The main problem men have is laziness and lowering standards.

I lost my virginity to an insanely hot girl (went on to be a fairly famous porn star but I digress).

And here's the pattern...

With her and every single woman I've ever been with who I truly thought was hot.....I NATURALLY acted the correct way.

Mainly because I was satisfied with what I got. I valued her time and presence and didn't need or expect more. Which meant I acted like I didn't really mind if I never saw her again or heard from her so often or whatever. Because I didn't care lol.

Entitlement can fuck you in this way. When you expect a woman to be like x and y because "she's not that hot," that's when you start trying to get blood from a stone and control her behavior.

Now, when I say "go for," you have to get her under the correct conditions i.e. find one who thinks you're "gorgeous" "so sexy" etc. i.e. she wants to rip your clothes off not because she's horny and you meet the standard or because you took her out on 10 dates....but because she really "connects"/likes you.

Might take weeks, months, years, who knows.

But if most men just focused on finding ONE situation like this, it would completely change their lives.

Knowing a solid 9 or 10 can feel that way toward you will be a lifelong reservoir of insufferable confidence and entitlement, which we all know women hate ;)

But if you've screened correctly and land yourself a true babe, you will naturally act like you're supposed to. Aloof, cocky funny all of that. Looking at her looking at you the way she does will make you feel like :::that guy::::

After you get those wings then you can lower your standards whenever to get your needs met and it won't really affect your self esteem or confidence.

Yes it will be running a lot of numbers especially if you've never been there before but it's worth it to keep your eye on the ball