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Zoidberg22/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:13 PM
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I'd say, if you've already gone out, texting has more than just a function of scheduling time. But before, it should only be for that unless you aren't in the same city.
/r/seduction30/05/20 05:05 PM
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Seems like you're not meeting up with them, or at least making up plans to meet up. At some point, your conversation will run dry without in-person interaction, that's just how things work.
/r/seduction30/05/20 05:04 PM
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Invite her out one on one
/r/seduction22/05/20 07:34 PM
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Max deleted a whole boatload of his old stuff.
/r/seduction22/05/20 07:34 PM
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teasing is fine
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:49 PM
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Bro what’s your bio like?
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:51 PM
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Also I’ve found attractive women are more receptive in person
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:11 PM
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Yes there is
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:10 PM
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By being man to woman
/r/seduction11/07/19 08:15 PM
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Thanks dude!
/r/seduction10/07/19 09:55 PM
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Move on
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:54 PM
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It happened to you bro!
/r/seduction10/07/19 03:43 AM
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This is terrible advice other than the accusing her of making moves
/r/seduction06/07/19 04:49 PM
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Realize that people care little about what you do in terms of a cold approach
/r/seduction06/07/19 03:20 AM
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Shit tests are more through talking than actions imo
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:12 PM
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This place has good advice from time to time but remember that not everything has to be technical. It’s guidelines, not hard and fast rules that have to be observed every time
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:11 PM
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And if she looks at your lips multiple times, go for it
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:19 AM
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Highlight reel of what people want you to believe in going on in their lives
/r/seduction04/07/19 10:57 PM
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This!
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:45 PM
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Bye
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:12 PM
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Small talk is fine as long as you quickly find a commonality
/r/seduction03/07/19 01:02 AM
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I would say having a v shape body is better than a six pack. V shape and broad shoulders > skinny guy with a six pack and small muscles. But just be in shape, or at least look like you are for girls that are in shape/fit themselves, since that's the type of lifestyle that you'd be getting yourself into assuming you and her click.
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:08 PM
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Nice! Having options and being playful works in these cases.
/r/seduction24/05/18 04:49 PM
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Or you could want to be friends with a woman knowing that going for anything more would hurt your social circle reputation etc.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:58 PM
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Does that have good success?
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:07 PM
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Such as?
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:07 PM
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Have these worked for you? I don't give a shit since it's online but have those been good in effectiveness?
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:07 PM
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I mean it's a match so could just be validation or whatever
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:06 PM
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Just to be clear. I don't do this normally. Not sure if you are joking. But in case you are sleeping over, be assured nothing will happen. Think of something that can give you plausible deniability
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:23 PM
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The hardest point for me is the opener of just stopping them, I can flow easily from there and beyond, but man the opener to get them to stop is tough.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:47 PM
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If she's lonely it's either a LDR or she's lying about having a BF. Most serious ones you live with them or live in the same city/close enough to visit weekly
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:43 PM
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Good FR! I would talk slower though
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:42 PM
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WTF are you takling about with the last part?
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:41 PM
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Proximity is a certain IOI. If she has contact, or you touch her and she doesn't move away or react to it, there's at least some interest.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:39 PM
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Also if they regularly do drugs or drinks themselves silly every day, I'm out too. Small drug use and drinking on the weekends/moderation is fine, but yeah.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:38 PM
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To add to her comment on her story, and not with a typical validation line of oh you're cute etc...
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:07 PM
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Not the ones I know but thanks.
/r/seduction22/05/18 11:36 PM
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As long as you don't care about your age, neither will the girls. They might be surprised, but if they are attracted to you, they won't care. This mindset applies to about you caring about anything, and they won't care if you don't.
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:53 PM
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Go out by yourself to a bar/pub etc. Wouldn't recommend a club since it's more socially acceptable to be at a bar/pub by yourself than club.
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:52 PM
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Don't do it in the gym unless you: get good IOIs, and even then good luck see her talking to someone you're already a friend of and then ask how you know each other etc if she's part of a group that's trained there that you've seen, just curious etc... If you don't get one of these three, just approach outside the gym if you see her, and be mature about it, if she turns you down. Though if you approach in the gym, and you see her there more than once in forever, maybe play the long game and don'…
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:50 PM
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they have been approached dozens maybe hundreds of times. LMAO. Where do you go to school? Always hit on girls at the beginning of the school year when girls are actually single and haven't paired up with boyfriends already. I know of a few girls that just focus on school and enjoy being single. Shocking, I know.
/r/seduction22/05/18 03:31 PM
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Maybe just hug goodbye?
/r/seduction22/05/18 03:28 PM
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Yup. Though just turned 21 and talked to a 31 year old woman who clearly was turned off a bit after I revealed my age.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:19 PM
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That's good.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:18 PM
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Some women will turn you down due to your age btw
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:47 PM
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As long as you look like and give off the vibe that you want to improve your life women don't care.
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:23 PM
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Basically she was talking to her friend about me the whole time and saying oh he dresses nice and she was playing with her hair. She likes you. Once I left the place I saw her look at me and try to make eye contact but i pretended i never noticed her. Since women rarely approach, she was looking at you to give you a sign that she's open to be approached. Any advice of what I should have done in case something like this happens again.. Talk to her, and just say anything, like hi, or something abo…
/r/seduction20/05/18 04:08 PM
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Sounds like she isn't happy with him or is just toying with you.
/r/seduction20/05/18 03:47 PM
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uh... what happened here? There's no details.
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:50 PM
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I don't approach sometimes since I have zero desire at times to talk to women.
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:47 PM
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Took me about a year and a half from being scared of talking to girls I find attractive to it being second nature now.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:53 PM
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Depends on where you approach. On a random street or at the mall, yeah, it'll take some time. If it's at a park/campus/place with a shared activity then it'll take less time.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:53 PM
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It depends where you do it. If it's on or close to a campus and your of similar age, you'll have decent results if you're average looking and approach a bit with zero outcome dependence. Women either care about height because they are shallow, and the ones that don't might even find it hot that you have confidence to approach them. To be fair, if I "approach" around campus I don't go full direct, more of a social type game. I only do full direct in places that I don't go to often. Rejection is b…
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:52 PM
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Nice, dude!
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:49 PM
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Escalation windows exist. I had a girl in my class this past year touch me while sitting, enjoyed feeling my biceps etc. We had a communication breakdown when trying to set up a date, and then her interest waned. She with another guy now, so I know that escalating and seizing the moment is critical. Don't be like me.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:56 PM
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and she told me she could give me her number but she has a boyfriend, so I left it. This is a good thing. Most of the times in this scenario where they say stuff like that, they find you attractive, like you but are taken.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:31 PM
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Eh. Don't approach if they give you zero eye contact. Either talk to them outside the gym, or talk to them if you get a decent enough vibe. Keep it short and sweet (say like I see you in here all the time, I'm social with everyone, blah blah blah)
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:30 PM
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Oh. Didn't read that. In the cases where that's all she says then says a quick line
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:50 PM
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I would say something like, "take it as a compliment" and then eject. h/t to Howtobeast on youtube for that line which shows social calibration
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:16 PM
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For non pubic areas, I shave/trim my chest and use an electric razor for my armpits, so it's shaved but there's still stubble there. Just because it feels good to have a smooth chest. Shaving leg hair as a non swimmer for a guy is weird.
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:59 PM
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Some woman find it cute that a guy is awkward. Most won't, but some do.
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:58 PM
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So some of this happens at the gym for me. The girm usually stares sometimes at me and we have eye contact and nothing happens. A few of these times I've spoken to them before but only just to ask how many sets are left. What should I do?
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:58 PM
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No. Hot women have various tastes in who they find "hot". You'd be surprised, and you're likely some hot woman's "fetish" type.
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:14 PM
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If you have women interested in you and nothing happens, stop being passive. Take more risks. Ask her out, touch her, and go for the kiss. You'd be surprised at what women that are into would accept your advances
/r/seduction15/05/18 11:10 PM
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or at the very least have multiple girls there.
/r/seduction15/05/18 10:21 PM
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really? I mean sometimes I get a girls contact info and then literally forget about her for a few weeks. The ultimate opposite of neediness.
/r/seduction15/05/18 10:20 PM
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Literally anything before that. It's just that a first sentence as that would throw some guys off
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:29 PM
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Mostly the same but they're likely more receptive since they know your friends/school etc..
/r/seduction14/05/18 09:49 PM
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Dm her about anything
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:49 PM
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No. I do social circle game mostly
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:49 PM
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Any other approaches you use? I've done the transparent line and it hasn't worked while just responding to stories has. My issue is getting them on a date, so suggesting doing something cool is a go? So either just like pics + respond to stories then? Why should I never comment?
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:02 PM
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eh. I know of some outgoing girls that literally don't date during the year since they focus on school/life etc.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:44 PM
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Nope. I approached a girl coming out of my exam, walking in the same direction (we had eye contact like twice during the semester, and had a neutral face expression). I opened with how did you think you did, and then her face lit up later when I talked to her about home country. She left in a week, and nothing happened, but I could tell she was attracted a bit. You never know until your try.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:44 PM
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Yes. But only in cases where you know she's really into you. I blew a chance this past year with a girl that gave me strong eye contact in class, asked for my number, and was touching me when we talked close together. I screwed up the first date and now she's with another guy. I've moved on but the only thing I've learned from that is to act faster.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:35 PM
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To be fair, some girls won't even respond to your dms, despite being attractive, while others will. What are some good examples to pick up girls with instagram dm's? I usually just respond to their stories and if they say a comment back I go from there and ask them out, or if they don't respond just unfollow them.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:32 PM
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If a woman came up and said literally "how's life do you feel like having a drink", I'd be creeped out, even if the girl is hot. I want to know if a potential date isn't an axe murder to say. I appreciate it when girls take initiative, but being too forward is a turn off.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:28 PM
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I mean, sure you could have a girl who think's you're attractive the moment you approach her and ask for her number quickly, but most of the time, if that's your opener, you won't get good results. If you think the girl isn't that invested after talking to her for a while, ask for her social media, and take it from there. I only ask for numners when I can tell the girl is either attracted to me, we vibe together or she asks me for my number.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:26 PM
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Even a 2 minute conversation will improve your odds.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:26 PM
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True, or the girl has a fetish for his "type" which bypasses any of "game".
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:25 PM
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Same. I've gotten honestly like 50 matches (with shit pics) the past month or so, and not one date.Getting convos and dates is harder than matches.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:23 PM
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Even in school/class/party/wherever, when you're talking a girl that you've never talked to before, you are approaching her as a stranger. It isn't cold since you too have a common connection, the environment that you're in.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:20 PM
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Give him strong eye contact. If he doesn't approach you after that/you approach him and he doesn't seem into you, he's either taken, not interested (which if he's single and you're good looking, which it seems like you are, would be shocking) or gay.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:19 PM
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To add to this, if you're having fun, and are at least average looking, odds are that there will be at least one girl that is into you there.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:17 PM
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Or just send a message based on their stories. Some girls respond, most won't,
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:13 PM
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See ya later
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:29 PM
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I mean for a ons sure, but any quality woman won't want to be around self loathing etc....
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:10 PM
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Getting your life in check with accepting yourself is critical. A woman won't solve your problems, only you can.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:11 PM
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If it's someone that you might see again I go for social media at first since they give it out quicker than a number. Then you can ask for a number later.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:10 PM
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Agree with this. It's honestly not until you pass a girl that you want to approach and don't that you get angry with yourself and then vow to make changes. That's what I did.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:58 PM
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Yeah, I don't know if it's true, but there's more attractive women than un-attractive ones that I know that are single and/or on dating apps (some for validation, but I know a few attractive woman that have little relationship history if any at all).
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:58 PM
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I don't have a huge group of friends at my uni, but enough that at the gyms mostly I always see a friend or two, or on campus I see one every couple of days and chat for a bit. Just don't be too forward in places where they can't leave.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:57 PM
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My cousin knows of a friend who met his fiancee by random chance. They were literally going in different directions on the escalator in the subway and he said hey, wait and the rest is history. I've met friends and other women in non conventional social stuff.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:56 PM
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In non bar/club/daygame places I approach with no expectations (think school/social) just to be more social and expand my network of people. This includes guys that I ask for messenger/Insta to hang out so I seem at least more social. It gets you in the mood.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:53 PM
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Look. No approach is going to picture perfect, with nobody around, and the girl giving you a big smile/invitation to approach with full eye contact. I approached a girl coming out of my exam, while walking beside her and literally said (we made eye contact once during the exam) how did you think it went, and then went from there. We talked for a bit and then she lit up when I asked about her, she talked for a bit, and then laughed at what I said. She was just here for a semester and then gone, b…
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:51 PM
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What about girls that watch your IG stories/ones that respond to your comments on theirs but you've never seen them IRL? What do you do then? I'm clueless about this stuff haha.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:49 PM
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I live in Toronto and though I hate using the rating system, there's tons of 7-9s I see everyday when I'm out. In every big city in North America there are tons of really attractive women.
/r/seduction11/05/18 11:03 PM
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It is. But in a class I have zero approach anxiety or even when they're sitting down. Just something about approaching a girl who is walking that throws me off.
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:11 AM
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Damn great post. How important is it to escalate when first meeting her? I kino girls the 2nd time I meet them but other than hugging them goodbye I don't do much the initial meeting/approach
/r/seduction10/05/18 03:49 AM
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Ask for their social media instead
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:49 PM
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What if you're the guy who talks to everyone at the gym and has talked to a few women who go there outside the gym?
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:02 PM
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I never do direct unless I know there's a 99.9% chance I'll never see her again
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:43 AM
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Thanks! I still have a ways to go, but yeah it's a process. I'm self conscious and anxious too dude with some social situations. I deal with rejection as it (if it's not due to them having a boyfriend ) eliminating those who I'm not compatible with. Most women won't be that cruel provided you're respectful.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:09 PM
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she said that she owes me a date https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_CHjYoqPUU
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:08 PM
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ugh. This isn't good advice. It works for you clearly, but it's not for me.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:04 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't do this. Romeo and Juliet laws might even be in play here since you're 17 and she's at max 14 years old. Big difference between being 30 and going after early 20s.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:03 PM
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Yes it does. My first ever approach was laughable
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:00 PM
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I can never find speed dating events for people under the age of 25 honestly. Most of the people who go to these events are closer to 30.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:59 PM
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Talk to the entire group and maybe ask for an opinion opener or ask for a small favor (lighter etc)
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:57 PM
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I used to have massive social anxiety which looking back upon it as the person I've turned into today is shocking, only 3 years ago. I would actively not go to social functions, and avoided orientation at my uni since I would have to talk to other people. I got over it by talking to people in my classes during first year etc and going from there. 2nd year I joined clubs etc, and finally talked to women (which I remember the first time I talked to a girl with intent since high school, I stammered…
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:55 PM
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I've met better friends in college through my athletic club than I ever did in high school.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:52 PM
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I don't think I would use cold approach in college. I think of cold approach as something to use with a chick for whom it is now or never -- talk to her now or you would likely never cross her path again. Yup. I've truly "cold approached in terms of someone I'm 99.9% never seeing again" around 10 times in the past year or so. I've talked to hundreds of people both guys and girls on and around campus, just being social.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:51 PM
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One thing I would recommend is that if you don't think she overtly likes you so you can get a number, go for a social media instead. Most girls have their guard down for that, and I've found on campus, doing that instead of numbers works better.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:50 PM
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lol. Most girls are fine with talking to you even if they aren't interested. It's called being social even if you and/or her aren't interested in each other that much by the end of it.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:49 PM
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Also look into the library, thats where you can gauge interest with girls simply by eye contact and glances across the room. I've had eye contact with different girls at the library, does that mean anything? It's kinda a different place.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:48 PM
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hmm. I'm kinda shocked you didn't even get a number. The numbers game is that 1 of those 60 chicks would've been single/into you enough. As Cevar7 said below, which I agree with, if it isn't a girl that you likely will never see again barring some odd thing happening, then yeah go direct. If it's people you know you'll see again, just be social, get to know them and then get their social media info. Then ask them out later so the blow back if they reject you is less. EDIT (I saw it was 2-6 peopl…
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:47 PM
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Ask her out
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:43 PM
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Awesome! I need to do more of that in my life.
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:41 PM
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You'd have a better chance if it was her Mom tbh.
/r/seduction05/05/18 10:33 PM
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As the other post said yesterday, have some "fuck it" moments and just go for it.
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:59 PM
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Or as simply put "one shot, one opportunity, would you seize it or let it slip..."
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:08 PM
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I mean if you get matches but they don't respond, what's the deal there? Getting a good convo is the hardest part IMO
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:26 PM
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Thanks. I have literally zero expectations for this and only an interested by one topic and will bounce quickly if it's not up to par (which is what I think it'll be).
/r/seduction04/05/18 12:36 PM
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Thanks for the reply. The only thing I'm confused about is it isn't advertised as a mixer etc, so maybe approaching girls directly isn't the best thing? After reading the link not all the girls would be single but a decent portion of them might be. So just get the digits and ask them out during talking to them? And yeah, that could be true, but why would you say that? Idk m.
/r/seduction04/05/18 03:45 AM
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Hence vibe here...
/r/seduction04/05/18 01:11 AM
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I get self-conscious whenever a girl does blatant IOIs.
/r/seduction03/05/18 10:31 PM
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See her reaction to touch. Should tell you a bit about how she feels towards you.
/r/seduction03/05/18 10:18 PM
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You should. If you don't just move on. Most women love to talk.
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:35 PM
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Appprach her. Ideally you'd like to approach her during the day when she's alone but address the group with an opinion opener and see who responds the best.
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:21 PM
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Ehh..... I talked to a girl who I saw making eye contact with me a few months back, OUTSIDE the gym and just talked about stuff, before I left and found out she was 29. Talking to other girls is good as long as it's platonic mostly in the gym since they'll see you being social with others and won't think you're a creeper too. (Though in your case, also talk to guys). At my campus gyms I talk to the same base of about 5-6 people (not every time I'm there, but yeah) + I know the half of the staff …
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:00 PM
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I don't categorizing women by a scale TBH. It's ugly, unattractive, cute, attractive and hot to me.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:53 PM
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Or, at the very least, go indirect, ask a question, and then halfway during her response or after she does, say that I already knew, or I just made it up, and then say I stopped you since I thought you were cute, etc... If it's a random approach on a street, you won't be seeing her again as a 99% chance, so go direct, who knows what will happen!
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:52 PM
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It's the way you say it, not what you say, providing it's not crude.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:51 PM
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I've always had better experiences with more attractive women during approaches in that even if they're taken/not interested mostly they don't act weird about it. If they friendzone you after a while, they usually have attractive friends.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:50 PM
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10s always have guys fawning over them so they don't need more of that. If they're extroverted, sure, but some who are more shy/reserved certainly don't.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:48 PM
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In some cases, sure. But I approached this girl in my class who I saw a few times during the semester/library after my exam while walking out, who had RBF, and after a few minutes was laughing, and vibing towards most of things I saw saying. She was going back to a different country, which sucked, but you don't need a smile to have a chance. It helps, but isn't the be all and end all.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:48 PM
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The first part is good, but ask her out (not this personal advisory crap of hiding your intentions)
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:44 PM
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So essentially, just have eye contact and then smile?
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:40 PM
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One thing to add: For classmates/casual workers where it's for a fixed period of time. Wait towards the semester/fixed schedule is over and then go full out in asking her out. As the other commenter here said, just do something small like coffee so it's not this big thing. BE MORE SOCIAL TOWARDS OTHERS
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:38 PM
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I freeze up whenever a girl smiles towards me and I shut down mentally and feel self conscious. What can I do?
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:34 PM
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Great advice. To add to this: there's a 99% chance (especially if it's a random time/spot you're at) you will never see her again, so your advice is fine. Talk for max 5 minutes and then say you gotta go but let's hang out sometime and then ask for her number or she'll give it to you. You'll get rejected a bit, but a surprising amount of women will be open to you.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:32 PM
1

