How many times do you think that an attractive women has been offered the same standard boring interview style conversation by other men? (What's your name?, Where are you from? What do you do for work, etc.) The answer is countless times, including likely multiple times that very night.

Many men often fall into to the trap of immediately entering into interview mode when starting a conversation with a woman. It seems to them as the default safest option to avoid there being an awkward silence or their fear of not knowing what to say.

But in reality, its better to mix in talk about literally anything else. Doing so will positively distinguish yourself from the thousands of other guys that all start conversations the same way.

Many people don't like their jobs or where they currently are in life, and go out on the weekend to try to relax and forget. Starting an interaction by asking a person a long list of boring questions that is more akin to a job interview is often not the best move.

Of course it is fine to eventually exchange such personal information as a conversation progresses. Just don't pack it all into the first 5 minutes if you want to appear as an intriguing and interesting person to talk to. Be brave, take a little risk, and put forward a real topic for discussion.

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