Dear Abbey vs. Fatties.

shamanbard · 2014-03-23T18:39:58+00:00

Hahaha on that first one: "All my girlfriends who've lost weight are no longer 'vivacious and sassy' (translation: loud and obnoxious)".

Almost nothing annoys me more than over-the-top loud fat chicks.

PS: It's not that I'm against anyone being themselves and just doing their thing in public, but the way these sorts of women do it is put-on and try-hard. It's just as annoying is seeing a man act in a put-on, try-hard manner.

Duh_Mad_Botanist · 2014-03-23T20:55:07+00:00

Reminds me of a time when I was out with a large group of friends meeting up at Denny's after a night of fun. As I was leaving and one of the ladies, who happened to be at least 150lbs overweight, announced to me in a very loud voice that all in our group could hear, "hey xxxx, have you ever had a BBW", to which I replied "no thanks, not my thing", then continued to leave. The next day I got hit with a shit storm from all the hamsters screeching "you're an asshole, how could you embarrass her like that?". I responded with "I'm not the one who put it out in public and at no time have I ever displayed any interest in her sexually" as if I was obliged to have sex with this gross matinee of a woman because she made a public display of her desire for me. We all know that if the situation was reversed it would have been fine for a woman to shoot me down and for all the hamsters to have a good laugh at the fat guy trying to get with a woman that's "out of his league".

Thors_Cock · 2014-03-23T18:53:51+00:00

Abbey is fucking awesome. Can we include her in our next secret patriarchy meeting?

JP_Whoregan · 2014-03-23T17:50:23+00:00

The fact that you seem to identify that female fat acceptance is reaching epidemic proportions might mean you're on the way to being a RP'er, though. Notice I said "female" fat acceptance, because there is no "fat acceptance" movement for men.

mordanus · 2014-03-23T17:57:03+00:00

Those were some damn good responses from abby. I really liked the first one about not needing to be so loud.

RedPill_Rorschach · 2014-03-23T17:58:19+00:00

I don't know Abby, but it's good to see people starting to directly address and confront fat people and going against fat acceptance.

I personally used to be fat and although I understand you need to love yourself for who you are, I also understand it doesn't mean others have to or will. Accepting yourself should never be an excuse to not improve the things you can.

Also lol at women saying men should not be withholding sex. Imagine if the genders were reversed and a bunch of guys were writing in to say : I'm fat, I love being fat, and girls who don't want to fuck with me are wrong to deny me sex.

MagicGainbow · 2014-03-23T17:50:28+00:00

I doubt they will ever learn, they deny the basic reality of men's attraction, if a man doesn't find something attractive that's it, they don't get to choose, it's why Asian fetish criticism is bullshit, some men find the aesthetic of Asian people to be attractive end of story.

Link_GR · 2014-03-23T20:42:57+00:00

I was yelling at my screen by that last part. If he's disgusted by the fat blob that his wife has become, he not only has the right but must not fuck her. Women get their power from sex. She's complaining that she now knows she has no power in the relationship.

mercuryg · 2014-03-23T22:10:59+00:00

I think her weight problem is just another symptom of the marriage heading downhill

Wrong, close though, it's the other way around, the marriage heading downhill is a symptom of her fat ass weight problem, but will these women come to this conclusion? Hell no, the answer is always "if he really loved her then blah blah blah".

When a marriage falls apart because the woman is obese, the marriage isn't falling apart because the woman is obese, it's because the man doesn't love the obese woman enough? Absurd.

Fat acceptance must be stopped, period, especially now that it's morphed into this hybrid of fat acceptance and feminism mixed into one. Fuck these fatties screaming fat shaming!, fat shaming is good, being a land whale IS BAD, and it SHOULD be shamed.

Why can't they just quit bitching and lose weight? Oh i forgot, it's a serious illness, society doesn't recognize it, it's in their genes, some are predisposed to being fat etc. Such bullshit.

