Why do girls like being ignored

ratfooshi · 2024-10-04T01:35:45+00:00

^Its ^less ^about ^being ^ignored.

It's more about raising your perceived value and making them feel like they could lose you.

We only appreciate things when they're gone.

Those moments where we pull back are intended to make her chase.

Oh, and for clarity they don't like it. They just prefer it to neediness. They want to earn their man not win him.

Old_Luck285 · 2024-10-04T03:59:33+00:00

Because little is as unattractive as neediness/desperation.

It's not about ignoring them but being outcome independent.

HarpertFredje · 2024-10-04T08:52:17+00:00

I ignore wormen all the time but that has never worked

hisgreatness64 · 2024-10-04T03:33:51+00:00

It's about being important. Treat yourself like you're important, and people believe you. Important people do not seek your favor.

ManaDeus · 2024-10-04T06:15:26+00:00

They don’t, not about ignoring them but about the perceived value of a man that doesn’t make them the center of attention (as almost all do)

No-Philosophy5461 · 2024-10-04T03:55:32+00:00

Honestly if both partners are emotionally and mentally mature. There won't be the push pull/mind games bullshit.

That's moreso for women or men who are sleeping/dating around and wanting to keep their options open

Mirror5672_LoverXOXO · 2024-10-04T01:21:14+00:00

Everything normalizes to humans, so we will always want what we dont currently have

therealwoujo · 2024-10-04T02:28:27+00:00

Women like a challenge. They like to feel they need to work for your attention.

chineke14 · 2024-10-04T06:36:19+00:00

Lol it's not about being ignored. You're just going after girls who you don't really care about and they way more into you so they chase.

Some girls with issues definitely like mind games but most girls on avg hate being ignored. They interpret it as you're not interested.

Has really nothing to do with them liking to be ignored and more so to deal with level of interest. And yeah if you act needy towards people it's a turn off

Footsoldier420 · 2024-10-04T02:43:16+00:00

I used to ask the same question about women but realized we men do the same thing, most of us at least. Hypocrites are we? Always chasing after that which we can't have.

Ah, the grand old human experience.

Electronic_d0cter · 2024-10-04T04:37:55+00:00

They don't they just don't like to feel like you need them

nordik1 · 2024-10-04T04:58:55+00:00

Humans want what they can’t have. Simple as that

If a girl seems easy to obtain but then ignores you, you’ll focus on her more than others

Just what the brain does

HomelessMilkman · 2024-10-04T07:15:03+00:00

It's not that you 'act like you don't care', it's that you behave in a high self-esteem, entitled, unstifled manner.

You stop caring about what you're offering because you want something.

Lord_Asmodeus93 · 2024-10-04T15:41:00+00:00

It's not about being ignored.

It's about you breaking the pattern of every guy hitting on her seeking rapport with her, and trying to please her to gain her approval.

Humans, just like cats, are wired to want what is hard to get.

AnthonyPillarella · 2024-10-04T04:14:51+00:00

They don't like being ignored. Your version of "not ignoring them" is probably overly needy.

epimpstyle · 2024-10-04T10:36:26+00:00

Avoid falling into the trap of thinking that if you ignore the girl, you will become more interesting/mysterious and maybe she will chase you - NEVER HAPPEN!

She is insecure when you approach her, if you show her you are not interested, you lose her - there are exceptions, but an exception is even winning the lottery jackpot, you can't make rules based on exceptions.

_uncarlo · 2024-10-04T16:59:08+00:00

Because the best way to get someone's attention, is to remove yours. It can apply to pretty much anybody.

DuxDucis52 · 2024-10-04T20:19:45+00:00

I think it's just some women need validation and when you stop giving it they try to get you around their finger again. A woman who likes you will not stop liking you when you give them attention.

rashnull · 2024-10-04T21:18:41+00:00

It shows her you don’t need her and have options

BMagic98 · 2024-10-05T01:39:37+00:00

They don't like being ignored, when this happens it's because they start to get worried that you're not interested anymore despite the fact they showed no interest at the beginning. In summary they're just dumb

Deboniako · 2024-10-04T14:44:16+00:00

After chasing a lot of girls in my 20s and having little to no success, I can confirm that now, being in my 30s, putting my focus on myself and the work I need to do, is paying me tenfold.

Girls just find me more interesting now than ten years ago, just because of the way I express myself and the experiences I share. I'm truly grateful for it.

On the other hand, I have little to no time to chat or chase girls because I have a job, responsibilities, compromises and work must be done.

So yeah, I wouldn't say that I ignore them, I'm just too busy and when I have time to talk to them, I try to put on my best face, be honest and authentic. And just have a good time and vibe. Because time is fleeting and that is the only time I have for fun lmao

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-10-04T01:22:55+00:00

bs b on bs man lol cant really explain the laws of nature you miss whats not around i suppose

WellLickedDick · 2024-10-04T10:49:06+00:00

They don’t. That’s the point.

If you are a bad ass, doing your own shit, sleeping with tons of hot women, and killing it…they will your attention. Perceived higher value as others have said.

I lived this, and trust me, it works.

rvidxrz · 2024-10-04T20:25:01+00:00

once you understand the concept and dynamic of feminine and masculine energy, youll understand how and why it happens like this no matter the gender causing it.

Throwaway4philly1 · 2024-10-04T21:03:18+00:00

So they can manage all of their boyfriends and sugar daddies

migumelar · 2024-10-04T11:32:59+00:00

Daddy issue

AdyseM · 2024-10-05T17:51:43+00:00

As a Russian speaking person, I wonder how well-educated OP is. I mean… Pushkin? Onegin? Rings any bells? What was the outcome, remember? ‘I’m given to another and will forever be loyal to him’. End of story. OP is about 200 years late, unfortunately.

Title	Why do girls like being ignored
Author	NoAnywhere7246
Upvotes	170
Comments	55
Date	October 4, 2024 1:13 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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