When did you start learning and practicing the game

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-27T20:30:14+00:00

Same time I started playing sports at 13 years old, walking around the mall with the guys trying to get numbers.

As much of a dumpsterfire as that experience was, I would go back to doing that any day because smart phones and social media didn't exist and girls were mainly limited to who they met in person.

I'm glad I started pre internet, now I know multiple eras of dating.

Back then girls would take serious offense to ignoring them or not picking up the phone, especially if they liked u at first.

Now it's the opposite. The second you show desire for romantic connection or give the slightest degree of extra attention, the girl disappears. This isn't the fault of women, it's because of the thirsty behaviors of modern males using that internet for gratification.

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Tormgibbs · 2024-07-27T19:24:50+00:00

I joined this sub reddit today.. what do you refer to as the game?

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-27T18:50:47+00:00

When i started noticing girls as something other than liabilities in team sports

MrPound4Pound · 2024-07-27T18:59:05+00:00

really as early as my 20s. Was reading material and a lot of theory but rarely put it to practice. Just having so many other responsibilities and engineering school got incredibly tough I didn't put the time in.

Now I'm putting it all to the test way later than usual but for me it's now or never I put the work in and I got all the time in the world now.

I should have made time to dedicate myself on learning the "game" back then even if I had so much schooling going on. One of my biggest regrets.

I would loved to have been starting and putting real work in the field at 24.

berzerker5000 · 2024-07-27T19:42:03+00:00

Last year after my seperation at 43. I was never a total a disaster with chicks but had shit game and approach anxiety. Once I warmed up I was fine, but we all know how important first impressions are. Didn’t know about any pua or seduction techniques aside from whatever I was accidentally already doing. After learning and practicing game like an obsession along with improving my looks, I banged twice as many chicks in last year (around 20) than in my entire life before that which was about 8 mostly girlfriends and the wife. I got 3 right now that I’m juggling. I got multiple chicks coming in on OLD apps I’m always generating leads. I was actually able to talk a chick that became a gf for a minute back into being a fuck buddy so I can keep my rotation going. What a ride .

cash_jc · 2024-07-27T19:16:08+00:00

I was a kid who stumbled onto VH1, and that Pick up artist show was on. The psychology of it all is what really got me hooked. Then when I got into high school I was a menace. As an adult I don’t even realize that I’m going into techniques (which is really more Dale Carnegie stuff now). I also have a very social job, so it serves in that aspect too.

StandardDragonfly128 · 2024-07-28T06:51:25+00:00

So I lost my virginity at 15 and I’m 29 with north of 100 body’s and I never had “game” however I’ve always been aware of how valuable looks are, been hitting the gym 5 days a week since 15 and always take care of my looks. Also I’ve been very aware of what women are like frome a young age, I had a situation where I was having an argument with my first girlfriend and I turned way and walked the opposite direction back to my house and she literally ran after me and completely fell back in line, was like a light switch on my mind. I didn’t have “game” just experience and taking care of my self.

rickyspanish12345 · 2024-07-27T22:32:51+00:00

In my mid 20s. I was cruising the self help section of a bookstore as I was recovering from a devastating breakup when I found The Game. It had just came out and was a life changer for me.

The techniques in the book and on the online forums didn't help much though. What it did do was make me want to work on myself. As I tried to follow the techniques I stumbled onto my own style and worked on self improvement.

I was doing really well in my late 20s through my late 30s until I fucked up and got married. Now that I'm heading back out there the approach anxiety is severe but otherwise it's like riding a bike.

burncushlikewood · 2024-07-28T05:17:09+00:00

I am currently 29 years of age, I started this community when I was 15, and studied game for four years from 2010 to 2013, I had my bachelor's degree you could say in female psychology and seduction. I started on a website called fast seduction, then went to their forum, watched many YouTube videos while clubbing and doing consistent night game in university in my freshman year, over a hundred approaches. The most helpful tool for learning was either watching the pick up artist both seasons, or reading vin DiCarlo books and his escalation ladder

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-07-28T05:41:04+00:00

"It's not about the game. It's about practice" - Allen Iverson

MouseAware809 · 2024-07-28T09:05:19+00:00

I was in the army and on R&R from operational tour. I had met someone I liked, we went out for a few drinks one night and ended up kissing. Then the next day I was getting texts saying "At least we didn't have sex" and "Lets just be friends". I went back to operational tour and some Marines (British Marine commandos not US Marines) told me to read "The Game". I ordered that book and it took me 2 evenings to read it.

It changed my view on dating and relationships totally, I stopped asking interview style questions, I started talking about myself and most importantly I realized I could change, all in all, it gave me confidence about dating for the first time. It had led to me working on myself and putting myself out there, with the intent of improving my skills mostly as opposed to looking for "The One".

No-Wolverine7793 · 2024-07-27T19:04:28+00:00

10 years old when I got my first phone number fast forward 16 years I'm still chasing that high

ThatOneGuy20252 · 2024-07-27T23:35:47+00:00

After de-converting from Christianity. I read 60 years of challenge. Gonna start experimenting soon

TuneSoft7119 · 2024-07-27T21:17:50+00:00

in 2016 at 18 when I started college. I have yet to get any results but I love trying to better myself and love striving to hopefully get a girls number someday

ZAYVERYRARE · 2024-07-27T23:56:17+00:00

I started around my sophomore year in HS. I learn from others & read a couple of books. Now I’m working on my perfecting my own unique “game”.

MentalCelOmega · 2024-07-27T19:10:06+00:00

I tried about two years ago. I realized it was all bullshit.

No_Hat9118 · 2024-07-27T18:58:17+00:00

2006

JustNefariousness625 · 2024-07-27T22:10:14+00:00

notLOL · 2024-07-28T06:27:16+00:00

Flokii99 · 2024-07-28T07:46:58+00:00

The more you play, the better you become

I’m 25m, I’ve had my fair share of fun with women aged 22-38, different nationalities and ethnicities. I guess the ladies like a man with options idk

Anyway, best tip I’d give you is this: never act needy. Once you get more and more chicks, the neediness disappears, and you’ll subconsciously act differently

Dependent-Audience46 · 2024-07-28T09:29:21+00:00

brandonmadeit · 2024-07-28T13:50:19+00:00

Later in the game at like 27 lol

newrisingsun70 · 2024-07-27T21:36:46+00:00

Never. You don’t need to learn game. Just act like a normal human being

Title	When did you start learning and practicing the game
Author	andyJ11235
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Date	July 27, 2024 6:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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