But what the hell do i know, i'm just a guy working hard to stay in good shape.

cascadecombo · 2014-03-23T23:57:59+00:00

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RedPill4LYF · 2014-03-24T00:50:48+00:00

You know, I really have to admit I didn't give Abby a fair shake. This kinda restores a bit of my faith in humanity actually, for a woman in her position to be dolling out actually good advice. Her perspective is red pill on this issue, and I just have to say she really snapped into a Slim Jim with that first response to the first fat chick. She knows all too well how obnoxious fatass divas can be from personal experience to come back at her with that line.

desylid · 2014-03-23T22:22:49+00:00

/u/slutlord-fascist "isn't a red-piller."

A slutlord fascist by any other name would smell as sweet.

sway_usa · 2014-03-24T03:16:51+00:00

I love how the rebuttal was advice alongs the lines of:

"You should go with her to x" "You should help her eat healthier" "You should..." "You should..." "You should..."

The common denominator? It's his problem and his responsibility to fix. What more do you want? He already stayed with the landwhale for the sake of his kids. I couldn't do it, I'd divorce and fight for custody.

Of course they had to throw counseling in there for good measure. It seems reddit is a conspiracy to improve the EBIT of psychologists and therapists everywhere.

Whisper · 2014-03-24T02:42:28+00:00

Loud obnoxious fat chicks think that thin pretty quiet women are too "timid" to fight for attention.

They don't understand that thin pretty quiet women don't have to fight for attention. Men are happy to give it to them conflict-free.

Pushy bossy competitive women think that feminine gentle submissive women are too compliant and can't fight for control of their surrounding or to get their way.

They don't understand that feminine gentle submissive women don't have to control their surroundings. Men who are in control will be happy to make sure they are happy, healthy, and content.

It turns out that having a toughness contest with men is not the way to our hearts. Who knew?

2014-03-24T00:45:06+00:00

I think her weight proble is just another symptom of their marriage heading down hill. Not her love of food.

Translation: It's his fault shes fat, she's not responsible for her own actions.

imtaur · 2014-03-23T21:41:18+00:00

A Dear Abby I saw just yesterday that you will enjoy:

My wife and I are retired. Everything was great until about six months ago, when things radically changed. The issue is I stopped shaving every day. I did it when I was working, but I don't feel the need to do it now. My wife strongly disapproves. She claims my unkempt appearance is a direct, negative reflection on her. I feel it reflects only on me. I have told her I will shave before any social engagement we both attend, as well as public events like civic club, etc. The guys I play cards with also go unshaven. My wife has threatened to cancel card games with friends, cancel our weekend trip to her brother's birthday celebration, cancel our upcoming European river cruise, refuses to kiss me and said some things I can't repeat. Is there anything I can do to appease this lady I love Dearly? -Laid back in Michigan

Dear Laid Back: One thing comes to mind - you could shave.

His mistakes were saying "The issue is I stopped shaving" and "Is there anything I can do". But his first mistake was writing to our dear Abby.

MrMagwitch · 2014-03-24T10:04:38+00:00

hairaware · 2014-03-23T22:35:53+00:00

Lol theyd be bitching if their husband was fat. I dont understand how anyone stays with someone who refuses to take care of themselves. I plan on doing the same so why should I settle for you doing anything less.

through_a_ways · 2014-03-24T01:19:09+00:00

I was in a restaurant in the city, next to a group of 20 something girls, one of which happened to be fat and black. Unfortunately (and unsurprisingly), she was extremely loud.

Roshnar · 2014-03-24T01:58:23+00:00

Wow, I used to think Dear Abby was a soulless hamster echoing chamber. Newfound respect.

2014-03-25T02:30:13+00:00

I used to be an overweight man. I lost fifty pounds through sheer force of will, sweat, and dieting. My female friend (let's call her Jill) started working out and dieting at the same time I did.

All of my male friends were supportive of my efforts. They offered to help me work out, helped me shop for groceries, and made themselves available whenever my resolve was weakening.

