So true and why is it that way?

mrkeifer86 · 2020-07-30T16:15:42+00:00

Yes I could get a real women.

But that Fleshlight won't hold sex against me for petty bullshit and won't take half my assets when it gets replaced.

LonelyBobcat · 2020-07-30T16:12:18+00:00

Because the ultimate goal of feminism is to control men, whether they realize it or not. They really want us under their thumb. Anytime you have a good argument on something they're doing they turn it into 'GOOD LUCK GETTING LAID WITH THAT ATTITUDE'. So clearly they don't want social equality, what they want is power. They take what they can legally and then basically insist that you won't have sex if you don't give in on other ideas, hoping (or even believing) that other women will hold you to it.

So what happens when you have porn, sex toys, or sex bots? You don't need women, so what can they actually leverage over you? Nothing. So, they need to make these things socially unacceptable, and when they have clearly failed they attempt to sink their claws into it, like when they tried to insist that sex bots need to be able to withdraw consent at random. Imagine if a dildo just deflated at random, women would have fucking melt downs, but apparently men can't have a sex toy. Not because it teaches them about rape, but the reality is they just want to ruin this for men so they feel they might as well go for real women and can still lord that power over them.

And this isn't coordinated, this isn't some conspiracy, its not something discussed, its just a natural instinct of most women because thats just how caveman instincts work.

Honokeman · 2020-07-30T16:52:36+00:00

There is a social explaination (note not a justification, just an explaination)

There is an imbalance in sexual desire, there are more men that want to have sex than women that want to have sex with them. An oversimplification, but sufficient for now.

Given this, if a woman is using a sex toy it is assumed she's using it by choice, that should could be having sex with a man if she wanted to, she's just choosing not to. She is asserting her autonomy, an admirable trait. But if a man is using a sex toy, it's assumed that he's doing so not by choice, but because he cannot find a woman to sleep with. Combine this with societal expectations of men, and how a man's value as a man and a person is tied to his ability to woo women, and a man using a sex toy is seen as a sign of failure and lesser person-ness.

None of this is fair, but it is explainable. Fixing the problem, though, is left as an exercise for the reader.

SageBus · 2020-07-30T18:26:30+00:00

Here's why.

The same people that claim that women get empowered by needing no man are the same people that have this dated notion that sex is somehting a man does to a woman. PERIOD

This is the reason why a woman having a dildo is seen as an empowering move (they also imply a MAN is powerful, and a woman is not), because she has sex without "needing a man" like implying that a man should do that. Also the dated notion that sex is something a man does to a woman WITH HIS PENIS, and nothing else (couple of minutes of oral to get things going down there and that's it).

This is also the reason why men who have a fleshlight are seen as losers, since they "can't get a woman like he is supposed to", and also why bisexuality is frown upon in men (like "well he is pretty much gay") as opposed to women that is seen as "well look at them so brave, they don't need a man" (again implied, like they are supposed to).

This dated notion of sex (aka it being only the man pumping his cock inside her pussy until he cums), is why so many women are sexually frustrated as it's EXPECTED of them. Yeah sure biologically it's all it takes to get a woman pregnant, but there's more to sex than what animals do. I'd like to think is an emotional bonding that unites two people and it's more than a penis inside a vagina.

mhandanna · 2020-07-30T19:23:33+00:00

"I don't need a man"....

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2020/jun/30/physical-play-with-fathers-may-help-children-control-emotions-study-finds

Children whose fathers spend time playing with them at a very early age may find it easier to control their behaviour and emotions, which has a beneficial impact as they get older and start school, according to a new study from Cambridge.

No one ones to address the elephant in the room:

85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.

Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracucricular activities.
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census]
90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behaviour, Vol 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. [US D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows f for all God’s Children]
70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [US Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [US D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]

NOTE: Not to put any single parents down, shout out all to the single parents out there kicking ass

Northify · 2020-07-30T16:33:17+00:00

Haha jokes on them men can use both depending if he’s into it anal stimulation.

myprivateaccount12 · 2020-07-30T17:59:05+00:00

They lose their power once sex becomes accessible

jp2020isnuts · 2020-07-30T19:38:27+00:00

Because women are for female independence and empowerment but not male independence. So many women have a mindset that men are helpless and couldn't survive without a woman yet ive met SO many women who can't cook for anything while their boyfriends could be a chef.

I personally don't care if women feel that way. Doesn't change my life. I'm open to a relationship with a good woman comes along. But in the meantime but perfectly content as is. I'm beginning to realize its easier without a woman, cheaper too. Lol. Its sad but true. Now with women from different countries this mainly does not apply. I'm only referring to American women.

NekoiNemo · 2020-07-30T18:10:39+00:00

Because if they don't diminish men for that, if sex toys for men will become as widely acceptable as ones for women... A lot of men my opt to not deal with female's BS if you can achieve the same sexual pleasure by yourself.

Kebabhantel · 2020-07-30T18:06:29+00:00

“Incel”...

