should you fuck mids for experience ?

Hutrookie69 · 2025-03-18T11:51:12+00:00

If you’re in a huge city, sure, why not?

Small town, no. Woman will find out and not want to date you.

MisterMoogle03 · 2025-03-18T12:28:46+00:00

I’ve learned more from consistency with one person than in n outs with multiple people.

Hard to go deeper than the surface with someone you barely know. The experience comes from the level of intimacy.

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2025-03-18T12:43:00+00:00

Yes. Some of these so called mids are better in bed and give way better oral than the “starfish” 8s and 9s.

BeardedBears · 2025-03-18T12:21:18+00:00

The phrasing and premise of this post makes me feel sad.

silveralcid · 2025-03-18T12:12:15+00:00

Just do what you want to do.

GeorgeKaplanIsReal · 2025-03-18T14:52:46+00:00

The best sex I ever had was with a 5, the worst was with a 10.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2025-03-18T15:20:47+00:00

I would say dont pursue people you arent attracted to. Some people do it, but it's an ego boost to get their numbers up. That way they can say they fucked 30+ girls but they dont say 29 of them were ugly. They act like they were all models.

You need to ask yourself, do you want to get better at fucking and have girls orgasm more or do you want to get your numbers up?

If you care about the numbers so you can tell the boys you have a high number have at it. But if you actually are tyring to learn how to fuck, Id honestly say find a fuck buddy. Get comfortable with that person, be open to constructive criticism and always keep communication open. I get that you think "practice means perfect" so you think if you fuck 100 girls something will click. But you can practice yourself into bad habits. Think about it like this, if you are learning to shoot a basketball. A good form is shooting the ball in front of your face and releasing from the fingertips. But if you shoot by pushing the ball instead of releasing from the fingertips, shooting that same bad shot 1000 times is not going to magically make you better. Practice makes perfect, but you just accidently perfected a bad habit. That's what sex is, if you just fuck 100 girls but you think are doing a good job when you aren't you just perfected being a bad fuck. You perfected being good at getting girls to fake it. Im sure out of the 100 girls maybe a couple times someone orgasmed but out of 100 do you want 90 girls to orgasm, 5 who fake it or do you want 10 to orgasm and 80 who fake it.

That's a reason why cougers love fucking younger men because first the young men have the energy and second and more importantly the young men are open to taking tips from the older woman. So the cougar will teach them how to fuck because guys their age are set in their ways and dont want to take constructive criticism from women their own age. Leslie Jones had a good conversation about guys not knowing how to fuck in an interview with the breakfast club. You should watch it, it sounds funny but I've had female friends who have had similar complaints that men theyve been with, even the ones who are experienced with high numbers dont know how to fuck.

Find a website that will give you tips on pleasing women. Before you start, let her know that she should let you know what feels good and what doesnt. When you are fingering her, literally ask if that feels good. alot of girls are shy about being honest. It takes girls time to finish, so be ok with being there for 10+ minutes if you have to.

If you think penetration gets most girls off than you arent experienced. If you arent sure what the signs are when a girl has an orgasm, odds are you have barely ever given a girl one. If you dont know the answer to "how do you know that the girl came?" then that should say alot. If you dont know the power of the clit, than you probbably havent gotten a girl off. Clit stimulation is a very powerful tool.

Most improtantly it's ok to not know how to fuck, just dont be so wrapped in your own head that you dont want to learn. As guys we are raised to think we need to be natural lovers. We aren't. We need to learn how to do it.

GreenNukE · 2025-03-18T12:21:39+00:00

Never pursue anyone that you're not genuinely attracted to. People are not for you to use to scratch an itch.

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-03-18T14:31:23+00:00

hmm if youre attracted to them, sure?

its better than jerking off

Nightwing_in_a_Flash · 2025-03-18T15:46:21+00:00

Don’t use a girl being “mid” as an excuse not to put yourself out there and gain experience. Almost every girl has something attractive or unique looks wise, find it.

Also those who aren’t drop dead gorgeous will likely be more patient with you, willing to tell you stuff that will help you and try new things in bed. Also they may be more appreciative and excited about the experience which will boost your confidence.

I’ll take enthusiasm over an entitled 8, 9, 10 in bed any day of the week.

pornAccess69 · 2025-03-18T12:28:36+00:00

No. I mean, it’s probably the only way you’d get laid, but I’d tell the ladies the same thing; using people makes you an asshole.

kobegr321 · 2025-03-18T12:34:27+00:00

Well referring to human people as "mids" is a surefire way to get laid 💀

alldownhillfrhere · 2025-03-18T12:52:26+00:00

If you want to, do it. If you don’t, don’t. People aren’t going to judge you

Appropriate-Ride-742 · 2025-03-18T18:08:29+00:00

And this is why they get approached more than hot chicks

UltraAirWolf · 2025-03-18T18:25:21+00:00

I think you should humanize women a little more.

