Over many years of both casually and seriously dating I noticed how right most of the dating advice was. They were right all along and all of these patterns they warned and got me excited about were simply confirmed in real life.

It's just funny how I came across this article and saw all these patterns that I noticed to be perfectly described by a woman herself:

https://www.scienceofpeople.com/tips-for-dating-women/

What catched my eye the most:
1. Women often mean the exact opposite of what they say and it's even weirder that if you obey certain demands or wishes it repels them. Being self-confident on the other hand and just doing your thing despite the opposite opinion from her will make you more attractive. Perfect example: a haircut that she doesn't like but you do.
2. Social proof is probably the one and most important thing a woman wants to see in you. The women I met almost always want to know about my friends. A perfect example is a woman losing her interest when I said I make music but by myself and not in a band. She was initially excited that I like to make music.

The reason why women are often so contradictory and complex communicatively is in my opinion because they are the selectors. And the more diversity and randomness they put into choosing who to mate with, the more selective pressure, diversity and progress men will develop. From an evolutionary perspective.

My question in this context is: why is dating advice always be considered sexist? No matter how slightly we psychoanalyze women it will always be downplayed and shamed. Certain tendencies are simply very frequent and can most often only be recognized by men because they are more aware of such behaviors. In my opinion men rationalize relationships much more and are excellent at pattern recognition.

So what do you say?