Just a smile

smoothoperator23 · 2012-04-13T15:17:58+00:00

yes. you have just discovered the awesomeness in the little things... it will boost confidence like nothing else. pick a few things and start working on them: biggest ones are 1) eye contact, 2) eye contact, 3) and ability to thread conversations. when you start experimenting with it, you'll realize how much control you have over conversations. play around with them.... let her pauses stretch out, and see her add things she wouldn't initially have said... recognize threading possibilities and start having long deep conversations effortlessly.
keep it up man, you're gonna have fun.

bear323 · 2012-04-13T15:13:47+00:00

WHHHHAAAT! You shoulda kept going and got her number! I expect a massive burger king craving in your future.

46xy · 2012-04-13T16:53:01+00:00

today a smile

tomorrow the world.

go get 'em tiger.

DonSlice · 2012-04-13T17:34:38+00:00

Is this you?

TENAXIS · 2012-04-13T17:40:19+00:00

Well done, me and a friend started talking about the impacts of a simple smile and how it can brighten anyone's day.

So we started playing with just smiling most of the time, in the library, cafeteria even during lectures. If one of us made eye-contact with a girl and it holds for a few seconds, whether she's far away on the other side of the room or near our seats/table , i/he will wave (unless she's awfully close that a wave just looks weird e.g. right next to our seats) at said girl. She waves back -> approach, she doesn't waves back just continue whatever we we're doing, no harm done :).

Good results soo far and we have a lots of fun doing it.

vorvesj · 2012-04-13T21:11:45+00:00

"You have amazing blue eyes" "Thank you. Now give me all the money in the register."

Works every time man.

whoiswake · 2012-04-13T16:05:25+00:00

baby steps, but steps none-the-less. well done sir. welcome.

boergermeister · 2012-04-13T15:45:41+00:00

go there again. ask her out

HumanSockPuppet · 2012-04-13T19:17:43+00:00

You've gotten your first subtle taste of female interest. It has a nice flavour to it the first few times you taste it, but don't become hooked. You need to be able to get that confidence from within yourself without having to wait for a woman's approval.

Hopefully this experience has pulled the veil back a little bit for you. Women think about men all the time, and they want you to approach them.

Either way, good job in having the eyes to see what was really happening. You are starting down the path to real happiness.

DivineIntervention · 2012-04-13T17:06:01+00:00

You're lucky to have such awesome eyes. I just have plain ole brown eyes

StewartKruger · 2012-04-13T17:21:49+00:00

Aw man. I'm all warm and fuzzy now.

choc_is_back · 2012-04-13T18:45:34+00:00

Nice! Wanna know how confidence really feels? It's when you have that exact moment, and love it for what it was without wondering afterwards whether you could have gotten 'more' out of it.

So don't listen to the ask-her-out advice here, just enjoy things like this, make a habit of the eye contact and things like this, and start growing a mentality where you love great moments but don't crave them.

zat0ichi · 2012-04-14T00:07:47+00:00

this thread is full of awesome

Ties-Coats · 2012-04-13T16:34:46+00:00

Hired Gun. I'm just saiyan

Wwwarwick · 2012-04-13T17:22:56+00:00

Burger King has Fantastic Chicken Sandwiches! good choice. Myself, I would have went with Whopper, No Onions, and some fries.

2012-04-13T15:05:51+00:00

Kind of.. but you should have persisted, said Hi and asked for her number.

McLarenF1God · 2012-04-13T19:07:06+00:00

Nice job dude! I have killer blue eyes myself, but had never figured out that if a girl says this, she has some level of attraction for you. I know you're still new at this (as am I), but next time you see her ask her something like "What are we doing x-day?" She'll respond. Then say it's surprise or drop some magical hint about what it is you are doing.

jjness · 2012-04-13T20:39:34+00:00

I know the feeling, buddy! I've done nothing but count some calories but I've slimmed down a bit, especially in my face, neck, and shoulders, and when the rare person actually says something about it, I feel amazing! The parking ramp attendant at an office I haven't visited in two months said something just yesterday, in fact, and I'm still beaming!

Keep at it, pal, it's an addicting feeling!

hands0me_man · 2012-04-14T01:27:41+00:00

I've noticed lately that eye contact is very important. There is something very different about the way someone looks at you if you have "smiling" eyes.

2012-04-14T03:27:26+00:00

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adca14x · 2012-04-14T04:39:00+00:00

Good for you man!!! This story remembers me of my dad. My father always looks into the eyes and smiles of some woman he just met and holds its for a couple of seconds. When I go out to grab something to eat at a fast food joint with him, he pulls what you just did and almost always gets a blush or some other positive reaction from the girl on the other side of the counter. Mind you my dad is 59 and married, but that inner-confidence and flirty side is something that's so important to develop and maintain throughout life.

pspman354 · 2012-04-13T19:29:58+00:00

yes..........yes ............YEEEAAASSSSS

Title	Just a smile
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	234
Comments	90
Date	April 13, 2012 2:51 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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