So I'm a 26 years man. I have been with like 30 woman, but only few that I would say were my type. Like 3 or 4. The others, while not ugly, a few fat ones with curves, etc. My problem is this. I can have sex with them, and all of my sex story have been with one night stands or like 2 to 3 bangs at the most. I either get bored or feel disgusted hooking up with those type of people. Only the girls I really was into it I did not mind to keep hooking up with, but they just saw me as a sex buddy. Sometimes I did not catch it and caught feelings and fucked things up.

The problem is this. I can go on dates, make them laugh, be flirty with girls I do enjoy, but I just finish friendzone. Then, with girls I dont care, they might be good looking and all, I just tell them to come over and we fuck. I want to be able to take a girl to a date and have sex with them: one that Im really into, that I wont feel disgusted to wake up next to. The dilemma is that Im not used to takes things slow ; every time I go out on a date is with the objective to have sex. I have to work on that.