Snapchat/numbers don't mean dick without a plan of why you got them. You didn't ask for it since that's all you wanted, right? You want to see her again, thus that being the mode of communication until you can. As the other comment says too.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:27 PM
1

I usually ask them to add me on FB if it's a situation where I'm likely to see them again or guaranteed to do (class/temp event jobs etc)
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:26 PM
1

Eh. Some shy girls will stare/smile quickly, but other than that, they won't open up until you talk to them.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:24 PM
3

What should I do, pay a fuck ton for college just to meet girls? Don't do that. College should be for your future and education.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:23 PM
9

Not too be harsh but either: not their type/race(yes that sucks, but some people won't date certain races) not interested in dating already taken not interested in your vibe
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:22 PM
1

I've seen butt ugly dude with total babes Where have you? I see the opposite, but not so much the former. Or maybe I haven't been looking closely enough?
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:21 PM
4

Acting and reflecting on what happened is key here
/r/seduction02/05/18 11:01 PM
1

Not you, the OP who doesn't believe it. And women are more forgiving IRL anyways and more easily attracted
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:30 PM
1

She could be someone you don't like after a while at all. Relationships of any kind happen organically
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:30 PM
1

Though they won't say it, the majority of women(not all, but a good portion) want to be in a monogamous relationship.
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:29 PM
1

In person, that's horse shit TBH. I've seen attractive women with decent looking minority guys
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:28 PM
1

Ask friends/strangers to take photos of you in public places. If you have a selfie, just take one max.
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:27 PM
3

Is true most of the time but I've met some attractive women that I thought were experienced and it turned out they were never in a relationship etc...
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:26 PM
5

I mean the fear of escalating. I've approached women and made them laugh got numbers etc, it the next part that scares me the most
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:17 AM
24

What about having a fear of succeeding? I mean once in a while I see decently attractive women checking me out and I freeze up/look away.
/r/seduction30/04/18 11:29 PM
1

I would comment on her outfit than just saying you're cute. The intent is there anyways unless you give off gay vibes
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:33 PM
1

So this is essentially reframing the interaction as a masculine frame?
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:32 PM
1

Post some more, it would be appreciated!
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:31 PM
2

Not a shill but his previous vids have majority of them be fails
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:30 PM
1

If your in Toronto, approach outside man. Inside places kinda feel like your trapping them in.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:54 PM
1

M'lady /s
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:53 PM
2

Social circle. Post-secondary you can approach since no one cares
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:39 PM
2

Start a convo. If she likes your pics she's at least intrigued by your or at the very least your pics.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:38 PM
1

Would love to see other feedback on this. This is a problem that I've had too.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:37 PM
2

Ugh. That sucks
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:37 PM
1

Could you help me with IG game at all?
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:20 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction25/04/18 05:37 PM
0

I mean I live in Toronto so it isn't terrible but yeah
/r/seduction25/04/18 12:02 AM
0

Big city?
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:57 PM
2

What if you touch her and she doesn't respond at all neither positively or negatively? How would you escalate tension then?
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:08 AM
1

Such as....?
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:15 AM
3

I guess. I mean I've been able with a few women to touch their hair while I talk to them and they do nothing in response neither negative or positive. Does that mean anything? I can also see them staring at me at times before we talk as well
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:53 PM
3

They don't care unless you care.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:26 PM
1

What are you doing today, or just make observation opener
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:26 PM
37

It's not a rejection forever. Hit her back up once she has less to do and then you should get your answer.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:25 PM
1

I mean one of them is a bit of a transit ride away but nothing too far (45min on the subway) though she's really shy so I dunno. I'm turning 21 soon if that matters. Could meet her in the middle right? This is more of a general question TBH
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:24 PM
19

Honestly, how would you feel sexual tension during talking to a girl?
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:21 PM
2

Makes sense. But there are case where an attractive woman sometimes doesn't get compliments since they're shy/reserved etc, so then still compliment here then?
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:11 PM
2

How do you find house parties to go to? I can be social with everyone but never get invited to specifically house parties. Other social gatherings I do get invited to, but never one of those haha.
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:04 PM
2

Work out and talk to everyone
/r/seduction23/04/18 04:21 PM
1

Seemed like she wanted me to stay so not sure if that was a good idea. She just texted back trying to start a conversation. She's interested in you. Answer her question and set up a date immediately. Don't let this opportunity slip.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:29 PM
2

Yeah, I get decent matches too but starting conversation and them replying is a chore. Maybe suggest a date idea based off of her profile/pics before actually asking her out? I dunno, I'm open to trying any new things with the app.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:26 PM
1

Maybe just have one drink to loosen up
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:24 PM
1

I will, though some other guy said to say this: "I'm going to the market on (day), do you wanna come along?" is that worse than yours?
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:14 PM
1

Thanks. Sounds like something I should do in the future regardless right?
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:13 PM
1

I'm going to send this verbatim (I don't really care about this chick, but thanks!)
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:55 PM
1

I've talked to her once, for like 10 minutes. Anyways, does something such as (activity, and then you should go with me, does (x day work for you/what's your schedule like?)
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:44 PM
2

Does pupil dilation mean anything when it changes from dilated inside, to not outside? But I've seen some girls eyes dilate when I talk to them though they're shy so it doesn't mean much.
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:24 PM
10

it's the same guy posting again edit: LOL you're saying february 25 was taken today
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:21 PM
1

I know but any help with escalating at all? I mean I guess I'm giving off signals that I'm not interested when I am. I'm trying to use touch better.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:30 AM
2

Don't walk away just yet, if they're still talking to you, there some sort of interest on their level there.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:26 PM
1

Though women check me out, and sometimes give out IOIs during conversations, I'm just too chicken shit to escalate. Maybe it's my ego that's holding me back due to a fear of success. Again, having parents talk nothing about relationships or sex to me and seeing their own marriage fall apart hasn't helped. Yeah I guess though, I just don't really care about sex, just want a normal connection long term TBH, but not asexual. I've talked to therapists about this so it's not something I've ignored.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:24 PM
1

1.5 years still no lays haha. In College if that matters (a serious school tho) and little success past approaching and getting numbers/contact info.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:20 PM
1

So what are some examples of stuff you do over instagram? Follow them first? Ask for a number after a while?
/r/seduction19/04/18 08:28 PM
2

I'm part white and it's not as easy as you say it is. It's very hard.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:46 PM
1

How do you do it over instagram?
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:44 PM
1

Stop spam posting the same question.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:16 PM
2

Agreed. LOL on the second one though.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:53 PM
1

Dude, stop spam posting.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:42 PM
2

It sucks to say, but just work on yourself, and delete snapchat and don't visit social media that often. We all fail, but just work on making yourself better as you're the only one that lives in your body, don't change yourself, not for your family, friends or a random girl you barely know.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:41 PM
1

In a similar boat. I feel attractive both inwards and outwards to women but can't close to save my life. Any advice? Feel like I have imposter syndrome to be honest.
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:22 PM
2

Maybe indirect as an opener, sure but if it's a place you know there's a 99% chance you won't see her again, then go direct so you don't miss your shot
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:17 PM
1

I need your advice on this. I get matches, some of them are cute/attractive but I have no idea what to say, it isn't like IRL where I can tell if she's at least somewhat attracted (though they usually are hotter IRL) Any ideas?
/r/seduction16/04/18 09:25 PM
1

Agreed. If you hook her, she'll laugh, and ask you questions and then you go from there.
/r/seduction16/04/18 07:46 PM
1

Unlike bumble where you have to disable the app from your facebook page to get your rating back to normal after deleting your account, it's brand new.
/r/seduction16/04/18 07:38 PM
1

Secondly, even girls that are taken can be (gasp) attracted to other guys and give off flirty vibes, sometimes subconsciously. I guess but I've read on here that if she's still there talking to you or with you there's some level of investment there. Did you ever tell her you think she is attractive/hot/cute? No, but I've read on here that it's way too basic and useless. Does she know without a doubt that this was a man to woman interaction? Probably? I didn't ask any sexual question so I dunno h…
/r/seduction16/04/18 12:04 AM
1

No, I made a comment about her camo pants and had that observation in my head about her. She qualified herself by after I asked her why she chose music as a program at my school and going into how it affects her etc, why she had to do it.
/r/seduction15/04/18 11:58 PM
5

Use social intelligence then.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:29 AM
1

Even to someone you just met? During the day time? That gave you good eye contact?
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:39 PM
85

Say anything. As long as it isn't crude as an opener, women don't remember what you said to them the first time you met them. Seriously.
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:39 PM
7

Yeah I agree with this. At the very least, give them eye contact so they can prepare.
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:38 PM
1

I mean if they say they say "I have a boyfriend," they either do or are rejecting you which is whatever and even if they don't, it's usually not worth your time. If they say my boyfriend did x, then it's genuine.
/r/seduction13/04/18 10:03 PM
2

But still you're wrong if you're under 25 in a big city honestly
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:58 PM
4

Have you seen the number of women on dating apps? Singles events etc? They aren't all taken.
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:54 PM
3

Follow them and wait for a follow back/and or DM them either on anything or responding to their stories. As an aside I had a girl I didn't even match with me, respond to my DM, plus another girl following me back and I have no idea what to say.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:08 PM
1

Yeah, I mean sometimes I go indirect if they're in the same class/building at first but if there's a significant chance we won't ever see each other again I go direct.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:07 PM
1

Really? I mean I do convey intent by asking for a number/inviting them out etc after a small bit so what do you say?
/r/seduction10/04/18 09:52 PM
1

How? Some guys are better with girls than others
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:18 PM
1

Invoking emotions is part of it. Just can't be boring and predictable
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:53 PM
2

I personally know an attractive woman who is my age and has never been in a relationship. This might be selection bias, but I see more "average" looking women in relationships compared to hotter/more attractive women. Of course there are plenty of attractive woman that are taken but around my school at least I rarely see attractive girls with an equally attractive guy. As well, I see more attractive women on dating apps than non attractive where I live.
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:09 PM
1

