Listen..I was one of those guys to try and sweet talk a girl (basically tell her what she wanted to hear) but anyways, once i switched from ‘does she like me’ to ‘do I like her’ that’s when I trapped started to see progress. I recommend reading: Attract women through honesty.it’ll give you that mental switch you need. I used to be afraid to tell a girl I find her attractive or just getting rejected, now I’m getting rejected lol but it feels better then not approaching itself. Stop your narcissistic traits of trying to seduce a women and just let her fall for you by being “you” not what you aught to be.