YinMaestro · 2025-03-18T12:28:09+00:00

Nah nah nah don't listen to these retards, this is the answer you want to hear.

If she's an 8 or above that's long term gf material, def hit

If she's a 7 or above, then thats fwb material

If she's a 6 then it doesn't hurt to have her as a FWB or hook up

If she's a 5 then possibly reconsider or drink to the point where she's a 6.

In conclusion yes. Gain experience. Don't listen to these boyscouts. Get some tang so you know what to do when you meet the 7.5's and above. Most guys are bad at sex, gain experience so you can give ur future wife/gf the rocking she deserves.

xtaminophen · 2025-03-18T12:40:30+00:00

My opinion is yes def. I had a 3 as a FWB for a year

Uncle2Drew · 2025-03-18T12:32:06+00:00

That’s what I did

my_mix_still_sucks · 2025-03-18T16:34:08+00:00

You sound like you are asking about whether you should use low level NPCs to get more experience in an rpg, kind of psychopathic to use people like this

BuyHighValueWomanNow · 2025-03-18T16:46:48+00:00

What harm do you see in pumping and dumping a chick that wants to be pumped and dumped?

chocolateegg1233 · 2025-03-18T14:40:05+00:00

Of course

Everyone deserves some kind of pleasure, why not you being the guy who gives these girl some dick

Fun is fun

Pussy is aways good

But if i live in a small town, girls will find out and not date me

This is false claim

The more you bang girls, the more girls will want to have sex with you

Think about it

How inclined you are to buy a product that no one has ever buy it?

Now imagine the following

You bang some mid chicks, have a great time, make most of them cum multiple times

These chicks will tell others chicks that they fuck with you and they have their legs shaking after

Knowing that, more girls will be interested in you because you are a sex powerhouse

The more you get laid, better you'll get at it

The better you get, more girls will want it

Smooth_Use4981 · 2025-03-18T12:26:36+00:00

What do you mean “mids”???

Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should focus on personalities to decide if someone is “mid”

As long as shes decent and healthy and has a good personality that’s what should matter

Sea_Art8442 · 2025-03-18T12:25:01+00:00

If you are REALLY despo

Far-End470 · 2025-03-18T14:40:28+00:00

Yes. It’s good practice.

morphinetango · 2025-03-18T16:47:41+00:00

Experience builds expertise and confidence, but not necessarily satisfaction. Depends on what you're after.

SylAbys · 2025-03-18T17:44:50+00:00

This might be my age speaking.... But, fuck with someone who you vibe with. I know when young and/or inexperienced, you just wanna nut for the pleasure. But in my lifetime it gets old quick and becomes unfullfilling. At least if you can enjoy their time out of the bedroom, you WILL definitely enjoy their time behind closed doors.

ryux999 · 2025-03-18T20:05:18+00:00

I mean they’re probably fucking you just for the “mid experience” so why not

veryrare_v3 · 2025-03-18T11:50:57+00:00

Jynnkz · 2025-03-18T11:54:21+00:00

You could just find someone worth falling in love with, vice versa and learn together. Teach each other and have the best most connected sex in your life. Why settle for mids?

creatorofstuffn · 2025-03-18T18:55:10+00:00

Maybe you're the mid.

Pure_Song_6934 · 2025-03-18T11:49:15+00:00

If you’re immature

SammySprinkles9000 · 2025-03-18T16:42:29+00:00

Id recommend finding someone you are attracted to, and learning with 1 girl… you generally don’t get feedback from a 1 night stands…

BatBottleBank · 2025-03-18T16:59:50+00:00

No. 2 mins of pleasure is not worth the hours and money you will spend on dates.

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3ntrop3y · 2025-03-18T14:22:58+00:00

Don’t have sex with anyone you wouldn’t want your kid to share genes with.

jerria12 · 2025-03-18T17:16:01+00:00

Sorry, mids?

tweedsmuir001 · 2025-03-18T19:42:45+00:00

No. It is perfectly possible to maintain extremely high standards, and to succeed. Remember, seducing 9s and 10s is easier than 6s, 7s, or 8s. Keep your standards, remember you’re the prince.

After-Pickle8281 · 2025-03-18T11:53:49+00:00

What does mid mean?

joemedic · 2025-03-18T16:51:53+00:00

Nah it just causes emptiness and hurt

Title	should you fuck mids for experience ?
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Date	March 18, 2025 11:45 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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