Yeah I guess. I mean when you ask a girl to hangout one on one she knows it isn't as friends though right? I've only had it in the past where I warm up to the girl in terms of being attracted to them. How are dates a waste of time when I've only ever done drink dates as first dates. The first part, fine, but how is the 2nd being an nice guy? My intentions when inviting her out isn't as friends. How can I fix my issues? It's just that if she agrees to come and than I escalate I don't want a "wher…
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:25 AM
1

How can you find singles mixers? Even at my school I've never seen a singles event which is weird since I go to a big university.
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:28 PM
3

No but don't be direct if they're in your class. Invite them out for a non class activity and you should know by then. Even just say let's grab drinks
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:30 AM
1

Seems hard. Was almost model level in terms of looks though I never slept with her.
/r/seduction08/04/18 12:28 AM
2

Either wait until they follow back, Or if they don't, view their stories and reply to it. If it's read and isn't responded to more than one time, just unfollow. And some probably disable notifications if you're not even getting left on seen.
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:40 PM
1

I have. It's just I didn't think about her until literally her photo cam up on Instagram. And even subconsciously
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:02 AM
2

I have issues with this too as a 20 year old
/r/seduction06/04/18 01:09 AM
1

What about in the cases where a girl doesn't respond for a day or two, but sends a long-ish response in turn?
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:46 PM
1

Yeah, I had this happen to me recently. I met a girl in class, got her number and vibed with her. Asked her out and though she did flake (was a legit excuse her phone got stolen, I saw the report) we still talked. She was one of the few girls that touched me unprompted during conversations and had long hugs with. Through my own stupidity I didn't contact her again after setting up a date in December that she seemed into. She's likely with another guy right now and I've given up hope with her. Mo…
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:45 PM
1

Interesting. I see mainly between 3-4s of your list with a few 5s mixed in (2 who I have matched with but the convo went nowhere, ugh) so that means it's based on attractiveness? I didn't put up any new photos and though I usually reset my account every few weeks I see I get between 3-5 new likes, so what's happening?
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:39 PM
3

I've only really been open and vulnerable with one girl and she's a friend who I approached. I find it hard to do that with a girl until you build some trust
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:10 AM
1

So what's a good message for social media where she either follows you back and or accepts your request? Especially if you saw her on a dating site?
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:31 PM
2

Not giving a fuck. Specifically about what their own reaction would be to it. And being calm during moments of tension too. When I stopped caring (within social intelligence of course) of what I would say to women with their reaction in mind I found they responded better to me.
/r/seduction01/04/18 11:08 PM
1

Are you talking about instagram/messenger type stuff, because that's exactly what I'm describing. So just use your methods for dating sites and instagram/messenger too? I'm a bit confused here.
/r/seduction01/04/18 10:58 PM
1

Yup. That's it. It's also a fear of success.
/r/seduction01/04/18 10:57 PM
1

Just a question about that, what do you do when she accepts your request/or you follow her then she follows you? What do you send in a DM? As a reference most of these girls are from tinder/bumble so there's a good chance they're single/open to something. What messages should I send then when it isn't a blind dm? Just small talk and then asking her for her number for a hangout?
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:31 PM
1

You mean her left eye from your point of view or her actual left eye?
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:58 PM
2

I'm in that mindest too. I get a number, add her on messenger, or she follows me back on instagram and I do nothing. I don't know why that's happening to be honest.
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:57 PM
6

Escalating. At all.
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:56 PM
1

A mix of both.
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:05 AM
1

I guess so. Maybe it's just my trust issues with women that's the main issue here
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:15 AM
2

I guess. The majority of women I approach at school and in general are at least 7s. The problem I think I have is that I never compliment them. Last compliment I gave out to a girl was a few months ago complimenting her style on Instagram. Should I change that up? I do stuff like heavy eye contact and kino but no compliments, so do the women think I'm not interested in them? I also forget to even contact women that I've approached. Is it just apathy, I'm not gay though. Is it also that I'm just …
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:58 PM
0

I guess. It's just that I've read here that texting can't be built through attraction
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:01 PM
1

I get that but again my responses are mixed at best. Then I see guys who write paragraphs and they say it works.
/r/seduction31/03/18 07:36 PM
2

If you are passionate about something and you're at least somewhat attractive to that woman, she'll find it attractive too.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:31 PM
2

So at least start to hug her? I mean light kino works, too right during the day?
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:30 PM
6

Makes sense. By showing you have other things to do and not just on her, she'll see you have priorities.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:29 PM
12

Find other women (hint, there are) that are around you and want to be with you. If she wanted to be with you, she would've found the time to be.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:27 PM
3

She sounds like she wants a relationship honestly.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:42 PM
1

What if they follow you back?
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:29 PM
3

Approach guys.
/r/seduction29/03/18 03:18 PM
1

Any response dude?
/r/seduction27/03/18 11:36 PM
3

What about IG and their stories?
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:52 PM
1

Thanks. So just say something like hey how are you, let's get together for a drink soon to catch up and then go from there? I don't think they know my intentions since I indirectly approach them at college (can't to direct game in class), so could it still work?
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:13 AM
1

I get what you are saying. But it might seem out of nowhere if I haven't even brought up the idea of hanging out. I don't drink much, so what else could I say? I mean it might be a shock to her of radio silence and then hey (girl's name) let's get a drink" to them at least.
/r/seduction27/03/18 12:04 AM
1

So even your example of restarting a convo works? Just go right into let's grab a drink soon, even if the convo is dead?
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:27 PM
1

Some hotter women have weird tastes in who they're into. I assure you that there are hot women out there who are into you're thing/look assuming you're not obese/are average looking. They all have their types
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:24 PM
1

Yes. I've had a few girls do this to me and I'm confused on what to DM them.
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:12 PM
1

Is there any advice for the opposite? I can't find a girl to get attached to.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:21 PM
7

In nightgame, it's wrong but during the day, you don't see guys approaching women that often. Just facts
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:26 PM
1

Did these women just follow you first? Did you find their profiles randomly, or off dating apps?
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:16 AM
1

I might try your approach. Are they usually in your era and might be single?
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:58 PM
1

I guess but how do you initiate a hug with zero IOIs after a conversation?
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:06 PM
98

Too much texting, Jesus Christ
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:20 AM
2

Getting 50 straight rejections isn't normal as long as your average looking
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:18 AM
1

Even if she does initiate eye contact? How do you know she's interested?
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:00 AM
2

Stop creating new accounts
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:29 AM
1

Key Ground Rule: If you want her, you have to be prepared to lose her I think that's my issue. I know I can talk to women, get them attracted but at times I feel like I want a GF but at other times I couldn't give less of a damn about women and am perfectly content on my own and single (I have friends though). Is there such a thing such as being too ok on my own, as I think I'm at that level. I get decent contacts in person, tinder matches and online responses but again I just don't have the dri…
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:51 PM
1

I mean I never tell a girl outright I think they're beautiful etc. I've told girls I think they have a hot/cute style, outfit etc, but never about their own looks that they mostly can't control. But I think my problem is that I act way to indifferent at times, in that I show zero desire in a way that the girl can see and am too passive if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:48 PM
2

I get that looks matter to an extent, but I read somewhere that men are more visual and women more emotional in terms of attraction. And that evoking emotions in women will make her your type if you're at least passable in attractiveness.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:21 PM
1

Christ, you're maybe 16 at max and talking like this. At your age, just talk to girls like normal people.
/r/seduction19/03/18 06:41 PM
2

Isn't this what most people do before finding someone to be monogamous?
/r/seduction19/03/18 06:39 PM
6

You can do it in college, but be indirect about it if you know you're likely to see them again
/r/seduction18/03/18 04:24 PM
6

Shooters shoot
/r/seduction18/03/18 04:21 PM
2

Invite him out for anything you want. Message him first, and he'll know you have interest. Coffee, walk in the park, sight seeing, whatever. He'll get the hint you're into him (assuming he's socially adept) and either say yes (as most single guys when asked by a girl to do something will do), or no (which I highly doubt since he said he wants to meet up.)
/r/seduction17/03/18 04:06 PM
1

No, the OP is a woman.
/r/seduction17/03/18 04:04 PM
4

Depends. I get new matches on tinder even weeks after starting a new account.
/r/seduction17/03/18 04:03 PM
28

What are some good flirting examples you use?
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:15 AM
1

Great post!
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:00 PM
1

What if rent is too expensive but you work?
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:22 AM
1

Hey man what type of messages do you send on tinder/hinge? Getting a few matches but haven't been able to match the type of wit you put up there.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:53 PM
2

This is a woman btw
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:32 PM
2

Finding a compatible long term partner who also meets your requirements for looks, smarts, personality is hard, but sometimes you just have to take a chance
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:41 PM
1

Ask to her to hangout. That usually will make it clear.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:40 PM
4

Are you serious?
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:30 AM
–

But getting matches means that the pics are working to an extent. So what then?
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:02 PM
1

How did you carry through with the 2nd opener?
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:02 PM
1

Honestly, she probably thinks that you rejected her by not going to the show and not talking to her any more.
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:55 PM
1

I guess. Talking about other guys who aren't her family is a red flag
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:20 PM
2

So if they give you eye contact is it ok to talk to them when they're walking? That's my issue is approaching on the street, have any pointers?
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:49 AM
1

So you can't control who you find attractive? Some girls change for me.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:49 AM
1

I'm talking about around average guys which most of this sub is. Looks matter but it's about appearance, hygiene and confidence. Ever wonder why some average to even ugly guys get good looking women, some of those factors are at play. Those guys are attractive to the girl they're with. As the commenter above me said, attractive and good looking are different things. Attractive things have qualitative quantities.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:37 AM
1

Women aren't as superficial as men for the most part I've been told
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:03 AM
1

Is she Asian?
/r/seduction06/03/18 03:04 AM
4

Be direct. You both aren't on there to be friends.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:32 PM
1

I've never gotten a fake number ever. Maybe you're pushing too quickly? Call the number once you get it
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:31 PM
7

As I said before women want to feel desired by men. Trick is you have to be a somewhat attractive man to pull this off but it's all the same.
/r/seduction03/03/18 09:05 PM
79

One of the things that opened my eyes is that women want to be desired by men. Don't be afraid to show the girl what you want
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:54 AM
1

In half so I can't really talk about it in depth but at times girls can tell at times they can't. Most you want to be with won't care
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:22 AM
1

Thanks. But what about when you have her number/contact info? Say let's get together and catch up?
/r/seduction24/02/18 04:33 AM
1

Only in a few cases I have. I just struggle at times to go from a friendly convo to let's get drinks. Problem is I ask unrelated questions to asking them out though.
/r/seduction24/02/18 01:03 AM
1

Ok. What's a good example of being direct? I usually make small talk for a few messages and then tell them let's get a drink to catch up. (Coffee/booze/whatever)
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:20 AM
1

So what do you do?
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:19 AM
3

Become a giver instead of taker of value.
/r/seduction21/02/18 11:17 PM
3

Ehh. Build rapport and then ask them out. Just asking for a number without a plan is asking for them to A: give it to you and ignore you, B: you scare them off
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:20 AM
2

Disinterest, yeah but the "I have a boyfriend" line shouldn't be the response for all your approaches
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:19 AM
2

Are you being too direct?
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:20 PM
5

Good for you dude. However the hard part comes to the discipline to going to the gym on days or even weeks where you don't feel like it. Staying in the gym is a hard thing to do, but for me, going hardcore at it for about 18 months is a great decision.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:57 PM
3

Always hand the girl your phone.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:54 PM
2

You either have something on your face at all times, or you're more attractive than you think you are.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:46 PM
1

I am clueless with sexual tension and yet I blew it this year with a girl who gave me that type of eye contact and still is the only girl so far that initiated non hugging touches.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:45 PM
1

Why would you not want to hang out with her one on one?
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:43 PM
1

Since I've gone indirect on most of my approaches is it weird I've only gotten the I have a boyfriend line 2 times. (and one of them wasn't even that, it was I'm sort of seeing someone right now).
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:42 PM
4

Rejection gets you closer to girls that like you, and you don't waste your time on ones that either string you along or you've built up preconceptions of that simply aren't true.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:41 PM
1

A good portion of guys on here have average-decent facial structure which is enough.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:11 PM
1

Any other lines that you could recommended? I ask about indirect stuff like class/how their day's going etc. Then ask too keep in touch.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:10 PM
1

In most of these cases I've spoken to them once and it's Facebook/instagram. Any difference since I went indirect?
/r/seduction14/02/18 01:13 AM
1

Should I apologize?
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:10 AM
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Interesting. I think she wanted to be friends though. I've given her space on purpose as my talking to her was too much when we talked, but now I guess should I just approach her when I see her? I just want some closure.
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:03 AM
1

Any more examples?
/r/seduction11/02/18 11:24 PM
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How does that work for me? I'm on a campus. And any answer for the last part of my question? Should I tell the women I think she's attractive/cute? Is it too late after I talk to them? Your stuff goes against most advice I've been given here in that if you invite a girl out one on one and escalate that's enough intent.
/r/seduction11/02/18 01:50 AM
1

If she works out as you said she could be more attractive. I'm more attracted to girls by their face than their body provided they are shape (essentially not fat). Why ghost her? Maybe help her work out and see where it goes from here.
/r/seduction11/02/18 12:12 AM
2

Approach her and her friend after class with anything school related as an opener.
/r/seduction10/02/18 11:46 PM
2

In general if it's someone you'll likely see again social media is better at first.
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:11 PM
2

Bumble has a lower match rate than tinder for most guys.
/r/seduction10/02/18 12:08 AM
11

It's sucks since I've found the matches are better quality but if they open you, it's one word openers.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:00 PM
1

Is it better to be indirect vs direct for girls you'll likely see again? (Warm approach essentially)
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:54 PM
1

How do you make your intentions clear?
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:21 AM
1

I have a similar problem on a lesser scale when I can't be flirty or tease on text. Any help?
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:59 AM
1

That works but what about Facebook/text?
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:57 AM
1

Regular smoking, drinking often (not a hard rule but all the time is a no go), doesn't work out at all.
/r/seduction06/02/18 02:36 AM
1

Nice vid! I gotta use some of these tips
/r/seduction06/02/18 12:38 AM
2

How do you escalate without being creepy?
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:38 PM
1

Thanks. Is that enough for her to know that I find her attractive? I think he issue is I'm auto rejecting myself by never complimenting them.
/r/seduction03/02/18 07:49 PM
1

How can you be indirect but also shown intent? This is something I struggle with. I find these women attractive but I never tell them I find them that way. Is that something I should change as other than just inviting them out one on one I don't tell them I like them etc.
/r/seduction03/02/18 06:32 PM
1

Yeah you can't do direct unless it's on the street.
/r/seduction02/02/18 01:27 AM
1

This will sound harsh, but : relationships at your age rarely last, try to have some fun
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:28 AM
2

