First date with instagram "celebrity" update.

Hey guys,

Last week I posted a thread on AskTRP and it brought quite a bit of attention and people were interested in me doing an update. If you wanna see what it is check my profile, I can't link threads on here. Not gonna bullshit, this is not gonna be very redpill. I wasn't up to the task, which wasn't surprising.

So the date was yesterday. I put on my nicest outfit and also sprayed on a bit too much of cologne, but it's high quality so it's ok. We planned to meet in the central square of the city as it's the use here, and then walk to the destination.

I'll describe a bit what happened before the date because I think it's funny. There was a group of musicians performing in front of the fountain on the square, and as I arrived a bit early, I sat down on the pavement to listen. I was a bit nervous. There was an older guy, very good looking, maybe 50 years old, sitting like 5m on my left, that just kept looking at me. I looked back at him and he cracked a large smile, which I reciprocated. I honestly thought he was gay, and thought that I must be looking really sharp haha. 5mins later he gets up and leaves, and gives me a nod and a smile on his way.

The girl comes by taxi, and, although I already knew, she's not a catfish. She's a 10 in person. I live in a place with tons of hot girls, but she is just on another level, just absolutely smoking. Literally everyone is looking at her, she's wearing a red skirt, white top with a leather jacket and black heels. I got the shits, not gonna lie as she walked towards me. Anyway, we give an enthusiastic hello to each other, with kisses on the cheek as it's customary here.

I compliment her outfit on the way and she compliments mine and we have a bit of small talk. I can't really say I could decipher what she thought at that moment, bu she was pretty bubbly and nice. So the fun part is that on the way I cross the old guy I met earlier. And he has a smoking girl on his arm haha. We look at each other in complicity and I can't help but grin super hard.

We arrive to the place in question, which is a super cute bar/cafe with colorful lights on the terrace on a nice little square, trees, wooden tables and chairs, very comfy. The thing I didn't anticipate, and it felt a bit overwhelming, it's that when you arrive in a venue with a girl like that, you're scrutinized. Every single table was staring at me and her as we went to sit down. Some people made some comments too. I was pretty uncomfortable. There was more than 2 chairs at our table so I sat on the one closest to her, which was fairly close.

The rest of the date was uneventful. I just couldn't bring myself to kino, I was just too inexperienced and it would have felt forced and made it awkward. Instead we had a really nice conversation which lasted maybe 90 minutes. I just didn't manage to make it sexy or induce seduction. It was very friendly and cool, as I already know I'm a good conversationalist, but not much of a player. She's actually making a living off of instagram now, she has contracts with fiji water, namal tea and some watch company I forgot about, and she's signing new deals soon for make up and shit.

I was extremely tired towards the end, and she was very talkative and I started to be bored honestly, because I was just too exhausted and a bit disappointed in myself to want and talk about our lives any more. She noticed and said "oh wow I'm losing you", to which I answered that I was really tired because I've been going super hard at the gym. We left and she paid for my drinks as I went to the toilet. I walked her back to the taxi station as it was on my way, and we said goodbye. She said we could meet again for drinks or coffee, but it felt more like an invitation to a friend than anything else.

All in all, it was a good experience. I didn't go there with expectations. I'm glad I had my first date with a stranger, and that I was able to be fairly natural although the girl was abnormally hot. I didn't feel out of place or unworthy as I thought before, which is a good thing. And I don't think she felt that way about me either. I also had a pleasant surprise as she was probably nicer and more attentive than plenty of "hot" girls who think they're the shit and treat you like crap. It definitely didn't go as well as it could have, and I'm sure if I had a lot more experience under my belt I could have had a chance with this girl. I'm a bit sad I couldn't do more but you gotta start somewhere eh. I don't think I'll see her again, but it's all good.

Off topic: I've joined a local gym that used to train champions, and holy shit it's night and day from a big brand gym. The 2 guys who own the shit used to compete at a very high level and they're extremely helpful, they make programs for you, teach you form and tell you why. For free. In 2 weeks i've had more progress than it the past 2 months.