A very normal woman will say things like:

I’m looking for a man who’s over six feet tall, makes over six figures, is good in bed or well endowed, must be charming, fit, etc. and then even when she finds this man she will disqualify him for the most mundane reason and be praised for it by most of society outside of the manosphere.

But if a man said things like: I’m looking for a woman under 35, who’s good in bed with big tits or large pussy lips, who’s submissive, fit, etc. and then after finding her disqualified her for some mundane reason this guy would be absolutely shamed by the vast majority of society for his preferences and for dumping her over something trivial.

Society is extremely gynocentric and it’s brainwashed into everyone that women are angels who can do no wrong and that men are the bad guys.

The only real solution for men to thrive in the modern sexual marketplace and get what they want is to take on some mild sociopathic traits and literally not care what anyone in society says or thinks, especially women, feminists, vegans, and blue pilled muppets.