I don’t know at what point the whole movement became about complaining about your dating life non stop like if you were all single due to women being frivolous, when in reality you guys are most definitely the problem.

I have male friends who are 5’6 and have very good relationships, I have a friend who openly admitted he has a condition called “micro-penis” and he is also in a very long term relationship, I have friends so broke that cannot afford even paying to gym, but they are also happy in a relationship.

There is not a single bad characteristic that alone could make most women literally run from you. Not a single one.

I have of course met ~many~ shitty women and every single one of them in relationships had as shitty boyfriends as them. There is no such a thing as “Oh he is so good and she uses him” or “She is so good and he uses her” despite very extreme cases.

Shitty people are around shitty people.

“Oh but this woman is dating this millionaire guy and she doesn’t even like him”

Ok, he is probably into something she can offer as well, usually appearance of course, and if she is actually a gold digger: The guy find it acceptable to date someone whose personality is as superficial as miami boobjobs. And that’s alright! They are grown ups!

People should stop assuming people are naïve and simply accept that people are different and that if you want someone with X values, you must have the same X values to attract them. It’s very extremely simple.

I am personally not even in my 20s yet and I have had the opportunity to be with guys that can literally drown on money due to “familiar relationships” and I would rather die because 90% of these guys are entitled and irresponsible. I was raised better than that.

Things are not complicated. I feel that most men that complain women are shitty, simply are into shitty women that are not into them.

The same goes with “I hate fuckboys”, I mean, why would I personally hate fuckboys if I have never had any sort of relationship with one? More power to them since someone like this would NEVER be able to disturb my peace.

“Oh but men sexualize women”

I have never felt sexualized by any men I have been with in any sort of capacity because we are all grown ups that can recognize what is coming. I have some values that I share with everyone present in my life.

I have many many many girlfriends I trust to death and they are all in long term relationships. A big part of them have been on relationships before their actual boyfriends and guess what: They have no serious complains about these guys besides little things.

There are no victims. No men. No women.

You want a healthy relationship with a decent woman? Behave like someone who deserves it.

You want a healthy relationship with a decent man? Behave like someone who deserves it.