A fat chick who complains she is "good for sex" but never chosen for anything more is talking about the conventionally hot guy having her on a roster - not that fat men are rejecting her. She feels like the men she sleeps with are "using" her body for sex, but the reality is that the ripped gymbro with a bbw fetish is just as much after "her body" as the fattie is after his six pack and abs. So no, Samantha. Your tinder date who only wanted to smash is just as shallow as you were when you laser swiped left on everything under 6ft before matching with his tall ass. The question however is why does it seem so many women are unaware, or unwilling to admit, they are preselecting based on lust themselves?