"I want a guy with a sensitive side"

Zippo-Cat · 2020-05-07T13:21:55+00:00

empathetic gender btw

FeedMeChechens · 2020-05-07T14:48:39+00:00

Got dumped by my fiance after I was stupid enough to tell her about being raped as a kid. Bitches don't care about you, they just like to virtue signal and preted.

checkmateathiests27 · 2020-05-07T15:19:34+00:00

I unironically tell men who have suffered sexual violence of any kind to just keep it to themselves. People will and do judge you.

bann2787 · 2020-05-07T14:13:47+00:00

We all know its socially acceptable for women to cry, lock themselves in their rooms for an entire day, eat a fuckload of ice cream and get fatter for a few days, turn everything around on you and just generally throw childish tantrums.

If you dont accept that as a man, you arent supportive and you are an asshole, ask any woman who's man doesnt put up with that.

God forbid men go through something and need a bit of support or give a woman constructive criticism, fucking hell breaks loose.

codedinblood · 2020-05-07T13:24:17+00:00

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kboogie82 · 2020-05-07T15:31:10+00:00

And we are not supposed to hate women? I'm a nurse and the fucking shit I hear from these bitches every fucking day it's unreal. "I don't have to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other"-Al Bundy

SimpleEngineer3 · 2020-05-07T13:26:39+00:00

Good for him for getting rid of her, hope he finds someone better.

EggonTurdaryen · 2020-05-07T17:03:29+00:00

The original post.

ThinkerBunny · 2020-05-07T17:16:27+00:00

How dare he be upset he got raped, only women can get upset over that!! I have to wonder what this woman's take would be about a man wanting to leave his rape victim girlfriend because his image of her was shattered.

2020-05-07T14:43:18+00:00

Proof again that women care more about the facade than what's inside.

cohost3 · 2020-05-07T17:16:22+00:00

Anyone else think this is fake?

Suck-Less · 2020-05-07T22:28:35+00:00

For some strange reason, this whole thread is lacking in female participation.

Peacheslikeyou · 2020-05-07T17:45:49+00:00

That woman is awful, she also isn't every single woman in the world. Some people bad. Amazing.

Godfist04 · 2020-05-07T13:24:50+00:00

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TrickyDickyRick · 2020-05-07T13:47:02+00:00

Whoever believed women saying they liked sensitive guys is dumb. Why would a woman EVER go with a man who basically talks like a woman.

Physiologist21 · 2020-05-07T14:20:03+00:00

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LeJacquelope · 2020-05-07T21:26:58+00:00

But the bright side is she got eaten alive by the commenters.

sivarias · 2020-05-07T13:29:02+00:00

This chick is probably getting raked over the coals right now in AITA for posting this.

liyskteee · 2020-05-07T15:48:13+00:00

All women are like this sadly. They don’t like weakness, and what he described was a massive weakness.

I reckon he spilt the beans a bit early tho, that’s probs something to drop 5 years in rather than 5 months in.

I wouldn’t tell a friend I’ve known for 5 months something like that, girlfriend no different.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-05-07T13:22:23+00:00

That's not a sensitive side. Thats psychological trauma.

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throwawayhouseissue1 · 2020-05-07T20:17:11+00:00

imo i think girls want a guy with a "sensitive side" that he doesnt share/open up, and she is mystified by his privacy and wanting to get into his "sensitive side". but if said guy does open up, the mystery and excitement is gone for her lol

siberiansummer · 2020-05-07T15:43:32+00:00

Oh wowwww. Damn. That was a disturbing read. What a shame. She is very immature, I feel so bad for this guy

meditr · 2020-05-07T18:52:47+00:00

Well the girl is obviously a pretty shitty person. But it's not like there aren't men who would do the same. You can't take one example of one woman acting a particular way and then dump it on the entire gender.

This also isn't a guy with a 'sensitive side' it's someone sharing something traumatic that happened to him. Guys who are not stereotypically sensitive can share these types of things without being pigeonholed as sensitive as their defining trait.

Sensitive typically implies, like, I don't know, I see the sensitive guitar player, or the guy who goes out of his way to do romantic gestures often.

The kind of confessions in that arise in a relationship is just what happens, you get to know someone and all their secrets, and what their past was like when you date them. Honestly if that woman acted that way then he should break up with her and be glad to be rid of her, he deserves much better.

2020-05-08T01:31:55+00:00

Dont date bitches

madcockatiel · 2020-05-07T20:36:00+00:00

Damn this is pretty fucked. Lets not pretend that men on here don't constantly crow about how they'd never date a rape victim tho.

MountianMan8282 · 2020-05-07T14:24:45+00:00

No you want a girlfriend with a dick lol

sivarias · 2020-05-07T14:22:42+00:00

You're acting as though men don't regularly leave women after they're sexually assaulted

PickleLine · 2020-05-07T17:26:53+00:00

There are better examples of the sensitivity double standards. I wouldn't be with a woman who was raped either.

2020-05-07T16:18:44+00:00

Meanwhile I operated a rehab center for broken men out of my apartment. That guy would have gotten a full body massage and his dick sucked. I’d probably be online making him a calming essential oil blend rn.

SeemedGood · 2020-05-07T21:21:09+00:00

That is a really poor example of a human in general.

poppy_blu · 2020-05-07T23:07:07+00:00

Nice troll

Willow-girl · 2020-05-08T04:22:51+00:00

... Said no woman ever.

Nacruno96 · 2020-05-07T19:06:03+00:00

Actually I knew this girl was stupid. Every girl that puts dominance as a positive attribute is a brainfucked idiot

pinkgreenpurple · 2020-05-07T23:46:25+00:00

Your logic is bullshit. Just because ONE stupid 20 year old wrote this with antiquated gender prejudices, does not mean ALL women are like this.

I am a woman and my ex bf told me a similar trauma and I never held it against him. I would never hold it against anyone. I don’t laugh at people when they are down and I don’t exploit other vulnerabilities. This 20 year old girl/kid is an embarrassment.

This girl saying shit about him being less macho? She clearly is uneducated. Smart people don’t think this way. Also doesn’t entirely sound western tbh.

When men open up to me, or cry or show any vulnerability, I take it very seriously because I know what it is to hurt.

This girl is an idiot but also too young to deal with this kind of thing, clearly. That poor guy.

Title	"I want a guy with a sensitive side"
Author	NietzscheMustacheCum
Upvotes	101
Comments	154
Date	May 7, 2020 1:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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