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ChicoBrillo · 2022-01-06T20:57:55+00:00

Do you bump into her often? Are you going to live there for a while? Things to consider when assessing if it’s worth it or not.

2022-01-06T21:13:48+00:00

Getting to know this woman away from work should not put your job at risk. Invite her to a pub or coffee shop where you hang out. Nothing wrong with that!

OuchCharlieOw · 2022-01-07T00:08:45+00:00

Slightly unrelated but watch “The Red Dot” episode of Seinfeld. George bangs the cleaning lady at his desk gives her a damaged discounted cashmere sweater and then gets fired after she rats on him lmao

Livinlikelary11 · 2022-01-06T22:06:54+00:00

It's not like dating a coworker is always going to end poorly, but it's never worked out well in the end for me. Don't shit where you eat, and all that.

Take time to get to know her better, before making a move. You can decide if you really want to go for it, and she'll be more comfortable around you, less of a job hazard that way.

the_bbutterfly · 2022-01-06T20:57:55+00:00

Go for it

LordCarnifex · 2022-01-06T21:44:18+00:00

Go for it but everything needs to be away from the office, otherwise people will be cynical and say it was a power differential/pressure thing on your end.

RProgrammerMan · 2022-01-06T22:40:18+00:00

I think if you don’t work with someone or they aren’t in your chain of command then it doesn’t really matter. Just don’t do anything you shouldn’t be doing anyways.

DaeDimple · 2022-01-07T00:52:27+00:00

Go to an event. Live music, comedy show, something that you’d do regardless. Tell her she should join you and if she’s interested she will without the pressure of it being awkward. Once you’ve crossed that line and you spend time together out of the office you’ll have a better idea if it’s worth pursuing. (My two cents) This usually works pretty well for me.

sweetestpineapple · 2022-01-07T01:12:53+00:00

I have. He was cute. We ended up having a pretty great relationship after. Just make sure she’s into you too and matching your energy.

TheRiverOfDyx · 2022-01-07T02:19:40+00:00

Why care if it goes south? Just ignore her and do your job, you’d not be in a relationship anymore. Coming from a serial coworker dater

Unforsaken_Dick · 2022-01-07T01:01:20+00:00

My logical brain says no, dont shit where you eat. But my primal instinct says go for it bro, take your shot! Honestly, I think you should take your shot!

TheBurningStag13 · 2022-01-07T01:03:31+00:00

Her job shouldn’t matter mate. If you dig her, go for it. It’s not as though you’ll see her frequently enough that it should be an issue.

AbjectScar3729 · 2022-01-07T02:02:45+00:00

Go for it!

Cave_dweller123 · 2022-01-07T02:12:19+00:00

Dude why would that put your job at risk? According to the circumstances, it seems like you could probably control who finds out.

IanWorthington · 2022-01-07T02:17:42+00:00

Been there. Done that. Do it.

(She had an interesting backstory: her husband was in jail for killing her ex-husband. What could possibly go wrong? :D)

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2022-01-07T03:03:11+00:00

George castanza is that you?

eatout2helpout · 2022-01-07T03:19:49+00:00

of course she's worth it just keep the actual sex off the works premises I can't see any problem

alchemysauce · 2022-01-07T03:23:26+00:00

George Constantza? Is that you?

2dice1hand · 2022-01-06T21:28:25+00:00

Unless your worried about her being assigned to a different building and disappearing over night, I would see no reason to rush a work flirt, those are best to slow burn, every time you see her have an interaction and this will build the desire overtime then since it’s at a place you work this also acts as a vetting process to see if she really is into you so that when you finally do ask her out you know 100% she will say yes! I have successfully done this Same technique multiple times and it works great! The only thing that is different is the frequency of how often you see her, I saw all the women I slept with from work everyday, the gap in time between when you see her might help to create intensity but this advice is the safest way to approach while using abundance to have other options outside of this to hold you over while you slow burn this seduction

Suspicious-Ad-9457 · 2022-01-06T21:48:29+00:00

You work for different companies. Should be fine. If you are that worried about your job, that may be something to think about.

SpinCity07 · 2022-01-06T23:14:05+00:00

Jerry did that and it turned into prostitution.

aidsjohnson · 2022-01-07T00:03:41+00:00

It's obviously your life and choice to make, but I would personally never get involved with anyone at work regardless of what floor they're on etc. Securing your finances is more important than any potential flings that may come your way at work. There's just too much potential for things to go wrong. It's especially not worth it when you consider the fact that there's a great big world out there filled with women you don't have to worry about your job over. This isn't the 70s, you can get in trouble over work crushes these days. Act accordingly.

brit_dom_chicago · 2022-01-06T22:51:12+00:00

I think I’ve seen this porno…

brabus4 · 2022-01-07T01:03:42+00:00

If the job doesn't mean much to you go for it. But if you are living paycheck to paycheck and won't be able to find a new job immediately, I wouldn't try

dark_helmt8 · 2022-01-07T01:14:26+00:00

Why did this immediately set off Bang Bro scenarios in my demented head?

If she asked me to her get something in the broom closet, like a cleaner or an orgasm, or rub out a difficult spot on her heyhey with my tongue, Id be like Mr Clean for sure.

777MK777 · 2022-01-07T02:23:48+00:00

George Castanza got fired for “dating” the cleaner at his new job.

Bergatario · 2022-01-06T23:34:29+00:00

Cleaners are the best because it's like getting sex on delivery when they come to clean your office late in the evening.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-01-06T21:14:25+00:00

Tbh, don’t shit where you eat.

DarkoLeonhardt · 2022-01-07T00:11:33+00:00

I don’t generally date co-workers or anyone from work, tends to complicate things.

za3b · 2022-01-07T01:30:30+00:00

word of advice. don't go for it. there's a thing we can learn from women. they don't date men who are lower than their social status. i may sound heartless, but it's the ugly truth that no one will say it to you.

Klondy · 2022-01-07T02:04:30+00:00

I would never date anyone that works with/in close proximity to me

Comprehensive_Taro48 · 2022-01-07T02:17:01+00:00

I don't shit where I eat or sleep

FakeSafeWord · 2022-01-06T23:34:50+00:00

Don't shit where you eat, stupid. There's plenty of women that don't work in your building. Go after them.

BlackMagicBeat · 2022-01-06T23:52:13+00:00

She can clean the jizz out of your dick

ConnorNimmons · 2022-01-07T01:21:56+00:00

If George Costanza pulled it off no reason you shouldn’t be able to

comacove · 2022-01-07T03:43:58+00:00

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-07T03:49:52+00:00

I wouldn’t. I feel that you wouldn’t even consider this if you were out meeting more chicks. Go out and work on meet more chicks instead.

Tom38 · 2022-01-07T04:14:30+00:00

She has keys to all the rooms. Y'all could have easy sneaky links.

NewCommonSensei · 2022-01-07T04:18:47+00:00

I would entertain these advancements and ask if you would clean my pipes

FiddyOneCent · 2022-01-07T04:48:00+00:00

She has the key to your boss’s office… use your imagination.

Krypton_Rimsdim · 2022-01-07T05:18:46+00:00

Reminded me of a certain Mr. Costanza.

disignore · 2022-01-07T05:31:05+00:00

A hitman?

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