.

Since the girl might (if you're lucky) be serving her sentence and that'll in her "ring of friends" it will be obvious that she is a piece of shit and life in general is a social pecking order, and you just hit the lowest peg. You need to piss on a few people to get back up, in particular those that are quick to turn their back on you. I'm sorry if that sounds wrong, but that's how it works.

2014-05-13T15:44:46+00:00

Take it to court, inform this to everyone. I hope the best for you.

capteurdereves · 2014-05-13T16:00:52+00:00

Has it gotten to the point where we need to wear a body cam or tape recorder at all times? Sad times...

Unenjoyed · 2014-05-13T17:57:16+00:00

You had text messages proving you were innocent, and later this girl publicly admitted to a false charge?

In the first case, you had incompetent representation and possible technical issues with the trial. Have you done anything about those issues?

The the latter case, a good lawyer and investigator could find the right people to compel evidence of a false claim. What did you do about that bit?

tehahpriceghhe · 2014-05-13T20:14:07+00:00

Just for all the people accusing this guy of being fishy.

I was accused of rape too after a girl invited me to her house to fuck and she was asking me to choke her. I refused to choke but I said I'd give her some spanking and light face slapping if we used a safe word because we had been talking about this for a week straight and she kept saying she wanted to be dominated and choked. We had a long sexual encounter all of that etc and in the morning I hadnt cum still yet so I ate her out started to fuck her. When I was about to cum she started saying no but I was already cumming and came on her ass. I held her hands down as I did this too. All together in the morning penetrative sex lasted about 30 seconds. When I was leaving she was super cheery and yelled Bye! My name here! and we texted on my way home too. I had friends over that night and talked about the great kinky chick I had met.

Two days passed and I started getting calls from the police. My feminist mom told me to go down to the station and get everything cleared up so I went down and waved my lawyers rights thinking that I could get it all cleared up because I had done nothing wrong. Over the span of an hour interview where I described every detail of the night including the safe word usage they finally got me at the end saying that she had said "no" when I was about to cum inside her and that I still had an orgasm. They ignored the use of the safe word etc.

I found out at trial that she had said the whole night was rape, including the consensual slapping that she reallly seemed to enjoy. She even accused me of doing cocaine off her dresser and having a knife. I also found out that she got fired from her job the morning after we met for not showing and that she was trying to get back with her exboyfriend. That same exboyfriend got her pregnant the weekend after her supposed rape and even though he didnt want the kid she kept it to try to trap him into staying with her. So that guy despite not wanting to stay with his ex is caught for 18 years. He left her and pays child support and shes on to the next guy. She also was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

All of this said I still had to take a plea bargain in court. I was lucky to avoid sex offender registry and sex offender charges but they made me take a plea bargain for simple assault for the slaps that I gave her which had no injury report and no sign of happening because I did them so lightly. I got 2 years probation for this and they even tried to get me to go to sex offender therapy but I wentb ack to court and got that thrown out.

There are many more ppl like the op and me who have been fucked over by a false accusation and gotten a short sentence.

fueledbysatan · 2014-05-13T14:10:32+00:00

I honestly don't know what I would do in your situation. If it were possible for you to move to Canada, I would say thats probably your best bet.

I'm sorry man, i'm sorry people can be such huge pieces of shit and get away with it.

akakaze · 2014-05-13T16:28:33+00:00

OP, I'd encourage you, if you're in the comments to take all the revenge fantasy as just that: fantasizing. Revenge fantasies can be healthy, and if you need to cope, there are definitely worse ways than concocting mental revenge. Beyond that, I encourage you to be in touch with a suicide watch program and not do anything, to yourself or anyone else, that can't be undone.

WomenAreAlwaysRigh · 2014-05-13T16:31:20+00:00

i don't unsderstand what is the point of showing up only saying "i don't believe that". It's a consistent patern.

I would ban those users.

2014-05-13T23:33:47+00:00

I would kill someone who did this to me. That said, no offense OP, story reeks of bs

iMADEthis2post · 2014-05-13T19:51:58+00:00

Other than the MRM no one will really give a fuck until you go on a killing spree.

I'm taking your post at face value without knowing the exact ins and outs but if you have this information now can you file a police complaint if people who heard her are willing to make a statement?

Arcayon · 2014-05-13T16:03:19+00:00

I don't think my mental psyche could handle that type of injustice happening to me. You are a pretty strong person by just continuing. I would immediately seek vengeance.

mergeset · 2014-05-13T20:32:41+00:00

God I fucking hate women so much. Please tell me you fucking murdered that useless cunt. Shit like this happens and people claim that men are free and equal.

Title	She admitted to making a false rape accusation
Author	throwaway141305
Upvotes	103
Comments	93
Date	May 13, 2014 12:07 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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