On creepy old pervy men…

Kweenshit · 2021-06-06T14:37:01+00:00

Emphasis on LOSER

lateglower · 2021-06-06T17:02:01+00:00

I’m interested to see part two. I think something a lot of these old douches don’t consider is that the young woman will continue to grow and evolve, and she will grow and evolve past him even if he tries to emotionally abuse her into submission.

So a lot of these dudes will end up alone again, while the woman (if she survives and is able to leave) takes the incredibly heavy lesson and goes on to have a life again. It sucks because you do lose your youth (I speak from experience), but at least you learn, unlike this type of man, who just becomes more sad and gross.

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-06-06T15:10:31+00:00

I wish we could blast this in the relationship subs. I’m so tired of seeing age gaps posted and commenters saying “well age gaps can be fine”

ferociouslycurious · 2021-06-06T22:37:12+00:00

The idea that an age gap can be ok is based on the idea that men mature more slowly. But that’s false; if he hasn’t matured by age 40 HE WILL NEVER MATURE. #loserforlife

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-06-06T20:28:22+00:00

I modeled in NY to pay for school when major modeling agencies would actually send the big roster of models on request to celebrities or the super rich. You'd get a note from your booker that such-and-such famous perv had called and wanted to meet. These are household names, major stars, Oscar-winners.

You could never accuse the agency of pimping and expect to keep working, but that's exactly what it was. In return, I assume the agencies could catch glow from celebs, get more bookings for girls appearing on the arms of the who's who of Doucheville, get commissions for throwaway little acting parts or appearances in music videos, whatever. It's all PR and profits.

Luckily, I fell into a cluster of FDS-ish models who had a kind of secular morality about it all and shared the cautionary tales of what happened to models who let their guards down and bought the hype. Horrible. Even if you didn't get, say, ra.ped with a beer bottle by a massive action movie hero-cum-politician (true story) and preemptively blacklisted to silence you or, at the very least, humped and dumped, you might disappear into a douchey old star lair to be spit out 20 years later as a broken, traumatized shell of your former self with dysfunctional kids and a terrible divorce settlement.

I also saw girls getting burned to a crisp by pervy fashion photographers. It seemed amazing that a young woman with literally everything going for her could be turned into a Pickme-dancing slave and have her heart broken by some hideous old loser with dandruff, piles and waning fame. The takeaway is that if you're halfway human and not a cyborg sociopath, don't even get in the ring with the Nazgul.

It didn't look like fun. Plus I had no attraction to old coots. I never took the bait but still got randomly hit on by more than a few walk-of-famers. Common creepy come-ons were the "gazing with painful love-struck yearning" thing that's supposed to draw in dumb bunnies like moths to the douchey old flame; or the aging-down thing where they pretend to be "young, fun and bouncy." Nope. Danger, danger, red alert.

freerollerskates · 2021-06-06T23:07:00+00:00

YEP. Family friend in his 20s hitting on my FIFTEEN YEAR OLD SELF had this exact loser energy. Sadly I was a little damaged, vulnerable and naive. We owe this to the girls in their teens to make it known that these guys are sick losers who can't get a woman their own age.

europoor24 · 2021-06-06T15:55:16+00:00

What's hilarious is that scrotes will talk about hitting their peak in their 40s and becoming rich and dating younger because they can.. I mean sure you're legally allowed to hit on 18 year olds, however will that 18 year old want you? most don't. Oh and most will not become rich and won't age well. I saw 40 year olds when I was 18 and I wasn't interested.

Sallou9 · 2021-06-06T17:29:01+00:00

Men like this dont want mutuality and partnership (which is what a relationship should be). There is no way Leo Dicaprio genuinely admires, respects and adores all his 22 year olds as his equals and peers.

And imo, a real, healthy relationship isnt possible with out that. Unfortunately so many men want want DiCaprio has.So yhey are liars when they say they want a relationship. They want handmaids. They want sex. They want the weird, fictional version of a relationship in their minds; ie, thinking you are better than her, but shes hot, you get sex, she listens to your problems and you arent lonely as much anymore. But they still reserve real respect, admiration etc for other men.

Im WLW, and I cant fathom being with a woman and thinking I'm better than her or not craving to know her deeply and loving her and respecting her as my equal and better.

This way I feel naturally is a default, and most WLW relationships have as this default. Anything less, (ie resembling common heterosexual dynamics) is considered fucked up, abusive, etc. But between men and women it seems to be the baseline, and true mutual respect and care is considered "omg wow what an unbelievably amazing relationship".

It drives me up the wall and I feel so sad and heartbroken all the time for my heterosexual sisters. Keep fighting back against it. Do not settle for less than what should be A GIVEN. ❤

_queeeen_ · 2021-06-07T03:20:42+00:00

Only the truth right here.

straightouttashtetl · 2021-06-06T14:41:15+00:00

Guess it's too bad for those same scrotes that, while my LVX was older and definitely not HV, he DID set a higher bar in many ways at a young age for me lol. By the time we broke up (I was 22), all the men my age thought 50/50 at a buffet was such a great catch and they HATED that my LVX set the bar of taking me for vacations yearly, best hotels in places like Vancouver, best restaurants in the area, first class deals, etc.

That's what ruined dating for me. My first LTR experience was with someone who did high effort dates consistently and there was no chance in hell I could downgrade after that.

NoSurprise7196 · 2021-06-07T08:34:57+00:00

It’s disgusting and I see it way too much. And they always try and defend the decision by saying she’s super mature for her age ... 🤮🤮🤮🤮

AJLake80 · 2021-06-06T15:41:01+00:00

So true

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-06-06T16:49:06+00:00

Gorgeous, and on point! Love her natural makeup.

kolsen92 · 2021-10-03T16:24:49+00:00

And they think they’re soo cool 😅😅

Title	On creepy old pervy men…
Author	Kweenshit
Upvotes	0
Comments	45
Date	June 6, 2021 2:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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