Goood video though a bit forward
/r/seduction01/02/18 12:13 AM
1

Extremely late but hanks for the comment. I always never tell the girl I find her cute/pretty/attractive when I first meet them so wondering if I should change that. I'll take your word for it.
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:45 AM
1

Why do they?
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:10 AM
1

Why
/r/seduction28/01/18 04:08 AM
4

Was bad with women. Still grinding though. 😬
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:08 AM
2

It's basically just stating the obvious. Though the part about the types of poses is interesting.
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:21 PM
1

Scheduling is a bitch honestly.
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:17 PM
1

Ok then. Anyways, how much of a difference does it make with women. I'm in decent to good shape but not jacked, so women don't really notice my body at all.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 06:47 PM
1

2100 calories seems like a ton.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:22 PM
1

I've been told on this forum that asking them out on a date scares them off and you show them, don't tell them you're on a date.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:15 PM
2

Saved!
/r/seduction20/01/18 02:06 AM
1

Didn't get any contact info? Even her name??
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:41 PM
1

Yeah I've found that a good portion of attractive women will be receptive to your approach if you're at least average looking.
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:39 PM
1

What's a sexual hook?
/r/seduction19/01/18 01:17 PM
1

Disagree but you have to be indirect and wait for IOIs
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:59 PM
1

Drink less. I drink literally 4-5 times a year and that's 1-2 drinks
/r/seduction17/01/18 07:53 PM
3

Intimacy as a whole is more important to me than sex by itself. They go hand in hand but, yeah.
/r/seduction17/01/18 07:53 PM
0

If that's a recent pic, lose a bit of weight/cut. You have muscle but a big big
/r/seduction17/01/18 07:52 PM
1

What are some of those flirting examples?
/r/seduction17/01/18 03:36 AM
1

Can you explain more about the proximity alert thing? And why checking her out is a good thing?
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:53 PM
1

I literally only use FB for messenger.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:47 PM
1

Eh. I agree with the concept as a whole, but her seeing that you have a life outside of just interacting with her is valuable, but being able to balance that line is important.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:46 PM
1

Thanks, I'll try this one out!
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:45 PM
1

Thanks. Guess I'll go more off photos vs bio.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:45 PM
1

Send her a message.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:42 PM
1

Without setting something up, yes.
/r/seduction14/01/18 09:50 PM
1

Lmao what's wrong with his post?
/r/seduction13/01/18 09:36 PM
1

What do you mean by a "sexual opportunity"?
/r/seduction11/01/18 12:55 AM
1

Thanks. If I see her again I'll probably ask her about the class
/r/seduction10/01/18 03:59 AM
1

I try to not be direct in class/campus
/r/seduction10/01/18 03:58 AM
1

What do you mean by "biologically attracted" to these girls?
/r/seduction10/01/18 03:22 AM
1

Interesting. I've only done compliments about non physical things but should I make ones about her that I find attractive such as eyes?
/r/seduction09/01/18 11:49 PM
1

Yes, but I meant to says is the act of approaching and simply talking to her, in her mind she assumes that I'm attracted to her and thus want to bang her? I mean I've also thought that tonality, strong eye contact and kino was enough. How can I beat out the other guys, and be the least loser? I try to be attractive on most days!
/r/seduction09/01/18 11:43 PM
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Not to be daft but how does she know?
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:56 PM
1

It's the same guy again
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:55 AM
1

How can you run game and be more successful?
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:24 AM
1

At your age just be social and talk to girls at school/wherever that are your age. I honestly wouldn't recommend "game" such as approaching in non social settings until you're at least 17-18. Majority of women older than 18 won't want to do anything with you due to your age, even if they find you attractive.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:56 PM
1

If it's a online dating match sure, but otherwise it doesn't mean much
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:04 AM
1

Such as...
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:01 AM
1

Somewhat how can you improve the profile?
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:27 AM
1

So then just profile questions?
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:35 PM
1

I tried your comment with no luck and no responses, yikes on okc
/r/seduction04/01/18 10:33 PM
1

I get to invite them out but you can't prepare them for it so more of a catching up asking out? A bit confused.
/r/seduction04/01/18 06:18 PM
1

Fwiw they've done it by not responding before and then texted properly after so who knows
/r/seduction04/01/18 12:06 AM
1

Just be healthy and physically able to protect
/r/seduction03/01/18 05:13 PM
2

I doubt this.
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:01 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7mclkc/confused_about_what_to_text_girls_in_general/drwq55g/
/r/seduction02/01/18 02:55 AM
1

Everywhere on campus.
/r/seduction02/01/18 02:54 AM
1

Can you respond to the last comment I gave you? Thanks?
/r/seduction02/01/18 02:40 AM
2

Majority of guys here are 5-6/10s. including myself
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:20 PM
2

No offense dude, but it seems that she wants to be serious through what you posted. The part about her telling about you to her friends, not seeing anyone else right now and getting along well outside of just sex means that in her mind she likely wants a relationship with you. I could very well be wrong in what I just interpreted, but those are some signs that point that way. I think this is about whether you want to be in a relationship with her, not the other way around.
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:18 PM
6

That easy? I mean I've tried cut and paste online openers with little luck before. But this could work in that it's not a direct compliment.
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:15 PM
6

It's not foolproof, but I feel bad knowing that I blew a girl off a while back who exactly did this.
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:12 PM
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Does that work for you? Seems a bit needy though
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:38 PM
1

What's the correlation?
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:51 PM
1

Agreed except for lower end part time jobs people say you can, just be careful. Office environment is a no go unless you know each other previously and even then.
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:25 PM
2

Can you tease them, flirt with them etc?
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:51 AM
1

Great post. The first part sounded like me in that until about 18 months ago or so I essentially ignored women for most of my life for studies etc, and couldn't talk to them. Now I can talk to them and with your point about recognizing signs etc and not letting things slip. It's a toxic mindset for sure.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:29 AM
2

As a first text, or second after a "how are your holidays going" text
/r/seduction29/12/17 11:30 PM
1

Ask questions about her, she'll likely carry the conversation and ask questions about you in turn if she's interested. And touch her occasionally to emphasize points.
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:11 PM
1

Self-defeating mindsets are a terrible thing to have.
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:08 PM
1

As long as you're around average in looks and take care of yourself, you should be fine.
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:00 PM
3

Even if the girl was somewhat into you, the majority of girls would be turned off and disinterested by you saying that.
/r/seduction29/12/17 08:58 PM
4

Eh. I don't dress formally, but it's a mix of athleisure tops and jeans with decent shoes. Hell, even going to class in collared shirt and pants feels out of place.
/r/seduction29/12/17 08:57 PM
1

I guess. As you said I could be just scared and feared if success coming when I know I'm close to succeeding at it. Even if it's lame? Something like, how has your holidays been x, banter for a message, if she responds, then say something like : I was planning to go the market this weekend, want to come with. Does Saturday at 4 work? Is that good enough? Just that I don't know if they're into me which makes this redundant, telling IOI's from my point of view is always the hardest. As knowing whe…
/r/seduction28/12/17 04:44 AM
1

So intentionally being vague to girls to get their attraction levels high?
/r/seduction26/12/17 10:51 PM
2

Start a convo and go from there? Guys like it when women are direct
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:38 PM
1

Interested
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:01 PM
2

I wouldn't do it. If you met her and talked to her before but only have her FB, it's fine but otherwise a random guy hitting her up on a non dating app seems creepy at least to her Imo
/r/seduction25/12/17 04:20 AM
2

How many accounts does this guy have
/r/seduction24/12/17 07:23 PM
1

Decent age to start, as most guys come the realization around end of high school with women etc and how to improve
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:50 PM
2

Everyone has their own tastes, which is why you'd be surprised
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:49 PM
2

I only use Facebook for messenger, and to post a new banner photo of weightlifting once in a while.
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:48 PM
1

You can kind of tell my conversations and vibe of taking to someone
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:07 AM
4

Make a move soon since you know she might be gone soon. And yes take her on a date!
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:06 AM
7

Ask your friend for her number
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:05 AM
2

Oh I do just not physical compliments. Teasing becomes more of an inside joke between is. Push/pull is great with that and flirting. Touching to emphasize points during conversation, and hugging when leaving. That's enough for non friendzone right?
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:08 AM
1

Anything wrong with never complimenting her but teasing a ton? Isn't without physical contact though
/r/seduction23/12/17 12:25 AM
3

2 and #3 to an extent aren't bad pointers but the rest sounds like satire
/r/seduction23/12/17 12:14 AM
1

Thanks! I'll use that line
/r/seduction22/12/17 04:41 AM
3

How many accounts?
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:46 AM
1

Doesn't mean shit unless you have game
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:46 AM
1

Real life is easier in your case, but hire someone/ask a friend to take professional ish photos
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:55 AM
1

Like what then?
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:50 AM
1

What else should I say other than have a nice break, but keep me in her thoughts with a message?
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:23 PM
1

She responded to asking for coffee with her leaving early. Just say have a great break, and we'll set up coffee once you're back? And I have the issue with another girl that I told her I would text her and don't know what to say since she's an awful texter.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:13 PM
1

How? My flirting is all off the top of my head in person. I can't flirt online to save my life!
/r/seduction21/12/17 05:03 AM
7

Agree with this. Most guys on here who are average would be a bit surprised that some hot girls are into you/like your type/have a fetish for you while ugly girls are repulsed by you.That's why the idea of leagues is crap, as we all have different types of people we're attracted to.
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:51 AM
2

Essentially a stranger in this case but like most of these cases was from class/school
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:49 AM
1

For most of the time when it's short, yes in this case, no.
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:48 AM
1

I talked to her, and usually in these cases from class/school.
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:44 AM
1

I've talked to them in person but briefly
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:25 AM
1

Thanks. Just that wondering if coffee is too simple despite it being low pressure. Also scared of her flaking, and scared of escalating if it gets to that point. I've read that you should only text for logistics and never text more than 2 days before setting something up. And, how do you text a girl who you want to have plans with but can't think of anywhere to take her, with also saying it's a hangout, not a date right? As well, I'm worried that if I don't do heavy kino or kiss a girl at the en…
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:11 AM
1

I guess. Don't know if she's attracted at all. Just don't know what else to invite her to that's low pressure
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:08 AM
1

For online game right? In person it's way less if you're upfront.
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:19 AM
1

In this case I don't know if there's attraction there, where sometimes I can tell during an interaction, here it's tepid at best. Has dilated pupils though but unlike other girls I haven't hugged her despite doing light kino. Also she isn't that girly but isn't manly if you know what I mean. I just said let's grab a coffee. And this was before an exam by the way. Should I change it? I'm fine with a slow burn here, and imagine she is of that mind.
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:17 AM
1

I barely know her
/r/seduction20/12/17 03:45 AM
3

Touch is a big one. If they're receptive to your touch, and you can hug them and they give something back or they initiate touch that's a good sign.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:32 PM
2

Lmao it's the same guy again
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:31 PM
1

It's that bad? I mean inviting them out one on one isn't enough to show interest?
/r/seduction19/12/17 02:20 AM
8

Thanks. I've approached during class and can tell when's there attraction of some sort of not, but yeah. Getting to hang out is the hard part for me.
/r/seduction17/12/17 01:34 AM
26

That easy?
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:54 PM
2

The very next thing you should do if you're interested in her is ask her out on a date. Is asking her to hangout enough in this case?
/r/seduction16/12/17 12:20 AM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about. You're obsessing over bullshit things that don't matter, all the while, you're dropping the ball in VERY basic areas. Clear enough? Clear as mud. You are softly REJECTING this girl by acting like a wet noodle here. Huh? I'm just saying that I haven't made definite plans yet despite us talking about it. I'm not softly rejecting her at all. So just be more direct about plans? You know that clear would be literally saying, "Hey, I'm going to the fucking outdo…
/r/seduction16/12/17 12:19 AM
1

Thanks. It's just that with my relative inexperience with women in general, I feel I have to do more to be "hotter". Though more women pay attention in terms of glances/eye contact and actual conversations than ever before so something must be working :)
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:56 PM
1

Is that last two part of your abs just diet? I have 4 that visibly show, but the last two are hidden and I'm around 14% BF at 165 pounds.
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:22 PM
1

If you've known this girl for longer than say, a month or two, then she's probably moved on, if she was interested, or turned off because you lacked the confidence to make a move by now. What if you've known the girl for longer than this period of time, but have talked to her for a total of less than an hour over various weeks? Or you've talked to her once for 5 minutes a while back? Is that still the same? You invite her out, one on one. I assume you don't have to say it's a date right? I alway…
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:18 PM
1

Any examples other than light kino?
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:16 PM
1

Leg Raises, russian twists, core work.
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:04 PM
2

Take your shot. Can't hurt.
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:02 PM
1

If you're under 25 girls won't care that much if you don't.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:59 PM
2

Don't even invite them out over the break?
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:58 PM
2

Getting eye contact before approaching. And having fun as a primary goal, not pickup.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:56 PM
1

Either shit test or she thinks you're cool.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:56 PM
2

she suggests we meet up for a drink Should've taken the lead and said "how can we make this happen" or anything to get her number.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:55 PM
9

After his 3rd text he should've said it then.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:54 PM
4

It's a tad much, but as others here have said, it's still ok.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:53 PM
1

Hell, even say something snarky/witty or than a "you wish", which only works in person due to tonality/voice.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:53 PM
1

I'll disagree again that she liked me but it's beside the point. True, I kind of liked her but not in that strong of a way. I guess you're right, I've never complimented a woman off their looks in my life by saying (they're cute/hot etc). I have said you look great today but that's a bit different. I guess the kino is good enough if girls initiate hugs and other initiate light physical contact. I agree there. One girl and I are planning to get coffee in January, when she's back from home. Anothe…
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:07 AM
4

So can't do daytime dates at all? You'll be friendzoned that way?
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:00 AM
1

A tad bit short for my liking but getting a number with an intent for hanging out or something like that is a good way to do this.
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:26 PM
1

Inviting them out is man to woman communication right? I mean I've done challenging comments as teasing them, kino, hugs and deep eye contact. So that it?
/r/seduction14/12/17 06:04 PM
1

That's true. In some of these cases I got a few glances before I approached them so I guess subconsciously they feel attraction from me. Is the fact I do kino, eye contact and invite them out enough for them to know I'm interested/like/attracted to them? Sounds simple but I really don't know. It's just that with a couple of girls I was stunned when they initiated touch (even if it's small stuff like arm touches during a conversation). How can I physically escalate past basic stuff. Haven't gone …
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:30 AM
1

It's up to you do what your gut says
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:04 AM
1

Try to do something that isn't taking photos
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:46 AM
1

Really? I've found most either do numbers/instagram/Facebook messenger. Some guys care more about snaps that girls
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:40 AM
8

It's the same guy posting under countless different accounts
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:36 AM
2

Don't ask if she's single. Ask her out again
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:35 AM
1