Boarman21 · 2020-07-30T17:52:08+00:00

double standards man, they’re killing me

TomBergerocker · 2020-07-30T18:56:59+00:00

What if you're a man with a dildo, asking for a friend

RoastedReviews · 2020-07-30T19:16:58+00:00

To keep power over you, women must make you believe you're less of a man for choosing anything other then them. Most men put "p*ssy on a pedestal" without even realizing it. Chase your goals, not women. They will follow.

memesplaining · 2020-07-30T17:01:43+00:00

It's like shunning men is respectable for women but shunning women is punishable by death

Hackars · 2020-07-30T19:46:56+00:00

This double standard exists because people know that when a woman has a dildo it's not because she can't get sex while same is less likely to hold true for a man with a pocket pussy. By the same token that the first double standard exists for, the slut double standard also exists with men being praised for being able to lay a lot of women and women being shamed for the same with men because, again, we know how easy it is to get sex as both genders respectively.

Burntskullcandy · 2020-07-30T16:49:34+00:00

Because women by and large have no problem finding a partner, with little to no skill, so masturbation is self-fulfillment. Men need a small about of skill to find a girl so masturbation is a consolation prize.

BlueOctave · 2020-07-30T16:37:17+00:00

Because... "A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock"

maddisser101 · 2020-07-30T18:10:49+00:00

I think this is more so the case because it is a lot easier for women to get laid and way harder for men to get laid.

banammockHana · 2020-07-30T17:11:49+00:00

Needs more jpeg.

superjj18 · 2020-07-30T18:24:06+00:00

Who cares what other people think tho?

noleague · 2020-07-30T19:03:35+00:00

Still rather have sex then fuck a plastic tube

2020-07-30T19:07:18+00:00

Shut up mom !

fmpo · 2020-07-30T19:12:52+00:00

Because society demands men define their value by sexual conquest. It's why men act so desperate with women, why men are sexually aggressive to women in ways that hurt everybody, and so on.

alc0 · 2020-07-30T19:15:24+00:00

The woman who uses a dildo could very easily go out and find a guy to sex her.

The guy who uses the whatever the equivalent can not find a girl to sex.

0galaxy0candy0 · 2020-07-30T19:16:18+00:00

I'm so glad I've never known women who think like that. Really hope it stays like that.

Ozzy_Cortes · 2020-07-30T19:30:44+00:00

Who cares what Women say about this. You cannot get a STD or a Women pregnant with a fleshlight so it's a win win! Bust all the nuts you want.

tommy29016 · 2020-07-30T19:31:03+00:00

Get a gay guy to help you out.

eldredge_ape · 2020-07-30T19:32:41+00:00

The lesson here is Do you, bro. Who cares what irrelevant people think?

skgody · 2020-07-30T19:45:06+00:00

The problem here is they are asking women for their unbiased opinion.

FearkTM · 2020-07-30T20:02:52+00:00

What about... The reverse objects on the gender?

DudeDale · 2020-07-30T20:03:13+00:00

"Lol what a pervert"

REAPER-058_ · 2020-07-30T20:18:16+00:00

You “do” you

2020-07-30T20:28:34+00:00

It should definetely be viewed as the same, simple as that.

TracyMorganFreeman · 2020-07-30T20:33:45+00:00

Because women like that have nothing else to offer in a relationship but sex so want to control men.

ISpyAnIncel · 2020-07-30T20:35:45+00:00

... beep ... beep ... beeep...

ShoehornJackson · 2020-07-30T20:36:50+00:00

Didnt you get the memo? Girls are 🍬🍭🌈Magical💵🧻?

IIts ok to replace a man with a dildo, no loss there... but replace a woman with a fleshlight? That just sad.

Daksexual · 2020-07-30T20:43:03+00:00

You won't like the reason why. Women can get laid every day no issue, so to choose not to instead to please herself is a virtue.

A man, on the other hand has to work to find sex. When a man goes as far as getting. a fleshlight it signifies what is said in the photo, that he tried and failed and has accepted that.

Pecuthegreat · 2020-07-30T17:26:23+00:00

I personally think both are undesirable but I can understand more why a young man in the West would go for that than a young woman in the West.

Then again, I am a man so

2020-07-30T18:31:53+00:00

I'd rather date an android made specifically to love me, then to want to go out with assholes likes that

brazueirinho · 2020-07-30T20:12:06+00:00

What if we just stopped defending masturbation all together?

Iewoose · 2020-07-30T18:15:24+00:00

I personally have yet to see a woman who makes fun of a man for using sex toys so this one is a bit silly.

Matt_the_Alien · 2020-07-30T20:44:10+00:00

I don’t know but I also don’t care

2020-07-30T19:01:21+00:00

Both are a little pathetic IMO

mandleman · 2020-07-30T20:18:34+00:00

Let me just write a few paragraphs about why women are bad because someone on the internet called me a geek for fucking a plastic pussy.

You're all fucking pathetic

MrBagnall · 2020-07-30T18:15:39+00:00

Both are losers

galethog · 2020-07-30T15:43:12+00:00

Because for a man having sex is seen as conquering a women. It's part of our Warrior Instinct.

Title	So true and why is it that way?
Author	SandorYarpClegane
Upvotes	1932
Comments	177
Date	July 30, 2020 3:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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