I was trying to understand what is considered to be creepy and what is not. It seem that the common rule is that if a man try to hit on a woman, the woman doesn’t respond positively and he keep pushing, then that is “creepy”. I thought Fair.

EXCEPT, even to this day, there is a large group of women who WANT men to chase them. They think a men chase them is romantic and prove how much he love her and doesn’t give up on her easily. Which to be fair, is kinda true, it mean you love someone so much, you don’t wanna give up .As a matter of fact, about 3years ago, I had a female friend who SUGGESTED me to keep trying with the girl who rejected me. She said how can I claim to love the girl so much if I give up just because of a rejection. I kinda give it sometime, approach her again in about 3months, didn’t confess this time. Just being casual, then confess to her again in the next 2months and it worked. This is thanks to not giving up and keep pushing after being told “no”.

Also, I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one who heard of “play hard to get”. This tactic is still popular to this very day where some women pretended to not interested in a men at first, or went even as far as to reject him in order for him to be more interested in her and chase her even harder. I don’t understand this, how can men be called creepy when there exist this tactic in this world which literally encourages men to do it? What really draw the line between creepy anyway.

The point is that creepy behavior in men isn’t happening because some men are weird , it’s happening because it guarantees more chance of attracting mate in the long run, and it is this way for thousands of years that it build into our instinct. We don’t intentionally try to be creepy, and we shouldn’t be shamed so much for it. It’s natural to us until we were told that it is wrong.

In my personal opinion, i wouldn’t care too much about who think i’m creepy, i would do what give me the best chance for myself. I’m not harming nobody.