How do they know? Not being obtuse but in my situations, hugging from me and then, laser eye contact could be seen as friendly. It's the fact if I don't know if they like me, but according to signs you posted they probably due. Dilated pupils is a big one.
/r/seduction13/12/17 02:18 AM
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Thanks. It's just that in general I forget to check a girl out when I'm talking to them always focus on eye contact, so is that a bad thing that she doesn't know I'm interested/like her?
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:51 PM
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Thanks. Just saying in general I say not funny stuff and women laugh at it. Initiating contact is 50/50 at times but yeah. Still don't to escalate touch past hugs.
/r/seduction12/12/17 03:58 AM
6

If I see them on my way out or on campus I just say hi. I don't follow them out. It's creepy.
/r/seduction12/12/17 02:19 AM
3

Helps. Isn't needed with good game.
/r/seduction11/12/17 11:07 PM
9

I prefer talking outside the gym. I've only talked to girls in the gym if they're using something I need and if I can sense any sort of attraction continue it but do it selectively
/r/seduction11/12/17 11:06 PM
1

Does it matter for attraction? Really?
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:37 PM
1

Handshake first time hugs after. Male friends I do daps/handshakes when I see them. Women it's hugs
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:23 PM
7

Nah, but you need to be more selective and rely on IOI's. Have to have eye contact a few times before. It's harder but can get done.
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:22 PM
5

What about you ask her out in person but due to schedules you have to schedule a hangout via text? I would think that's different.
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:06 PM
1

Is laughing at stuff you say that aren't jokes a good sign? I mean I've talked to girls that I think are neutral on me, but still unsure. Some other signs are dilated pupils, face brightening up when I talk to her, her initiating hugs, hugs held, talking about her parents, are those some?
/r/seduction11/12/17 05:51 PM
2

What are some signs of attraction you've mentioned?
/r/seduction11/12/17 04:31 AM
0

Don't do it. There are hot/attractive women that are into you provided you aren't obese/deformed/really unattractive. Favourite saying I found as "you are some hot girl's fetish".
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:37 AM
1

What does qualifying mean? Just asking what they do and why do it?
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:41 AM
1

Yeah, though I guess IOI's can help with that. What about statements of intent for girls that have met before and concurrently talked to? Could I just throw those in for women that's I've talked previously or is it not within frame at all? I agree there, which is why if I a girl makes eye contact and holds it during a convo, it's a sign of at least something I guess? Though sometimes women touch me during conversation so kino isn't always just one way. I'll try just inviting them out and doing k…
/r/seduction09/12/17 01:02 AM
1

I guess. Not revealing too much in text is a valuable skill, as it also helps with mystery?
/r/seduction09/12/17 12:37 AM
1

In general this is with women that I've met but haven't met up with yet due to time. Texting to set up the hangout/date makes sense then.
/r/seduction09/12/17 12:16 AM
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Hmm. My interactions with women I'm attracted to is somewhat indirect as I go the usual question game route in school first, then get her contacts. I can't tell if a woman's attracted to me, but agreeing to hanging out could be a sign of attraction. However, in terms of escalating, I start off with long handshakes and then if she's receptive, hugs whenever we part. For some girls I meet, we started with handshakes and then transitioned to hugs, with some kino between us at times, so that can't j…
/r/seduction08/12/17 10:08 PM
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Next time I will I guess.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:54 PM
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I guess. Guys also do the bench thing to, so it's not a sign of interest. Subway one probably was but I'm clueless on that one.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:53 PM
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Attractive to me is all that matters, so in that way, yes.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:53 PM
0

Really? I just thought the first case was niceness. Not trying to be rude TBH. Just don't know what to say in these situations that aren't really made to be social.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:52 PM
1

What do you mean by man to woman? I don't get why people say this all the time.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:37 PM
3

Not smoking doesn't make you a killjoy. Not drinking though is harder since most at least casually do it.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:34 PM
2

Athletic?? I do powerlifting.
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:16 PM
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Agreed but on a subway with lots of space she chooses to get right next to me
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:12 PM
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Yeah I get you on the gym one. The subway one I felt was more questionable since no one else was standing nearby
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:12 PM
1

Stop ignoring the questions. You seriously can't smile during exam time? Because that's a fucking non-verbal opener. Women respond or don't. And you can't just wave at people while smiling like a goofball? That's a fucking non-verbal opener. Women respond or they don't. Yeah I'm being obtuse I can do this. Just a bit concerned about what I look like when I do so TBH. I just handed you two openers, above. And you responded by asking me for an opener. Verbal opener I mean. Hey, how are you??? Perh…
/r/seduction07/12/17 10:55 PM
1

Based Zeus/rsd max/how to beast
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:52 PM
2

What are good openers for a campus environment, , does it make a difference to differ in saying it's a date vs hanging out and how can you be "man to woman" in interactions?
/r/seduction06/12/17 09:05 PM
1

Being too skinny and tall is an issue though
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:23 PM
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Who knows. Ask her in class which method she responds to the most and go from there. You didn't invite her out which is the issue.
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:32 AM
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So any tips? Go for a kiss or kino?
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:28 AM
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I agree but it's a start at least I can get contact info comfort etc
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:53 AM
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So that's a good thing though I can't close worth anything at all haha
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:51 AM
2

So I'm already doing that does it build attraction?
/r/seduction06/12/17 01:40 AM
1

I meant approaching women during exam time. See tons of cute women on campus but just can't find the drive to approach. And I don't know what a good opener is during non class time.
/r/seduction05/12/17 02:33 AM
1

Well I'll see if women are interested then?
/r/seduction05/12/17 02:29 AM
1

The last part is difficult during exam time. That's why I haven't approached in a while.
/r/seduction04/12/17 03:28 PM
1

for real?
/r/seduction04/12/17 03:51 AM
3

Jesus. I'm slightly over 5'10 and I'm at 165 and am thinner than most guys. You need at least 10-15 more pounds at minimum
/r/seduction03/12/17 08:30 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:58 PM
6

Put some weight on man, way too skinny
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:12 PM
1

How is this guy verified??
/r/seduction02/12/17 06:18 PM
1

I guess. Though I can tell when she's still talking but it's one word answers etc. Asking questions is good and carrying convo
/r/seduction02/12/17 01:46 AM
3

I'm average and girls from time to time give eye contact
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:58 PM
19

Exactly. If you try kino, inviting her out etc, she'll usually tell you if she has one.
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:20 PM
1

If this is pre-exclusivity I'd like to know as well as this is what most monogamous guys do
/r/seduction28/11/17 09:10 PM
1

Lol she's at least interested in you if she gave you her number without asking.
/r/seduction28/11/17 04:49 AM
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Yup. I think this may be harsh but they might think you're effeminate with your looks. You're obviously not but you could give off that to some girls.
/r/seduction27/11/17 12:25 AM
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You're borderline model level honesty dude
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:20 PM
1

You're probably somewhat attractive at least
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:19 PM
1

For non school/malls/age related events, yes
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:19 PM
3

Girls touching you first or without prompts from you certainly doesn't mean nothing as it's at least some investment from her but looks for the other sings as the comment says. Can't hurt!
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:16 PM
1

Well in general since we all struggle with this
/r/seduction26/11/17 12:29 AM
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Hard for me to do since all I can think of is coffee/walking
/r/seduction25/11/17 11:43 PM
3

No offense dude but it isn't an issue for you for another decade.
/r/seduction25/11/17 11:43 PM
1

8 years of gym and not ripped? How?
/r/seduction25/11/17 08:58 PM
0

That's it? Don't even say it's a date?
/r/seduction25/11/17 08:58 PM
2

Not to your level, but I've had this problem too. I know some girls find me attractive but can't do anything about it.
/r/seduction25/11/17 07:25 PM
21

Take them off the pedestal and treat them like guys. Tease, flirt, challenge etc. I also love when a girl teases me.
/r/seduction25/11/17 01:44 AM
1

On anything attractiveness related
/r/seduction25/11/17 01:26 AM
4

Exactly
/r/seduction25/11/17 01:25 AM
1

Hmm. I had oneitis last year and now I can get oneitis to save my life. And being on a long dry spell too + being inexperienced with women doesn't help haha. You aren't ugly in all likelihood dude. I'm probably slightly above average in looks and get some looks/IOI's but can't act on it. Honesty wonder if I'm scared of being successful/having intimacy because I know I'm so close.
/r/seduction25/11/17 01:21 AM
1

Have you turned a red light into a green?
/r/seduction24/11/17 04:38 AM
2

True but even the difference between the one word responses of a girl and ones of asking me questions and extending conversations can seem like a big difference
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:49 AM
3

Same guy again. Get some help dude
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:20 PM
2

Nah she's not special, but I'll try to get her to hang out since my only attempt I didn't set a specific time and place with her. Anyways she's on the backburner while I talk to other women and try to invite them out which is what I struggle at.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:29 PM
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I have. I'm not obsessing since I am gaming other women but just want a bit of clarity since this has happened before. I guess next time I'll say I'm doing x on x day let's meet at x then.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 01:52 PM
1

Be healthy enough that you wouldn't pass out if you had to carry her or keep up with her. Don't have to get muscle at all, but at least be healthy weight with good conditioning
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:17 AM
1

Ok that makes sense. What should I say in passing?
/r/seduction22/11/17 03:07 PM
1

I'm talking about random girls but that could work
/r/seduction22/11/17 03:06 AM
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Heavy Eye contact
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:12 AM
1

For the last part, just comment on pics/stories then? After liking the pics?
/r/seduction19/11/17 10:22 PM
1

Lol I might use that. Sounds flirty
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:07 PM
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It's usually linked or said in the bio. Before sending a message, wait a bit after following them and like a pic or two. If they don't follow back, then unfollow.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:13 AM
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Yup. Though only if they follow back
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:12 AM
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Get their IG (as long as it's under a 1000) followers and go from there
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:26 AM
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True. I don't use dating apps much, honestly just in case if it works, which vs in person it hasn't that much for me. A good starting message is something I struggle with in these cases. I guess. However, in all these cases that I'm talking about, I don't know her in real life, but I got the IG from tinder, so there's a decent chance that they are single. So IDK.
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:19 AM
1

How do you show it? Touch them? Invite them out?
/r/seduction18/11/17 08:52 PM
2

Good effort but have a longer conversation before asking for a number for the future. (I know it's impossible here)
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:14 PM
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I want to invest energy into all avenues of meeting women. That includes online. Shoot my shot right? I get what you are saying but what about asking her out that way?
/r/seduction18/11/17 03:34 AM
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Have to get a purpose for getting their number
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:46 AM
2

Gotta start the kino soon
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:46 AM
1

Not schilling but watch his other videos. He gets rejections
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:15 PM
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Thanks. I'll respond in full to the other comment tomorrow since the other girl seems into me a small bit. And I mean honestly it comes from years of being a social shut in, out of shape kid with zero experience with girls. Go to college start gym and weightlifting and dressing better plus socially being decent and it's a world of change. I notice IOI's at times but still that nagging voice that still gives me fear that no women would be attracted to me when obviously that's false.
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:39 AM
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How was it fear? I could feel the ljbf talk coming anyways
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:24 AM
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I did say something specific and we're both busy. She said she was sorry that we didn't get to hang. And had something happen to her. I believe her but again she's genuine. So I'm not against it. What can I do to keep the level of attraction high?
/r/seduction16/11/17 07:48 PM
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It's real
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:46 PM
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Yeah at first I didn't want to be her friend but then realized she's better as a friend. And I think she already didn't like me though
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:31 PM
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Part of this is why I'd didn't touch relationships at all in high school. She said to other that you're her boyfriend without even telling you? Run away
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:03 AM
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Cold approaching at a school isn't. In general yes, but in a shared situation I'd argue it isn't
/r/seduction15/11/17 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I'm not going to think about her for a while
/r/seduction15/11/17 09:10 PM
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Lol you're much farther than I have been with her. She does remember things abuot me, so there's at least some interest. And again, not the only girl I'm focusing on right now.
/r/seduction15/11/17 08:21 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I'll see her in class before hand so it should be fine
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:53 PM
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This is gold. Except going up to them alone feels a bit creepy when they're sitting down.
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:04 AM
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I assume it's part time entry level in which it's fine
/r/seduction15/11/17 03:41 AM
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That is what sucks about this. Also again not getting some for a while makes it hard (pardon the pun)
/r/seduction14/11/17 02:49 AM
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I'm not addicted to sex though. It's just something I can't stop the urges of. I realize masturbation is healthy, porn isn't. That's the thing
/r/seduction14/11/17 01:38 AM
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Yeah I know. Just keep on running game I guess and touch them
/r/seduction13/11/17 11:21 PM
1

Thanks. Yeah that is important. Space bubble testing is huge. I relapse again since that I'm trying not to watch that stuff. I should be socializing or with a girl not on my own
/r/seduction13/11/17 11:21 PM
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Thanks. I'll follow this just gotta remember to escalate
/r/seduction13/11/17 11:20 PM
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I've tried light escalation such as arm touches and hugs. And yeah being more definite in plan making will help. Though I've relapsed into watching porn a bit the last week.
/r/seduction13/11/17 04:38 AM
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I guess but I'm trying to implement escalation so I'm not friendzoned
/r/seduction13/11/17 04:37 AM
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Routines I find immoral since you're not being true to yourself, but otherwise, nah
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:31 PM
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You're screwing yourself over
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:30 PM
1

Asd
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:25 PM
1

What do you mean by escalating? Other than non sexual touches?
/r/seduction12/11/17 04:24 PM
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Thanks. I'll definitely use that. Yeah, having a lack of experience with women is part of my issues, but inviting her to come with me rather than her be the centre of attention makes sense honestly.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:54 AM
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Alright. Next time I see her I'll use that line. Even if it's a bullshit event?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:31 AM
1

Yeah this wasn't a flake looking back on it, more of a lack of clear plans made.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:39 AM
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I think that's my fault here. So next time just say you should join me on x day doing x thing?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:37 AM
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Yeah I'm trying to do that
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:36 AM
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Yeah, looking back on this it wasn't a flake more of I set up really flimsy plans. Next time I'll be more clear
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:35 AM
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Yeah, this was my fault for a non set date, more of a general talk that I didn't make it clear. Next time I will
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:34 AM
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Yeah I didnt plan this out well. Next time I'll set a firm activity. This is likely my fault
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:33 AM
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Yeah, I'm not going to give up since it's the first time, but next time and it's out. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:52 PM
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What word should I use instead? I have no idea. I'm not needy in person, I don't kiss their ass, nice, but also teasing as well. They seem happy to meet me again outside of class or wherever we are. Especially this girl, who even told me to text her. If I see her in person again, I'll just make an ultimatum saying next time or nothing, as seeing other guys hanging out with women that easily without this crap gets me a bit mad, especially as someone who has never been in a relationship.
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:07 PM
1

