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“NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!”

LillthOfBabylon

June 15, 2023

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Title	“NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!”
Author	LillthOfBabylon
Upvotes	99
Comments	145
Date	June 15, 2023 11:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14ahc6u/nice_guys_finish_last/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/nice-guys-finish-last.1222558 https://theredarchive.com/post/1222558

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Hatred for.

Men are biologically hardwired to not hate women, even the most degenerate, serial-killing psychopath was fond of at least one woman in his life, so that's out the window.

Aversion to:

99.999% are not disgusted by all women.

Prejudice for:

Ah, now we're getting somewhere, the definition of prejudice is to have baseless preconceived notions, and since 99% of men have interacted with at least 1 woman on a long term basis, well, actual prejudice based on a complete lack of experience, is hard to come by.

Definitionally, as in, according to the definition of the word misogyny; can you prove to me that finding a truly misogynistic man isn't about as hard as finding a ghost?

I'm not talking about a man who made some crude jokes about women, or a man who thinks a woman is unfit for the military, no, a person who truly hates, or is disgusted by, or is prejudiced against all women.

[–]AhsokaSolo1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"I have decided misogyny effectively doesn't exist because of biological hardware (I made it up), an assertion (I made it up), and every man has interacted with at least one woman so their opinions can't be baseless".

I don't have to prove anything because that is a very impossible request. Obviously. The only mind I experience is mine. Actions are a sufficient basis to form opinions on because actions are what impact other people. On this sub, for example, literally every day I see people accuse (and yeah, they are accusations) "women" generally of something that is bad and that the person perceives as universal among them. You implicitly did it here by pretending interacting with a woman would justify a preconceived notion about all women generally.

Misogynists exist. Misandrysts exist. Assholes exist. That's life.

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The majority of men are not participating in hook-up culture

The majority of young men are also single.

Survey showing that the majority of single women are not having sex more than five times per year.

Sexual intimacy is at a 30 year-low across genders.

Sexual inactivity has been on a sharp incline for both single and coupled people compared to previous generations

So that's the "70% of men are just casually hooking up" part adressed.

Now onto this:

most men are having a decent sex life.

Half of men admit dissatisfaction with their sex lives

Less than 38% of male millennials and 37% of male Gen Zers reported sexual satisfaction as of 2017 in the UK

And these are stats for people in relationships, single people report having far less sex on average, so I imagine the trend of dissatisfaction is far higher.

[–]LillthOfBabylon[S] [score hidden] 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The majority of men are not participating in hook-up culture

The study’s not even about that. Its looking at trends.

Survey showing that the majority of single women are not having sex more than five times per year.

And this disproves my point, how?

Sexual intimacy is at a 30 year-low across genders.

Most are still fucking.

So that's the "70% of men are just casually hooking up" part adressed.

i didnt say that.

I said: “And 70% also have sex, so the discrepancy is that most of them are just in a casual setting, not that they’re incels.”

In early stages of dating; Woman: Im taken. Man: Still dating around.

Half of men admit dissatisfaction with their sex lives

And not all children are satisfied with ice cream they get. So? They still got ice cream. Those guys can leave the relationship if they hate it so much

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So can jocks, but I dont see you being offended on their behalf.

First of all, I already said jocks/chads can be good partners and I know some, my point is that I think they are more likely to be more unreliable and caring than average/below average men, basic economics actually. You can see that in professional sports, most of those guys are pricks basically because they can, people tolerate them and pretend they like them because they're rich, famous and handsome. Some of them are good people? Of course but it's less likely because being caring, empathic and respectful with everybody requires effort. And second of all: offended? not at all, I think you're wrong and I'm correcting you, that's all.

the average and ugly assholes just keep insisting every time his bad behavior caused problems its because “society is mean to him”

Well, yeah, people, men and women, do that a lot. People, specially bad ones, feel the need to justify their hate and acts of aggresion by finding past affronts and oversize them. Go to FDS to see the other side of the same coin. Or look at yourself, you're using the exception of the exception to justify your hatred and discrimination towards ugly dudes.

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