Both red pill and blue pill dating advice is centered around what a man should do in order to attract women to him. What both of these pills do not cover are the tools needed to fundamentally develop a relationship with the woman. Like allopathic medicine, they are designed to treat the symptoms, not the underlying disease.

Whether you believe either one works for you, they will give you only validation, not a relationship. A relationship is earned not by manipulation but by exposing your true self to another and finding someone willing to equally expose themselves to you.

Unfortunately the underlying problem with relationships in the modern world is that most people are not interested in exposing themselves but rather bartering for validation. In the meantime, the only means of developing a genuine relationship that I have encountered is appropriately filtering for people who are genuinely interested in one. I have yet to discover any means of developing a genuine relationship with people that involves changing your behavior to accommodate their filters. When the red pill or blue pill suggest doing so, it is only functional as a means of retaining attention so that you can progress to conversation about the actual relationship.