I guess
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:57 PM
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I guess, but again this site's advice was to never phrase it as a date, but a "one on one" hanging out where you physically escalate, as the mods on this site have said.
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:57 PM
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Every single girl tho flakes
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:46 PM
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Few days. I've never been on an "actual date" as I don't phrase it that way
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:32 PM
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Every single girl neither responds to my texts or flakes this year
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:25 PM
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I'm awful with texting
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:25 PM
1

Sounds good. Inviting her for something fun sounds like a plan
/r/seduction10/11/17 06:39 PM
1

That sounds good. Should that be my next message?
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:22 PM
1

What should I send? Hey you're cute how about we get together for drinks on x day?
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:11 PM
1

We've talked twice, that was how we swapped contact info, she friended me in person
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:03 PM
1

2 months she used to be in my class
/r/seduction09/11/17 09:49 PM
4

Hug them, arm touches
/r/seduction09/11/17 03:46 PM
1

Thanks. What about ones I see from tinder?
/r/seduction09/11/17 04:32 AM
3

I guess? I've literally never had a girl like that before who acted so.
/r/seduction09/11/17 01:42 AM
1

Shoot your shot, but my follow are either from IRL or tinder (so I know they're likely single). It's better chance if she invests something in you
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:57 PM
1

Really?
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:55 PM
1

Have them follow back/like your pics first. I've never gone in cold
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:54 PM
1

I'm legit curious how to be flirty over text. Other people here have told me not to be flirty and just text to set up plans
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:22 PM
1

How am I not ready? What do you mean about that? I have been on a long dry spell and want to end that, so yeah. Is asking a girl to hangout one on one (simplified version) demonstrating intent? I guess my flirting has involved intense eye contact and I even did the triangle trick too
/r/seduction08/11/17 12:39 PM
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I friendzoned her since she and I kinda run in the same social circles so it would be awkward if things didn't go right, and I knew she was with an acquaintance of mine before anyways so yeah. She also started it off by saying "I don't want to sound like an asshole, but.." I didn't really escalate with her, only if you're counting hugs as escalation. Flirting was more about using push/pull a ton. I don't think I showed my intent clearly or my desire here or in any cases, with regards to sexualit…
/r/seduction08/11/17 12:36 PM
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Ok. It's just that again I'm clueless about getting past the initial interaction, and I'm scared about meeting new girls since I would have to cold approach or use apps in new cases
/r/seduction08/11/17 12:30 PM
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I had a feeling that the friendzoned girl was going to LJBF me, but regardless, I've been on a long dry streak and have been way to excited around women recently. Flirting too much which probably set her alarm bells off. And watching too much porn likely. How am I ignoring girls that are interested? One girl seems all over me IRL and then is meh in text. Why is that?
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:34 AM
1

No I meant to say that you place yourself with similar interests but she also likes to do other things that you do not. That's what I meant
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:31 AM
1

She was fine with it. Maybe I'll see her tomorrow in class and talk about it
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:30 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:21 AM
1

I get that but doing that all the time might leave out girls that could be great for you, no?
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:20 AM
1

So what should I do when responses take forever? I'm really bad at this. Please help I don't want to lose more girls over text game
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:07 AM
1

Uh oh. I told a girl I would call her and I left a message
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:06 AM
1

Can't find it on mobile
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:05 AM
6

Talk to someone in real life
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:40 AM
1

Tl:dr? Do you have examples?
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:27 AM
1

I can't flirt via text
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:11 AM
1

Come back in 10 years if it's still the same
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:47 AM
1

Yeah I'm on a massive dry spell myself so when that happen again I'm kinda scared lol
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:46 AM
1

Does that work if you don't have your own place?
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:45 AM
1

That's selection bias though right?
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:43 AM
2

Or if she asks for anything like that and you don't want to give a non answer say that you're on a long dry spell
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:16 AM
1

Or at least tell her it's been a while.
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:15 AM
1

Hmm. What about if you told the girl you prefer calling?
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:15 AM
1

Ok
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:14 AM
1

Yeah I mean saying that we should hangout during the interaction is good, just don't leave after doing so.
/r/seduction07/11/17 07:42 PM
1

Don't offer to help unless she asks. However ask to work in on what she's doing and then go from there
/r/seduction07/11/17 07:36 PM
4

??
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:28 AM
1

Could you do that with calling? Yeah it's more of long responses to my messages. I have, but sometimes I take too long, and would rather call
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:59 PM
2

Sheer luck sometimes
/r/seduction06/11/17 04:41 PM
1

Thanks. However I'm taking about when you've already met the girl a few times and want to escalate. And what compliments work on those type of cases?
/r/seduction06/11/17 04:10 AM
1

Alright so should I give them light compliments too? More examples of pushing myself? Try thigh touches?
/r/seduction06/11/17 03:28 AM
1

I have done hugs just that taking the next step is hard
/r/seduction06/11/17 01:37 AM
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The non verbal intent is stuff I have issue with, so thanks. So is that good enough to tell her I'm interested?
/r/seduction06/11/17 01:30 AM
1

Partying is fine, it's just finding a girl who does it once Ina while not all the time.
/r/seduction06/11/17 01:14 AM
1

Yeah I get that. It's just escalation I'm kinda scared of
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:07 PM
0

I mean what about girls you've met a small time ago and desire?
/r/seduction05/11/17 01:21 AM
0

I meant to say after you build rapport, which I have in some cases.
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:59 PM
0

How can you be sexually open and explicit if you just met her?
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:03 PM
17

Don't ask for the hug initiate it.
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:24 PM
1

It's the same spammer
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:23 PM
1

I've found that I'm naturally doing push/pull though
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:22 PM
1

I don't think she likes me, but ok, since I knew I was likely in the friendzone a while ago and totally fine with that. I was kinda surprised she didn't ask me that earlier. But it's good in that I'm naturally flirty them right?
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:08 PM
1

Saved
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:00 PM
1

Difference between being broke/working poor and homeless
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:41 PM
1

Wow really that sounds good
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:57 AM
11

My short answer will be, that they don't.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:31 AM
15

Get off incels
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:10 AM
1

Yeah I agree with this. True cold approach is 100% a numbers game. Indirect is higher than that.
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:38 PM
3

Stop comparing yourself to others. They aren't you.
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:35 PM
1

Stop watching porn. Only fap once a week max!
/r/seduction31/10/17 03:59 AM
1

I'm not as attractive as you put yourself as but I have a similar problems. I know I'm not ugly and girls do take looks, give off IOI's but it's hard to capitalize haha
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:55 PM
13

Not starting in high school.
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:58 AM
1

Or hang out and escalate
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:58 AM
6

Examples?
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:50 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:49 PM
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What are statements of intent? Saying I find her attractive? Is proximity being close without touching?
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:49 PM
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Ok. It's just that touching and a slower deeper voice captivates them more.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:39 PM
1

I'm muscular but really lean. It's more of biceps/core strength for me. So maybe I should just do the "my turn" stuff more often.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:37 PM
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I see the "man to woman" trope on here that I agree with at times. Sexualize conversations etc?
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:35 PM
1

Hell, ask some to feel your muscles if you're that confident.
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:00 PM
1

Girls don't like to be surprised?
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:05 AM
1

Thanks. I should call then
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:05 AM
1

Sucks for me since I'm nervous about the non in person interactions with girls
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:29 AM
1

I guess. I just hate texting to set up hangouts
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:01 AM
1

Even on a different day?
/r/seduction27/10/17 11:57 PM
1

Thanks for the help
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:59 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:59 PM
3

I used to be similar to those guys in that I never said anything out of line to a girl, but realized it didn't work. Now I love it when's girl teases me/challenges and is unfiltered about anything with me. Nice and refreshing!
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:23 AM
1

I have that's not the point
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:12 AM
1

True
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:00 PM
1

Oh I'm taking about using the stuff I do now
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:00 PM
5

Don't put on routines for every single girl and don't change essentially.
/r/seduction26/10/17 06:30 PM
7

If they hold it for more than 1.5 seconds approach!
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:02 PM
2

This is before you talk to them right?
/r/seduction25/10/17 04:44 PM
4

So just approach? Though the neck exposed thing I see girls do a fair bit for me so I'm wondering if I'm doing it wrong.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:01 PM
1

Yeah I get that a partner dance class would be helpful for me. The problem is that I haven't made my intentions clear at all with any of the girls in this case. Could that be a problem? I live in a city so the hikes wouldn't be close to campus, but I'll take your advice in stride. Meeting up and confirming that and then escalating is what my problem is and overthinking is another issue. I'll just follow your advice.
/r/seduction24/10/17 04:31 PM
1

Thanks. I get that. It's just that escalating on a hangout will be tricky. Just have to touch the girls more. A gym activity and then walk around somewhere? I don't live on my own yet so inviting her to my place isn't an option.
/r/seduction24/10/17 03:21 AM
1

Oh I ageee in that I need to make plans, with girls that I ask to hangout. I specifically didn't frame it as a date for that reason though. What are some good activities to hang out with that are date-ish?
/r/seduction24/10/17 12:38 AM
3

I would add that instagram is getting better but yes.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:33 PM
1

Thanks. Does this work for women you've seen a few times but not too much?
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:33 PM
1

That's it? I mean I'll try this on multiple girls then.
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:40 PM
1

In this case I've only talked to her in person once. Small amount of kino there.
/r/seduction23/10/17 07:12 PM
1

That's it? Seriously?
/r/seduction22/10/17 06:45 PM
8

Say anything
/r/seduction20/10/17 05:18 PM
1

You're 16 dude, no offense but it's normal at that age for what you're going through.
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:53 PM
3

Put her on the back burner, and talk to other women.
/r/seduction19/10/17 11:19 PM
2

If you mean hookups where you never see the person again, yeah I don't like that, just no real intimacy.
/r/seduction19/10/17 01:30 PM
1

Does this first one work? I mean if you're approaching girl out of the blue, she knows why you're talking to her.
/r/seduction19/10/17 03:58 AM
1

Interesting
/r/seduction18/10/17 09:27 PM
1

True though you can tell sometimes through indirect (though inviting her out one on one should state your intent), but yeah. I don't do direct often though.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:21 PM
2

Is this nightgame? During the day it shouldn't be that bad all the time
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:20 PM
2

I mean I think they're attractive, I do want to spend time with them but they aren't my dream girl if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:52 PM
1

So just kino, push pull and then invite her out?
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Thanks. It's truly the last fear I have for game.
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:25 PM
1

Thanks. I hate that line for daygame/college game since you'll see them again but yeah, sounds good.
/r/seduction18/10/17 01:14 PM
1

How should I? Say I thought you were cute and had to meet you?
/r/seduction18/10/17 12:04 PM
1

When I mean direct, I mean really direct like asking them out within 20 seconds which honestly won't work on most girls even if they're attracted to you.
/r/seduction18/10/17 12:03 PM
2

Some I agree with you. Other I do have interest in but they don't make my heart flutter if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction18/10/17 12:02 PM
2

I have the opposite problem. I am attracted to some girls but then once I get to know them I get less attracted and needy to them, and somewhat apathetic. How can I fix that?
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:34 AM
1

Yeah, I mean I've never gotten truly blown out (less than 20 seconds), as most girls even if they're taken will at least talk to you for a minute if you're average. And I assume he's being direct if he's getting blown out.
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:26 AM
1

I've adopted that mindset to an extent but what IOI's happened to you?
/r/seduction17/10/17 03:52 AM
3

Article of clothing/hair, something other than her looks which stood out to you and she had control over.
/r/seduction17/10/17 03:46 AM
3

Hey I had to talk to you since.... I like your ....
/r/seduction17/10/17 03:24 AM
2

Situational opener/question
/r/seduction17/10/17 03:15 AM
5

Say anything
/r/seduction17/10/17 03:08 AM
1

Why not? Sometimes people start out as friends then date
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:50 AM
1

Chad is the incels god.
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:48 AM
1

So seduction isn't about attraction? Then how do you get a woman horny?
/r/seduction16/10/17 03:10 AM
1

Thanks. I just don't know how to spot indicators of interest, do you have a list of some of the more common ones?
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:08 PM
6

Even if it's on a dating app, yeah.
/r/seduction15/10/17 03:45 AM
10

My problem is that I've seen girls check me out, talking to some attractive ones that sort of like me, but I've never felt a true attraction from one? Is that weird as you said, though that some hot girls probably does like me?
/r/seduction15/10/17 01:08 AM
2

Try one more time
/r/seduction14/10/17 11:55 PM
1

I agree. If it's under say 600 or so, you probably have a chance, and I only do it with girls I either find on dating apps, so I know a decent enough chance they're single. But it's a slow burn and shouldn't be your main source of pickup anyways.
/r/seduction14/10/17 05:47 PM
1

I mean I've clicked with a few girls but only seen them at most 1x a week during talking to them. Another girl in into only met once though with a spark. Kinda confused for what I should do.
/r/seduction13/10/17 07:04 PM
3

Stop spamming this sub dude.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:44 PM
1

Ah. I don't know if I could pull it off when I'm a friend of a woman though, they way you did.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:43 PM
1

Enough with spamming your channel dude.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:25 PM
1

What signs are you talking about? Kinda clueless about this.
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:24 PM
1

How did you transition to being intimate? Did you touch them before while being friends?
/r/seduction13/10/17 05:02 PM
1

Even without being BF/gf?
/r/seduction13/10/17 03:36 PM
1

He sounds clingy
/r/seduction13/10/17 03:26 PM
3

Just ask her out to meet in person.
/r/seduction13/10/17 03:17 PM
1

I am paying attention just realizing that I should escalate more and invite more girls out if they're at least somewhat receptive to me? Just at a question with the whole Manson fuck yes thing either. Thanks. Paying attention is paramount, just scared to make a move in any case. Just have to hope paying attention leads to some fun.
/r/seduction12/10/17 09:49 PM
3

Daygame
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:44 PM
2

Talk to them like a regular person, and don't put them on a pedestal
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:43 PM
1

Meant to say that paying attention is important but how can I read better body language from a girl and if her dilated pupils mean anything with different cases? Except I've never made out before, I have kissed, but never a true makeout. How do you do so?
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:09 AM
1

Meant to say when you go on dates you're seeing compatibility etc.. Also don't know where to take a girl to hangout where I could escalate in public I get what you are saying but testing a space bubble has been tough when you get almost all neutral responses to touch.
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:06 AM
1

Thanks. How will I know when to kiss, should I I ask her, I don't remember my only kiss so far. Should I give myself lmr so I don't seem needy on the first time hanging out and pushing for a kiss/makeout/sex?
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:46 AM
1

Offering yourself as a potential dating partner. I get that but I'm just scared of the first move when I have to escalate.
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:43 AM
1

Thanks. I mean women know why you approach likely anyways, right? Offering yourself for something? So asking someone to spend time alone one on one is being direct enough? That's good to hear
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:32 AM
1

Yeah, I live with other people so going back to her's or a private place is a better option. Should I frame it as a date when I invite a girl to hang out?
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:31 AM
1

So essentially, invite a girl out, pay attention, escalate and see where it goes? My only problem is taking it from a non-sexual physical escalation to a sexual one.
/r/seduction11/10/17 05:24 PM
1

