How to escape black pill ideology?

dump_fool · 2022-08-06T14:03:30+00:00

Wash your eyes, open them wide go outside and look at couples - you should be able to see:

Ugly dudes with decent girls, ugly girls with cute guys. Fat girls with slim guys, fat guys with slim girls, short guys with tall girls and the whole assortment possible...

Now take a laxative and shit faster that wheat waffle you ate. (Bonus points for those who get the joke/reference)

cynar · 2022-08-06T11:23:07+00:00

First step is to recognise that there is a major problem. You seem to have done that. The next is to recognise that you are being sucked into a cult, using age old tactics. They break down your self confidence and support networks, then tell you the old way out is deeper in.

First steps, cut all contact, both direct and indirect. It's a gravity well, the closer you are the more it pulls, and so the harder it is to fight. No reading websites, no messaging people involved.

The next is to accept that the way back out is emotionally terrifying. I'm talking walking down a high street naked, while everyone points and laughs terrifying. It's a paper tiger, but that likely won't help you deal with it, till your out.

As for getting out, you need to reach out. The friends and family that the black pill cult taught you that they hated you, well they don't. They might hate what you did, and are pussed off with you, but many will help. You have to make the first move however. Your main goal is to re-establish a real world social group and normalise your interactions with people. It will be tempting to do this online, but don't, you're too likely to be drawn into other online cults. This can also be extended by using sites like meetup.com. Find local people and hobbies to fill the emotional hole in a healthy manner.

Alongside this, take an honest look at yourself, and your personality. Don't do it in recriminations, do it like a workman with a job. Your goal is to identify where you need to improve, and get it done. Overweight, get down the gym, or at least get running etc. Bad skin, start a skincare routine. Boring, find hobbies to share and talk about. Obsessive, find positive people to share, talk to, and learn from.

Doing this will take you massively outside your comfort zone. Your programming will tell you that you can't do it. Ignore it, you can and you must. Now go out on to that high street, strip off and strut like you own the world!*

https://youtu.be/wyx6JDQCslE

If you take this literally, rather than proverbially, I would highly advise at least a mankini to avoid legal issues!

** This is random advice from a guy on the internet, who doesn't know you personally. Take it with a large pinch of salt and a shot of tequila!

atomant88 · 2022-08-06T09:04:11+00:00

TF is blackpill? Get out of the internet bubble man, rejoin the real world

Puzzled_Nail_1962 · 2022-08-06T11:56:37+00:00

It's hard to escape once your in it, because it keeps validating itself. Everything they say seems to be correct and prove itself again and again. It's the same as any extremist ideology, based on confirmation bias.

The best way to escape it is first of all to never, ever consume any black pill media again (incels boards, youtubers, etc.) and be conscious of how you judge things you see. Every time some of those ideological thoughts come up, question it. Think you're too ugly to find someone? 1) Work on how you look so you at least know you're looking the best you can. Even if you think it won't be enough, it still ups your confidence 2) Realise there's a ton of ugly dudes out there who are not incels. You think that's not true and you can't find them, but that's your confirmation bias again.

Kaihua- · 2022-08-06T11:18:34+00:00

play the game or lose automatically. black pill is for weak men

hmntre · 2022-08-06T10:40:21+00:00

If you live in the real world you know it's bullshit.

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-08-06T11:59:48+00:00

Black pill ideology is essentially: inferior men have no chance of establish a sexual relationship with women.

So there’s your answer then, turn yourself from an inferior man into a strong man. Better your fitness, finances, and fun. It sucks we got to jump through all these fucking hoops to have even a few options when completely average to below average women just have to log on to Tinder and be overwhelmed with choice, but it’s a simple fact of life. So you have the option: do you want to cry about it and die a virgin or do you want to play the game by the rules society has set for us (whether fair or not) and try to win it? Locus of control is the difference between a black pill incel and someone on this sub trying to succeed at dating.

azicre · 2022-08-06T18:25:21+00:00

Get off the internet.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-08-07T16:38:28+00:00

Bruh black pill is for some incel losers. Why the fuck You go out reading that garbage. It’s been created by weak men to echo their voices and bring down others .

If you want any happiness in life, stop reading shit you know is bad for you. Black pill is a virus , a disease like covid that needs to be wiped out with Chinese style brutal lockdowns . What that means is you stop reading it RIGHT now and maybe slap yourself if you ever find yourself scrolling black pill content .

