The number one danger in women’s lives is men they know

Muffcakelord · 2021-10-03T23:36:19+00:00

I mean why would men be adviced to not hurt women if it's not punishable? No consequences baby

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-10-04T07:50:56+00:00

the advice for women is to basically behave as if they're hunted prey that should always expect a rape to happen. protect yourself from rabid wolves - situation.

yeah, instead of putting down all rabid wolves and enclosing and monitoring them or even better, training them not to attack, just wear your protective helmets, whamen! this is a safe community so keep safe!

the mental gymnastics are astounding.

Toot--Sweet · 2021-10-04T00:26:57+00:00

The male friend who walks you home after the bar closes is more likely to rape you than a man hiding in the bushes.

purasangria · 2021-10-03T23:46:23+00:00

At this point, I'm asking why men are allowed out without an escort, given the potential for harm that they represent. They commit more than 80% of all violet crimes. When is enough finally enough before we crack down on this for the right of women to move about freely and without fear?

Edit: This was obviously said tongue in cheek, but the howls from the men indicate that they KNOW that men pose an undue risk to women, and they just don't CARE. They want to be able to go out whenever they want. Oh, really? You want to go out when you want? Well, women do too.

arnezuara · 2021-10-04T01:10:55+00:00

Men (as a whole) are not to be trusted. Unfortunately so, they have proven, time and time again, that they are dangerous to the well-being of women.

Yet they still screech at how unfair life is to them: it’s just too hard to climb the man-made hierarchy of power; it’s getting harder to abuse/manipulate women into compliance and free labor.

Yet, we see that their blame always finds a woman — they expect us to carry the weight of their misfortunes, addictions, and depravities on our backs. They take their hatred and anger out on us. They add to our traumas, give us children we do not want (to raise with them).

Women were not taught how to quit on men: drop everything and let them perish. It’s a habit that many of us have been told not to develop, as it would significantly lower our market value.

After all, what man wants a dog that he can’t train to obey?

throwaway-fds · 2021-10-04T05:20:51+00:00

Why would we give advice for men to not harm women? Why would we give them advice on how to do the absolute bare minimum of human decency? I hate when people bring this up and that "teach men not to rape" because it gives men an excuse. It still implies ( to an extent ) that they're just simply poor, uneducated babies who didn't know that it's morally unjust to cause harm to another human being! 🥺 That sounds so fucking dumb. It's not our responsibility that men cannot exercise what is not even the bare minimum.

HiILikePlants · 2021-10-04T04:50:20+00:00

See women as human beings 2. Be capable of empathy for fellow human beings

Idk how to fix those

purasangria · 2021-10-04T17:51:43+00:00

For those who are saying, "this just punishes all men for the actions of a few," think about this: All women are afraid because of the actions of a few men.

You need to come up with better reasoning, men. Women should be able to go about their lives without living in fear of male attack. This is a male problem. You need to figure it out.

rinabean · 2021-10-04T09:20:48+00:00

I get the rage at the unfairness, it is unfair, but I don't like the way it's always framed.

There is no such thing as a man who rapes because he doesn't know it's wrong. This whole "educate men" thing is such a dangerous idea. A man who rapes you is not some kind of co-victim of a society that never told him it was, to start with, illegal... Men are out there warning each other about how to get away with rape. They don't need advice. They need consequences!

It's also dangerous to fixate on strange men doing less harm to us than known men. That's because we strive to be safe around strange men because they are more harmful. The advice we hate, because it's such an imposition, and because we get judged if we skip a step and that's the day a man makes the choice to hurt us? Well, it works pretty well. (I don't know if smiling is actually protective, though... it's infuriating that we have to consider all this nonsense and walk all these lines, absolutely.)

I know it's not the intention but it would be easy for a woman to look at this screenshot and this title and come away with the conclusion: "Okay, so I might as well get blind drunk around strange men, because avoiding it won't save me." I literally was once part of a feminist group where women were saying that because women's male partners and ex-partners do the most violence to us, that it's safer for women to sleep around with men than to have a male partner! Including that you should go to their homes, because you're most likely to be hurt by a man you invited into your home! No matter how good the motivation, it's easy to see who benefits.

KindredMaximus · 2021-10-04T00:08:32+00:00

Be nice. Smile.

Also - don't be nice or smile - or your boyfriend will get jealous and kill you. A had a guy once who couldn't even take it if I spoke to a cab driver. He was constantly telling me I was too nice.

PrincessAmour · 2021-10-04T03:58:49+00:00

As a 17 year old still living with her mom this makes me fearful to move out

Darwinchick · 2021-10-04T04:25:17+00:00

Adding to the list of how to make yourself safe from attack.

Get yourself a lovely big german shepherd. I take my baby for walks after dark, mainly on the back tracks so we don't run into many people. When we do, they avoid us.

I was walking on the footpath one night and a guy ahead, turned towards me and crossed the road to approach me. Sigh. My dog is reactive, so I step off the path, behind a tree into the dark and wait for the guy to go past on the path. Waiting, waiting. Where is he? I step back onto the path and into the light and the dude is now running away from me. God knows what he thought, but I assume from his flight, it was not nice. Projecting?? He had bad intentions, so assumed I did too?

ychromosomeisadefect · 2021-10-04T10:04:00+00:00

If we were the biggest danger, they would enslave us all just to be safe but because they’re the biggest danger, women are STILL the ones who need to be enslaved e.g Saudi Arabia.

miqingwei · 2021-10-04T07:54:04+00:00

Women need to do a better job raising their sons, or better yet stop having sons.

TBF_Avenger1942 · 2021-10-04T16:55:28+00:00

I don't know what the hell this post is talking about. The media always tells men they're all evil, and all that. You realize you're making women weak by not letting them carry a gun around and have pepper spray? You realize you're telling women they are helpless victims incapable of INDEPENDENTLY fending for themselves?

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Title	The number one danger in women’s lives is men they know
Author	Vmchik
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Date	October 3, 2021 11:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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