Yup. Direct as I tell her I find her attractive, cute, let's get a coffee soon. Indirect: let's hang out, do something one on one.
/r/seduction11/10/17 03:18 PM
1

Agreed. Since I'm back on no f*p, I'm scared that when I get with a girl I'll come too quickly and leave her disappointed, although I'm looking forward to oral on her. How will the girl react to me fumbling around with her when it's clear I need to make a move sexually? I probably won't make a move since she could introduce me to other women. Making friends is cool but I realized that in that girls case I wasn't really into her even as a friend. I get the non sexual parts, but shouldn't I talk a…
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:01 AM
1

Same thing, hope it turns out well
/r/seduction11/10/17 03:49 AM
3

If you saw her on a dating app, sure in that she's likely single, out of the blue, well no.
/r/seduction11/10/17 03:22 AM
1

So say let's get to know each other better soon?
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:05 AM
1

If he's genetically blessed, sure other wise I doubt it
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:05 AM
1

I do have a decent social circle though and have done what you've said. It's just the direct game I have issue with. What should I say? Let's get a coffee to get to know each other better? I find you cute??
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:35 PM
2

Essentially with a girl you should say either "fuck yes" I want to hang out with her or no.
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:34 PM
1

I get that. I did touch my friend but I have friendzoned her myself. Most of the girls I talked to I find out are taken afterwards. Maybe I should be more direct? Taking about sex is hard since I'm a virgin though. I have no idea how to read signs since taken girls have given me signs, interested ones haven't. I've rebooted tinder and done cold approaches at college which is essentially social circle game. It's hard for me to get laid though.
/r/seduction10/10/17 10:43 PM
1

I just posted a post about what I am feeling right now. Thing is I have worked on myself but I'm feeling that I am too happy being single, on my own. Tinder sucks for me since I don't have good pictures, and asking for friends to take pictures of me for that sole reason is bad. Unless I pose shirtless. (I do have the body for it). As well I am a virgin and don't look like a stereotypical one. I am approaching in person and hope to get laid that way but I'm clueless. I can talk to women but only …
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:18 PM
1

Tinder doesn't work for me sadly....
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:39 PM
1

The fuck yes or no principle
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:59 PM
1

True. I've only really connected with one girl so far and she is more of a friend to me. And she's the only "fuck yes" girl that I've talked to so far. I found out one of the girls had a BF which is fine since I was only half into her, and didn't connect that well. I'm also a virgin and really inexperienced with girls so I don't know what to do next. I've focused on my school work, ignored women for a bit before working on myself. Should I be more direct? I don't know how to express my sexuality…
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:31 PM
1

My "10" is what most guys would call a 7-8.
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:41 AM
1

Late reply, but honesty, a year ago with a oneitis, but that was before I found this sub Reddit, and realized how dumb it is was (she had a BF anyways.) A few girls I get excited to talk to but never get butterflies when I know they're nearby or I see them. I wonder if I'm too content being own my own and a lethargy of actual hitting them up to hangout. I meant to say before I got the number I told them we should do a hangout activity and some of them said yes. (Though a few I see occasionally i…
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:21 PM
1

Yeah but more intent touching. Hands? Hug conveys it
/r/seduction08/10/17 03:36 AM
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Thanks. Can't make escalation too sexual
/r/seduction08/10/17 03:30 AM
1

I am attracted to her enough that I wouldn't mind sex with her but could live without her. I dunno, I feel the way about all the women I'm interested in and know. I'm at a part with women where I approach, and set up future hangouts but either forget to text/call and then nothing happens as someone with little experience with women. I'm not depressed at all just wondering that being too happy by myself and fine stoically on my own is the issue with me being with women?
/r/seduction08/10/17 03:24 AM
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Ok. I've seen this girl a few time but only in class should I just hug her when I see her next? I have touched her before so it's not like it's out of nowhere for her.
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:25 AM
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Or at least hug when you leave the first time.
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:17 AM
4

Think positive about your life. Make a change, sounds easy and basic but care about that stuff man.
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:00 PM
1

Yeah though I'm fine with letting this be a slow roll for anything in the future. No rush to bed her, for example. Though the thing would be school related but at least outside class. Problem I'm having is that I feel attracted to her, but not enough to chase, same with other girls.
/r/seduction07/10/17 04:46 PM
31

Enough with the self defeating mindsets.
/r/seduction07/10/17 04:44 PM
1

Yes I have swapped contact info. And I have invited her to hang out for a school thing though trying to get the details down. Not the worst thing if she flakes though, thanks to abundance mentality.
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:15 PM
1

No, she stayed for another minute and then left. She told me she was going to skip out early anyways. Shoulder rubbing is a bad word. Meant to say a shoulder touch that was a few seconds long, and even accidentally hit a bra strap and she didn't mind. The lighter things such as elbow touches and arm touches have worked. I can't escalate more than small of back next time
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:07 AM
1

Thanks. She wasn't feeling well so in this case I just gave her a shoulder rub for a few seconds before she left and no reaction at all. I have no idea how to escalate in public in class or wherever in non sexual parts? Legs touching each other?
/r/seduction07/10/17 01:07 AM
2

I get that. This is during the daytime and sober, just realized it as a IOI. Body language is important too.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:39 PM
2

But dilated pupils is somewhat interested, in whatever way
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:26 PM
2

Cool. But that's not sexual interest right?
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:56 PM
2

Such as? Dilated pupils? Open body language?
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:17 PM
1

Warm approach, social circle etc
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:32 PM
1

What should you do with neutral reactions to touch?
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:05 PM
0

I rarely see non taken/outgoing guys talk to attractive women on campus and even in class
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:01 PM
0

Game is just socializing but in a good way though. Eye contact, touch etc
/r/seduction06/10/17 04:35 PM
1

Yes. Still though I vibe with them, but can life my life without them. Wonder if I'm too outcome non dependent
/r/seduction06/10/17 03:30 AM
1

Yeah, I mean looks for me don't matter past initial attraction.
/r/seduction06/10/17 03:18 AM
1

As someone who started essentially talking to women in college I hate that I didn't do this in high school but also kind of grateful that my bad experiences there changed my life in many ways.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:41 PM
-2

Lol I'm 20 and even a 17 year old seems creepy to me.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:17 PM
2

Social proof and put them on the back burner. More approach based but when she says I'm seeing someone, still said for Facebook as you never know.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:16 PM
7

/r/incels is that way
/r/seduction05/10/17 03:12 AM
1

Enough with the throwaway accounts Anthony
/r/seduction05/10/17 03:12 AM
1

Not trolling I get what you are saying so non verbal interactions are more important for escalation than verbal essentially.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:34 AM
1

So give her a compliment and touch her as well? I'm confused
/r/seduction05/10/17 12:59 AM
1

Don't like negging though
/r/seduction05/10/17 12:16 AM
2

How is it less classy? Cute is a bit weird to me but your making your intent known.
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:38 PM
3

Or at the very least make it sort of obvious through eye contact, body language and talking if you don't want to say pretty/cute
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:37 PM
1

I'm not attractive at all and I can start convos with women (though in classes/college) and they're nice to me. They would be to you too.
/r/seduction03/10/17 07:12 PM
1

Or you can check her out during conversation, say something about her appearance (you look great/hot today), and she'll see you that way.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:56 PM
2

Stop with the self limiting beliefs dude
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:55 PM
1

The last part isn't true though. You'd be seen as a creep
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:12 PM
1

Thanks. Hector Castillo talked about stomach and thigh touches as decent for public. Is he right?
/r/seduction03/10/17 04:17 PM
1

For me I only really do it with a common setting of some kind. The street is the only place I haven't talked to a stranger that's a girl before.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:50 PM
1

How can you escalate touches in public that aren't sexual but are bolder than arm/shoulder stuff?
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:47 PM
1

Act not talk essentially?
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:53 PM
0

Anything.
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:50 PM
3

What if the girl gives no reaction to kino, positive or negative?
/r/seduction02/10/17 08:27 PM
1

So what are your thoughts?
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:19 PM
1

I can't be direct at school that much and girls know why you're approaching them anyways.
/r/seduction02/10/17 05:54 PM
1

Yes though I haven't texted since we have better rapport in person. Far from the only girl I'm gaming, and only see her once a week. And would be ok with being friends in a worst case scenario.
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:34 PM
1

Lmao. But that was just an introduction. I've stepped it up gradually since.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:52 PM
1

Women don't make the first move most of the time. Even with good looking guys.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:16 PM
5

If this is before exclusivity you assume that anyways, no?
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:12 PM
2

It's up to you
/r/seduction01/10/17 08:19 PM
1

Seize the moment.
/r/seduction30/09/17 11:39 PM
1

Maybe your mentality is the problem? I get it sucks man, but your comment history is all negative. Talk to women and try to hang out with them to start off.
/r/seduction30/09/17 11:36 PM
1

I'm not holding your hand on this. However, coffee/walking around/events are good ideas.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:44 PM
1

Different dates, dress yourself be interesting, don't follow a certain stereotype
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:26 PM
1

Be different from most guys.
/r/seduction30/09/17 08:51 PM
2

Ask about the class as an opener and then go into whatever. (Set up a hangout later if she's into it.) usually you'll get her number/Facebook if she isn't taken (though depends and sometimes they are taken)
/r/seduction30/09/17 02:13 AM
3

Doubt those 'nice guys' touch them either, or even joke about anything sexually/risk offending them.
/r/seduction30/09/17 02:12 AM
1

K?
/r/seduction29/09/17 08:51 PM
2

I guess? You're making the decisions dude, not me.
/r/seduction29/09/17 03:59 PM
1

No. wait and see
/r/seduction29/09/17 03:50 PM
2

You used push pull well.
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:18 PM
1

She likes you now?
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:15 PM
1

Sounds like it's a movie lmao. I've had smaller versions of that happen to me.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:09 PM
3

Talk to her and be respectful
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:11 AM
2

Talk to other women as well too.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:04 AM
2

Agreed. Treat them like your equal and the results will be there
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:04 AM
1

I used to be a white knight until 2 years ago. Surprisingly I've talked to more women in the past year than I did in 10, so yeah.
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:07 AM
5

Some people start as friends then date. Not in the friendzoned way though
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:00 PM
3

Friends sometimes do have sex with each other
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:42 PM
1

Just did.
/r/seduction27/09/17 05:34 PM
1

Kinda.
/r/seduction27/09/17 05:33 PM
1

True. For building tension, is eye contact a good tool? I can make her laugh but creating tension is something I suck at.
/r/seduction27/09/17 04:35 PM
1

Talk to everyone
/r/seduction27/09/17 04:13 PM
1

I got a few matches with a joke picture as my main (real as second ones)
/r/seduction27/09/17 04:05 PM
3

I'm getting to the point where if I don't talk to at least one new person (girl or guy) per day I feel bad. Getting too social!
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:52 PM
1

Yeah I don't go all in. Abundance mentality, but if a girl flakes, just don't let it faze you. Being more social is always good!
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:29 PM
2

It's not shitting where you eat as unless it's a small class (under 30 people) you can be adults about it and move on.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:21 PM
9

And for a student, it is.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:19 PM
1

Not on the street, but in buildings yes.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:09 PM
1

Ok. Any other methods of practicing kino IRL?
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:42 PM
1

I read it. Testing the space bubble but I've always gotten neutral responses to kino.
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:57 AM
1

She's bisexual per her comments
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:39 AM
2

Get her number too
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:41 AM
8

Does she respond with interest in convos, because most women don't approach men.
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:07 AM
1

Get their contact info?
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:07 AM
1

Talk to everyone in classes. Join clubs. Talk to random people.
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:33 AM
3

Most girls will be happy to talk to you if you do that at first then segway to personal stuff.
/r/seduction26/09/17 09:09 PM
1

It's not a true cold approach since you have some sort of common bond (the class.) sit next to her, and just talk. Or go up to her after class and talk to her. You don't have to get the number the first time since you'll see her again, but don't forget to talk for more than a minute if you want something decent. Ask for a next hangout either deeper in the convo or the second time you see her. Too quickly is uncalibrated.
/r/seduction26/09/17 09:04 PM
2

No. talk to her like a normal person and see if you click. It could work but especially at your age, holy shit prepare for a flake
/r/seduction26/09/17 08:55 PM
1

Organized sports, yeah but like training, intramural stuff and weightlifting is bigger than you think
/r/seduction26/09/17 08:20 PM
3

Light kino, eye contact, ask to hang out outside of schook
/r/seduction26/09/17 07:28 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction26/09/17 07:28 PM
2

But put enough effort into your appearance and you aren't disfigured, most girls will be fine with you.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:39 PM
2

*most don't.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:28 PM
4

Best advice
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:23 PM
2

Sorry that the girl was a jerk. Anyways, just embrace who you are, be positive and most girls will appreciate you for that.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:21 PM
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Good advice. Though intent should be shown through non verbal things right? Saying it out loud is needy such as "I like you"
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:19 PM
2

Hmm. I go to an academic school in Toronto where sports aren't the number one focus but still important. Talk to people in classes, gyms, school clubs, anywhere. And yes, in college it's normal to start conversations with random people assuming there's some sort of commonality. Even if there isn't, ask for a building or place on campus and then go from there.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:18 PM
6

Get off forever alone, it's a negative place to be.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:17 PM
1

True. But I'm not fantasizing about her at all. Still using tinder, doing gaming of other girls. The kino part still worries me. Is shoulder touches enough to show some physical interest? What more kino should I do?
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:33 PM
1

Unless you're really ugly or deformed, you are some hot girl's fetish. Not all attractive women like the same thing.
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:16 PM
1

Ok. I don't want to get oneitis through this. That's why I'm analyzing this to death.
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:03 PM
1

Meant to say is there anything else I need to do for any girl to work for seduction? But I thought teasing was needed to build attraction. So responses to basic kino could show that a girl isn't creeped out by me, instead of being attracted though. I guess that non verbal signs are more important in this case.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:33 PM
1

Ok except I've read that anything else to do that would work? For flirting and teasing? Gage interested levels? I'm scared of kino more than small shoulder touches.
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:59 AM
1

I will pay attention. However I don't know if she's interested in me, has a BF or anything like that. I'll try not to fuck it up but how can I escalate kino so she knows my intent? Is there anything new I should do such as flirt more? Yeah I'm thinking about that. Though I don't want to be creepy, but have intent made.
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:34 AM
2

Friends do have sex with each other.... but put her on the back burner
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:03 AM
1

But asking her out is so subjective. Asking a girl to hang out not in school can be seen as asking out
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:34 PM
1

Why
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:01 PM
1

Ask her to hangout
/r/seduction25/09/17 05:09 PM
1

I mean she's a classmate who I met 10 days ago. Yes I did swap contact info. There's a class assignment which requires going off campus to see something which I wondered if she wanted to go together and she said yes. Still don't know if she's interested tho
/r/seduction25/09/17 04:25 PM
1

