Marrying Redpill Men

DemonConsulting · 2018-11-17T13:24:53+00:00

I don't think anyone on RPW wants to marry a TRP poster from reddit. They have way too much baggage and negative/defensive attitudes, when you can find the same positive qualities they offer with well adjusted men irl. TRP is also anti-marriage so they pretty much disqualify themselves from this dating pool.

As for men discovering TRP after marriage, there seem to be a few horror stories on MRP and AskTRP where someone torpedoed a perfectly good LTR or marriage, but as a whole men discover TRP when they're dissatisfied with their love life. So in most cases the relationship was already doomed if the husband was searching for advice online.

legaladvicequest · 2018-11-17T12:48:15+00:00

RPW don't date TRPers.

Every now and then a woman would come into RPWi saying her SO had found TRP, and she was usually told to run for the hills.

goatismycopilot · 2018-11-17T13:11:25+00:00

Nobody wants to marry a terper, they all sound angry, humorless, and too much work.

Willow-girl · 2018-11-17T13:40:53+00:00

I think there is a difference between marrying a manly man and one who discovers TRP and starts LARPing as one to try to manipulate you (or others) into having sex.

gasparddelanuit · 2018-11-17T14:04:18+00:00

Swallowing the RP, whether that means being a TRPer, RPW, MGTOW, MRA, PUA or none of these, essentially just means that you believe there are profound biological differences between the genders; that, generally speaking, there is a male nature and female nature that are distinct. It does not describe how you respond to this information. You could be a faithful married RPer or a single RPer who spins plates. There is not one prescribed mode of behaviour. The RP is simply about uncovering the underlying dynamics between the genders. It's up to the individual how they decide to use that information. Some individuals may use it exploitatively, whereas others may simply use it to improve their lives.

What compels men to become RPed is the discovery that it more closely reflects the world they see and experience around them than the BP narrative they have been sold throughout their lives. It is the antidote to the cognitive dissonance they have been experiencing all this time, but did not know how to resolve. It helps them recognize that they have been living a lie and a more impoverished existence than what life could offer them or what they want. It is an endorsement of their uncertain suspicion that there is better in life than having to live according to the expressed wishes of women and gynocentricism.

Pesky_Gibbon · 2018-11-17T16:16:28+00:00

Yeah, I would pass on any TRPer for marriage-related purposes. Friend that I sometimes sleep with? Maybe. Nothing more serious than that.

[deleted] · 2018-11-17T15:45:43+00:00

Marrying anyone who believes in these dumb ass pill philosophys is going to be nothing but terrible.

tiger1296 · 2018-11-17T13:27:29+00:00

TRP men are usually the incel hillbully type, marry one of those you're basically in a abusive relationship with a man baby.

TRP is meant to be a guide for dating and having short term affairs, a long term thing just isn't compatible with TRP philosophy, in fact most of it warns against it.

[deleted] · 2018-11-18T02:22:33+00:00

he claims her not using her "fluid sexuality" to get him threesomes is selfish. What compels men to act like this?

Idk might as well ask my first girlfriend why she called me selfish because I didn't want her fucking other guys while we were together. Life's a mystery, some people are cunts.

onemanfortress · 2018-11-17T21:27:11+00:00

You must ask yourself first what compels men not to act like that.

But anyways:

1st: Men like threesomes.

2nd: Women like men who have threesomes.

A man who has threesomes or fucks many women is the contrary of a man who fucks only one woman or none.

Tell me again how many women you know who like virgin men or less experienced men.

But its irrelevant because we men like sex with many women, and we only commited in the past as a sacrifice, because society rewarded it.

Now there is no reward for it, on the contrary. So we know that men who marry are weak.

This answers your question. But if you want the full answer you would have to study female and male nature fully and without bias.

KeffirLime · 2018-11-17T13:17:11+00:00

what compels men with adequate partners to form these attitudes?

Because they're not adequate partners.

Most men who stumble into TRP are trying to find out why they can't make their wife happy, why their wife won't fuck them, why she seems to walk all over him, or why his married life is going completely off the tracks in it's entirety.

The purpose of the RP is to give him the tools that help him build a life that works for him. More often than not this means a change in approach from the husband, which leads to a change in the marriage dynamic.

For some change is good, for most changing from being the doormat for years on end is too much to overcome.

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[deleted] · 2018-11-17T21:54:33+00:00

the cliche we all hear is that men r redpilled by their horrid shree wives but what compels men with adequate partners to form these attitudes?

Their wife may be adequate, but they find themselves unsatisfied because of the hyper-sexualised culture we live in and the permissive culture we live in permits them to express their destructive, tyrannical behaviour and infact rewards them in some ways (after all, this is a form of preselection, making him an increasingly desirable mate).

is this what all rpw are doomed to?

It's what women are doomed to period until we let parents have the final say in who their daughters have relationships with and put people to death for adultery.

[deleted] · 2018-11-17T17:19:13+00:00

This sounds like the toupee fallacy.

"I can always spot a terper because they are all badly LARPing alpha qualities"

Well... What about the guys that actually incorporated RP theory into their lives and simply made themselves a better, more masculine man, but otherwise seems fine?

I doubt anybody would know that I lean red.

TheBookOfSeil · 2018-11-17T17:32:13+00:00

TRP is a sales pitch. It is marketing a certain type of life that men should be living, and can live, if they read the pamphlet and follow the directions outlined inside.

TRP is a product promising men something, much like the anchor arms commercial in that Spongebob episode (If you’re unfamiliar with it, look up “anchor arms” on YouTube. I tried but could not find one that wasn’t edited).

LeJacquelope · 2018-11-17T15:15:31+00:00

That sounds like a lot of bullshit to be fair. Especially the dude hitting the baby (TRPers would laugh at such a pathetic loss of frame). Also, lol at the comments. "I'm at 34 with 2 kids and my bf is smoking hot!!", yes, I totally believe that

That said, I would never advise a woman to marry an RPer. In fact, I constantly tell my sister to avoid men like me

I think marrying cynical people is a terrible idea, for both genders

Eastuss · 2018-11-17T13:39:41+00:00

What compels men to act like this?

The fact they're polysexual?

RPW typically don't marry RP men, two individuals who are privileging their interests first, and who have antagonist interests, can't possibly form a balanced couple.

blackedoutfast · 2018-11-17T17:09:40+00:00

there are two sides to every story.

why do you assume that it's all the husband's fault? why do you assume that she is an adequate partner? she could be a horrible bitch of a wife.

women especially tend to try to frame things in a way that puts them in the best light. and when a relationship is struggling, no woman is ever going to admit that it is mostly her fault.

Title	Marrying Redpill Men
Author	Szymmy
Upvotes	39
Comments	185
Date	November 17, 2018 12:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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