Conversely, Jill's friends berated her for trying to lose weight. They called her insecure and told her that she should be proud of being "fat and beautiful." Ultimately, Jill had to decide between losing weight or her friends. Thankfully, she ditched the fatties and lost forty pounds.

Want to know why women have such a hard time losing weight? Other women.

Psycho_Delic · 2014-03-23T22:43:32+00:00

Lol fat people.

2014-03-23T23:59:57+00:00

This is annoying because the answer is so simple and they all know it. Fat people are gross, period. I dont care what you like to do with your time, you enjoying eating eat, but dont start fucking whining when "attractive people" or people in generally better shape dont like you, man or woman, why do you deserve sometime who puts time and effort into their health when you cant be bothered? so simply, if you want to eat like a slob, lower your standards, nobody said you have to get the 10, you can pull a 4 and be as happy as you can be. But i atleast know on my part, im not fucking low carbing on a caloric surplus and training 4 days a week to pull in a land whale, its just not going to happen. And also, how many women withhold sex regularly, and of those women, how many do it out of lack of sexual attraction, talk about a double standard, im glad he cut her off, for better or worse doesnt mean you can put on 100 pounds and everythings cool.

Adroxiom · 2014-03-23T20:58:49+00:00

BOOM ROASTED. Ya fat bitch.

SgtBrutalisk · 2014-03-24T00:19:17+00:00

She lost 600 pounds.

2014-03-24T07:37:19+00:00

ROTFL at "condishuns" _

raceAround126 · 2014-03-24T12:02:59+00:00

I'm a guy who has lost a lot of weight. As in, I've currently lost 1/3rd of my weight through proper diet, hard work, exercise and constantly watching and improving myself.

Nothing sends me into an obscene fucking rage fit more than these ugly fat terrible bastards demanding acceptance and validation for what I can personnally assure you is a lack of self control. Men and women.

If you're fat, you are disgusting. Do something about it! Nobody claims its easy but do it anyway!

mctoasterson · 2014-03-24T20:31:14+00:00

Women are perceptive of the relative value of their peers and they are excellent at "keeping score". They know exactly where they stand in terms of relative value and attractiveness.

She knows which of her friends have nicer tits than her, which ones are skinnier, which ones swallow and do anal, etc. and she will try to conceal from you whichever aspects make her "look bad" by comparison.

Similarly, she also knows exactly how much money all of your male friends (and all of her friends boyfriends/husbands) make. I guarantee it.

timoppenheimer · 2014-03-24T19:45:32+00:00

Does anyone know how to talk to a plate about gaining weight? and encourage the plate to lose a bit of the weight/not gain more?

2014-03-25T15:53:36+00:00

I'm red pill but what about THE FACT that many medicines have weight gain as a side effect? Some people really can't help it much. I'd take a chubby girl with the right personality qualities over a bitchy 8-10 too.

2014-03-25T20:19:23+00:00

Metabolism slows as we agem Eat less, eat better or be fat.

2014-03-25T20:19:23+00:00

Metabolism slows as we age; eat less, eat better or be fat.

garlicextract · 2014-04-08T20:53:03+00:00

Wow! The second/third one (third in particular) is a truly fantastic response. Hats off to Abby.

2014-03-24T01:22:53+00:00

I just.. fuck it mate. Women just aren't worth explaining shit to. Just hold frame and they'll all follow suit.

Don't bother explaining.

Grasshopper21 · 2014-03-24T00:36:50+00:00

Conditions sir.

TytalusWarden · 2014-03-24T02:57:48+00:00

Wow. Calling out Dear Abbey. Very alpha of you.

2014-03-24T02:17:03+00:00

Fuck pussy power. Cock power all the way. We have the cock. Don't stick it in a ham planet.

Title	Dear Abbey vs. Fatties.
Author	Slutlord-Fascist
Upvotes	353
Comments	160
Date	March 23, 2014 5:35 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/215sb5/dear_abbey_vs_fatties/
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