We've bantered back and forth, teased her a bit and she didn't shy away at all when I gave her direct eye contact, walking close together for a small bit and high fives + plus shoulder touches which she didn't mind at all. Still don't know if that's good or if she's interested. (Not the only girl I'm working on anyways).
/r/seduction25/09/17 04:05 PM
1

What about escalating later if there's a big connection when talking during different times?
/r/seduction25/09/17 03:48 PM
1

She probably scams other dudes? Ask her what it's about. If it's shady, don't do anything but hookup. Certainly not GF material if she does heinous shit.
/r/seduction24/09/17 12:22 AM
1

Maybe she wasn't interested?
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:30 PM
1

I mean I didn't but she is fine with potentially hanging out with me in a non school setting, so I dunno.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:58 PM
1

What do you mean by man up?
/r/seduction23/09/17 09:25 PM
1

Yeah it's just that it depend on the enthusiasm of the questions. Some girls are energetic when asking me them and others less so. Energetic is a small sign of some interest right?
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:51 PM
1

Asking questions all the time is being nice?
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:29 PM
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How can you flirt on tinder/online? In person I can do it but online I'm terrible since you can't really gage tone
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:05 PM
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I gotta remember this I don't know how to convey this to my matches. I am looking for a relationship if it comes tho
/r/seduction23/09/17 04:26 PM
1

Are you bisexual?
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:22 PM
6

but don't fully give it up. Just have it as a supplement for your main ways of game.
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:11 AM
1

This is me
/r/seduction22/09/17 11:54 PM
1

Yeah the one thing is that most hot/cute girls are easier to approach and talk to.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:25 PM
13

Personal number hmmm Edit: (she even texted you first.)
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:25 PM
1

Mobiles the issue for me. Desktop just incognito mode or clear cache
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:11 PM
1

Yeah. The preselection thing got me. Hell, even talking about another girl with girls gets their attention
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:08 PM
1

How to get around the article limit?
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:04 PM
1

Other plans/life stuff. Make it up if you have to. Guy who plays the BF angle but just wants to fuck and leave. Dick
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:45 AM
1

Yeah. OP needs to not fuck this up since the girl likes him obviously.
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:20 AM
1

My god if I go more than 2-3 times after meeting a girl before dates and I don't touch non sexually to start. I'd go crazy
/r/seduction22/09/17 01:33 AM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:42 PM
2

Opposite for me. As long as they aren't fat. (I find some overweight girls cute). Face is honestly more important for me. That's what draws me in first.
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:04 PM
24

Yeah good one. Situational ones work the best as openers.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:53 AM
1

School
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:53 AM
2

Nah dude I'm not that attractive and girls don't blow me off in person. Over text they do a bit but not in person. You're fine. Remember, you are some hot girls fetish type.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:31 AM
3

Lmfao
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:24 AM
1

Probably. Or at least ask them out for a hangout
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:24 AM
1

That's not enough time unless you suggested to meet again later. Tease, joke etc.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:17 AM
1

Did you have up rapport? Suggest a future hang out?
/r/seduction20/09/17 12:56 AM
31

What was your opener?
/r/seduction20/09/17 12:43 AM
7

Just talk to them so you don't have regret
/r/seduction20/09/17 12:43 AM
1

Every girl has rejected you? I doubt that. Even for a number?
/r/seduction20/09/17 12:42 AM
2

What about Insta? Like pics and then dm? (Some of these include online dating matches)
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:07 PM
1

Yeah. I just don't want to miss out on opportunities around the school
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:01 PM
1

I have. Talking about seeing those same girls again
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:54 PM
1

Change anything else when I talk to them other than the first compliment?
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:48 PM
1

I'm downloading it now. I've only seen these women 1-2 times at most
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:44 PM
1

Can't watch it on mobile so that's a yes for saying I find them like that??
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:38 PM
1

So next time so I don't lose attraction? Call them they look hot today? Anything else???
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:36 PM
1

I don't. I meant to say that I haven't told them that I find them attractive yet. Is that too direct?
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:33 PM
1

So not every time? I do want to show intent
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:17 PM
1

No I mean some of them I do find them cute. Should I say that?
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:00 PM
1

True. She laughed about it too. I'm not going to read too much into it. However those are good lines. I'll use them. Another question is that with these girls I've talked to but no intent should I tell them they look hot that day?
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:42 PM
1

No. this was in school and she was going to buy something to drink.
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:25 PM
1

I've done light kino like shoulder touches and eye contact so next time I see these girls tell them "you look hot today"?
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:06 PM
1

Signing up for ebook later today. I mean for example I talked with a girl and then called her out on going to buy something to drink playfully. How can I improve on that?
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:05 PM
1

Such as? I just call her out on a bratty way. Any ways for actual attraction?
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:55 PM
1

How to set up innuendo?
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:54 PM
1

Getting numbers and light touches but don't know how to show interest. Say they're attractive?
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:48 PM
1

How do you do that?
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:45 PM
1

Thanks dude. I guess saying anything that isn't stupid will work.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:57 PM
1

I ask about the major because it usually leads into why they chose it and their passion
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:08 PM
1

I get that but how do I text to set up a hangout? But not as friends?
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:55 PM
2

How can you build some sexual tension?
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:08 PM
1

When you approach a girl to talk to her doesn't she realize that you're probably not wanting to be a friend?
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:23 PM
3

Good points. If you ask for a girls number and you exchange numbers she knows that you're likely not just being a friend right?
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:59 AM
1

Done that. I want to hang out and get to know them better. Haven't made intent clear either
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:34 AM
70

Literally anything related to your current situation
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:33 AM
1

I get that and I did build rapport but I'm awful with texting. For tinder what should I do as an opener? And number in person ask them out to hangout as a first message?
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:32 AM
1

Even when they're not interested they don't blow me off. It's weird
/r/seduction18/09/17 08:51 PM
2

I'm not an athlete per say but I have an athletes body + a keyboard player. Don't know how to show off my body for online since I'm not into hookups at all and a ltr type guy. I am pickier but I find talking to attractive girls I easier in person than online for some reason for me. Your points are good. Looks are the door in to talk to a girl but sure as hell isnt the only reason you get her number etc.... Lmao downvotes since people think I lie
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:18 PM
1

Wait until college where unless you're really creepy no one cares you approach girls.
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:23 PM
2

Yeah I'm not at your level but I've been doing in person + online game and I forget to text a match/number at times. Haven't gotten a date yet but there is at least some sort of interest
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:22 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:21 PM
1

Yeah I kinda hate this too when I only get a chick's Facebook and it sucks since sometimes they list they're single. Harder to ask out for a hangout.
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:21 PM
1

I mean I still am shy from time to time but I hate spending more than a day per week relatively quiet.
/r/seduction18/09/17 11:50 AM
33

Don't get many tinder matches but the ones I do I haven't sent any messages to since I don't know what to say. And for asking girls out in general, is saying to check out a new place better than saying it's a date, I'm in college if that matters
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:24 AM
0

Hmm. I'll try that. Shoulder touches?
/r/seduction17/09/17 08:34 PM
0

What about daytime situations? Light touches?
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:33 PM
1

Since I'm in good shape as long as they aren't fat it's ok with me.
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:20 PM
1

That's it?
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:14 AM
1

How can you flirt while teasing I can only tease
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:57 PM
2

Spam bro
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:01 AM
1

When they ask for contact info first is that a sign of something?
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:53 PM
0

How do you know if they're hitting on you?
/r/seduction15/09/17 01:11 PM
1

Well next time I see a girl I've talked to before I'll start hugging then. Will he awkward though
/r/seduction14/09/17 02:31 AM
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For me touching right after meeting save for a handshake is weird during the day how can I fix this?
/r/seduction14/09/17 01:30 AM
1

As long as she isn't clingy it's ok
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:25 PM
5

Last part is important. I forget that at times that women mostly like guys and have sex drives.
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:23 PM
1

True but intent is one I suck in it's all platonic conversations
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:47 PM
1

I get that. However they mostly aren't fake where I am. Reverse image search + real small instagram accounts
/r/seduction13/09/17 11:58 AM
1

Weird. I don't get many matches at all but I've seen quite a few hot girls in my feed. Same on bumble but I get more matches there.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:15 AM
1

Yeah either go indirect in class or approach before class.
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:39 AM
6

Interesting. So just care more about their appearance then? Go to more activity clubs/classes?
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:38 AM
1

Ah I've used different openers. How can show intent in not being a friend on campus/class? Ask out to study/hang out?
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:35 AM
2

??
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:36 AM
1

Yes. But for me I find girls I'm attracted to easier and less nervous to talk to than a random chick for some reason
/r/seduction12/09/17 09:31 PM
1

I get that but I know a few hot girls (to me at least) that don't get that much male attention. Is it weird that they're sometimes likelier to only settle for LTR's?
/r/seduction12/09/17 09:30 PM
12

Tl:dw?
/r/seduction12/09/17 09:25 PM
1

Thanks I am 20. Just that when I approach women I always forget say what my intent is. I'm fine with the rest of conversation and do get numbers to hangout but I've never said that's she's cute. Always platonic conversation with some light flirting
/r/seduction12/09/17 07:55 PM
3

Kinda a dick move
/r/seduction12/09/17 04:24 PM
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Cool thanks anymore tips?
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:43 PM
3

Cool. I'll use that study/hang out line
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:43 PM
–

Wow really? I've only seen these girls during the day. Is inviting any of them out for drinks ok so far? I haven't made intent clear with any of them.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:50 PM
1

But if you approach indirectly and ask for her number after short convo I mean wouldn't she get that you're likely not interested in just being a friend?
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:49 PM
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How can I do that? Physically escalate? I mean do they think I like them through approaching them? I also convinced one of them to join a club I'm in as well. How can I build sexual tension?
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:01 AM
1

I might use that line. Is pretty damn good
/r/seduction11/09/17 08:13 PM
1

Hmm. I meant to say at school when I approach I don't talk sexually so how could I do that?
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:18 PM
2

Even for meeting a girl during day time?
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:33 PM
1

True though I know a few women from my school who look great with no/minimal make up.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:20 PM
1

I'm half Asian half white and white girls are fine with me. Though fuller guys have it tougher it isn't a deal breaker for most honestly
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:34 AM
7

That's why I go after girls at my school who aren't in sorority though mine has a small one compared to other schools
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:33 AM
2

Join clubs or at least go to a meeting for them. People are 100% more receptive in college with some common event
/r/seduction08/09/17 11:45 PM
1

How the hell is someone not exclusive if they seen them for 6 months in a non open relationship?
/r/seduction08/09/17 09:42 PM
4

So the goal is to get caught looking?
/r/seduction08/09/17 01:12 AM
1

I do have those skills but my problem is escalating like you said.
/r/seduction07/09/17 02:56 PM
1

Thanks I do pay attention to what they say and in girls cases what they act like around me. Your advice is good
/r/seduction07/09/17 02:55 PM
1

Kino is hard for me to do. How can you physically escalate during the day?
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:43 AM
1

Why? I've done that before without and it didn't work
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:42 AM
1

I've done that tho
/r/seduction06/09/17 07:05 PM
1

I can do that. I can talk to girls if I'm not flirting with them. Flirting makes me very nervous
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:47 PM
1

Cool. I'll do that
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:20 PM
1

It's 50+ k. Didn't get an IOI though. Does it work that direct?
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:19 PM
1

I have trouble showing intent tho
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:33 PM
1

What do I say to show intent though without being creepy?
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:32 PM
1

I'm 20, so looking for more 19-21 year olds but that's the same thing right? Just approach.
/r/seduction04/09/17 05:01 PM
1

Really man? Is the part about girls being single early in the fall true? I mean I'll approach a ton of cute/hot girls then and it should work right?
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:28 PM
1

Daygame
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:49 AM
2

For relationships this isn't true at all.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:32 PM
1

I mean the latter doesn't happen unless you're casually dating her and then you make it exclusive. I can't do FWB as I get too attracted/attached
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:39 PM
1

They matter less for relationships, not for one night stands
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:50 PM
1

As a similar mixed man, that's good for hope, though I don't date Asians
/r/seduction03/09/17 02:10 AM
1

Don't have a dog but have a neighbour whose dogs I am really friendly with and they like me is that fine?
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:50 AM
2

Goes well with the "will I like this girl" kind of thinking instead of "will the girl like me"
/r/seduction02/09/17 10:56 PM
1

There's a difference between that an open relationships right? I mean what you said is cool before exclusivity but not a chance any relationship of mine will be open.
/r/seduction02/09/17 10:54 PM
1

Have sex with a few girls and then if/when you just want one of them, be exclusive. That's essentially what my gameplay is.
/r/seduction02/09/17 10:53 PM
4

Final one: hell, she might like you for some reason.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:02 PM
2

Most Women love men, and sex too.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:01 PM
1

I only really worry about the "slut" label if you're considering making her your GF and beyond honestly.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:00 PM
7

Part of me wonders since I get very few matches with a normal profile if I should just go full douche and have a shirtless pic and tight shirt ones with dogs.
/r/seduction02/09/17 07:51 PM
1

Yeah. I mean for example I talked to a girl that was very cute, basically hot at the end of last semester and I doubt she got that much attention since all she talked about was her job, friends class and me when I talked to her. Maybe that isn't common but you're right
/r/seduction02/09/17 06:18 PM
1

100+ is. I've known girls that were cute enough and didn't have that much male attention
/r/seduction02/09/17 04:54 PM
1

In person I doubt that's true
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:33 PM
1

I haven't talked to these girls (it's like 3-4) since April. More about ones you've had chats with for an extended time once-twice but that's it
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:38 AM
58

Approach guys. If they're straight and single, a good majority of them will appreciate what you do.
/r/seduction01/09/17 08:32 PM
1

Yeah that's true but I'm taking about approaching in general. Take what you get cause you never know. She's obviously on the backburner but don't forget
/r/seduction31/08/17 09:30 PM
1

Yes. You did a decent joke with the marrying stuff yet last joke was cringy. Facebook would've been good as a social connection as who knows if she could've introduced you to her friends who are single etc.
/r/seduction31/08/17 08:55 PM
2

After the marrying comment you could've asked for Facebook and just wait. Who knows but you pressed the issue
/r/seduction31/08/17 08:23 PM
1

Yeah but what about my answer?
/r/seduction31/08/17 06:32 PM
1

I second this
/r/seduction31/08/17 06:32 PM
1

It would be creepy to start on the bus with other people there. If it was even on the platform it would be better as you're not trapped to say. Sucks since again if this was anywhere else I would be been fine with it.
/r/seduction31/08/17 04:00 PM
1

The opposite extreme of not touching yourself? C'mon it's not that bad. Builds will power and horniness
/r/seduction31/08/17 04:00 AM
1

I can do that in person, literally talking about online
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:51 AM
1

I get that but getting a decent opener online is so hard. I've done so many personalized openers with no response
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:39 AM
1

Those methods aren't good for approaching women right?
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:25 AM
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