Total_Goat1614 · 2022-08-06T10:56:51+00:00

The heck is black pill ideology?

monkey36937 · 2022-08-06T19:15:03+00:00

Go hit the gym and work on skills that will make you money that it. As a man you are judged on how strong and useful you are to the group not by your looks.

headcase1111 · 2022-08-06T10:36:42+00:00

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incognito3107 · 2022-08-06T11:26:47+00:00

If you improve your looks, mindset, social and verbal skills, you are very much likely to get decent girl even if you are not among top males in any aspect. I think many guys just expect to instantly receive a girl even if they have no clue how to interact with women and they completely neglect male sexual features. Don't pursue women from outer space, get to know some real girl from real world, imperfect and sex hungry just like you.

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-08-06T13:17:02+00:00

Stop looking at black pill shit on the internet for starters. And don't listen to blackpillers when they do pop up

zapadz · 2022-08-06T16:02:14+00:00

https://www.timsquirrell.com/blog/2018/7/9/debunking-the-blackpill-part-one

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhiEO43tLaM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sbs7s8XTEdc

https://blogs.chapman.edu/crean/2015/09/29/new-research-analyzes-height-weight-income-and-more-in-regards-to-sex-and-dating/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxUKI-fxLOU

Liprubber · 2022-08-07T01:19:15+00:00

Talking various pills and manosphere language is Beta

2022-08-06T16:48:19+00:00

If this thing makes you miserable, you don't use it

BatBottleBank · 2022-08-06T11:47:16+00:00

You don’t. There’s a reason that girls you know pine over guys they’ve just met whilst you’re left in the dark.

Just give up.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-08-06T11:56:07+00:00

Don’t hangout with losers. Hangout with winners and start improving.

imivani · 2022-08-06T10:05:29+00:00

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KiwiZoomerr · 2022-08-06T08:59:31+00:00

Want to know this too l

Csoles520 · 2022-08-06T16:10:57+00:00

Go outside

rushopolisOF · 2022-08-06T20:15:25+00:00

Get off the internet(including Reddit). Go outside. Start running. Say hello to someone you pass by. Do anything that prevents you from going back to a computer screen. Sell drugs for all I care. Never heard a drug dealer mentioning black pill ideology before. Understand that most of black pill taking points are internet based(social media, dating apps, gender wars, 80/20). Observing real people out in their natural environment will reveal that there is more to life than what gets filtered to algorithms.

willgo-waggins · 2022-08-06T21:28:02+00:00

Don’t hate women.

150420throwaway · 2022-08-06T21:49:17+00:00

Start enjoying life. Find something that brings you joy. Pick up new hobbies, find your purpose.

“Negative energy is very sticky”, a quote from Andrew Tate (he is very controversial, but the more I watch him now the more I realise that his original, outrage-inducing statements were most likely exaggerated, heavily, or even faked, but he does have some gems).

By finding a hobby that I love and one that is social, I’ve managed to find people who are more exciting and have a better vibe about them, as opposed to my current ‘group’, who instead of being somewhat bro-supportive, decided to primarily joke about me working out (you could argue it’s ‘banter’, but after a while it just becomes more evident what it is - pure fucking jealousy and laziness), whereas some of my closer mates are there, and we hype each other up, we talk about self improvement, etc, and now that I’ve become less dependent on that group for my social side of things, I realise how low some of them were for acting this way and portraying it as normal - zero fucking encouragement, zero fucking drive, just self absorbed and trying to stir as much drama as possible.

About women, I’m still a virgin, but I don’t give a shit at least not on the confidence level - of course I want a hottie that is attracted to me, or maybe a few as FWBs, but now I’m at the point where I am confident in who I am without a woman, so she can only be an addition to an already, much improved life of mine.

Once again, you attract what you are/think - if you think all women are shitty people and bitches (there are a few, but that’s not the point), then you will only realise those ones that are shitty, and ignore the perfectly normal ones.

Good luck and you will get out of it and enjoy your life.

DontTakePeopleSrsly · 2022-08-07T05:15:42+00:00

Realize that they are a bunch of quitters.

DirtyBeanbag69 · 2022-08-07T10:46:20+00:00

Black pill is reality. Outside of that is delusion.

burakbenxd · 2022-08-07T15:50:19+00:00

What is the black pill? Isn't that the incel movement?

ConvolutedMaze · 2022-08-17T01:37:06+00:00

The black pill is reality there's no escaping it. Don't listen to these people.

Starter91 · 2022-10-05T19:30:41+00:00

Either you are good looking or you are ugly.

No in-between

Title	How to escape black pill ideology?
Author	headcase1111
Upvotes	17
Comments	53
Date	August 6, 2022 8:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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