Everyone’s delusional about the opposite sex

cuckedalt · 2022-04-08T19:33:54+00:00

They don’t know what love is and only have sexual feelings for girls

I don't want to speak for other guys but I have to say this does not resonate with me. It's like being struck by lightning.

IHaveSalesQuestions · 2022-04-08T19:51:53+00:00

Wtf are you talking about. Please don’t lump me into that absurd category. As a man I 100% have plenty of emotions.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-04-08T20:24:26+00:00

I'm a guy. I have emotions.

Next...

januaryphilosopher · 2022-04-08T19:39:32+00:00

I feel like you're talking about either two very specific people, or overblown stereotypes.

Trikger · 2022-04-08T19:44:57+00:00

I'm cackling.

They don’t know what love is and only have sexual feelings for girls.

Thanks for your wisdom. Homosexuality is a lie, it seems.

They have no empathy and don’t even love themselves so how could they love anyone else?

There are amazing men, boyfriends, husbands and fathers all around the world. The extend of their love is not limited to their personal sexual needs.

Girls are practically asexual compared to men. They’re in post-nut clarity 24/7. They don’t really have sexual feelings or sexual needs. They don’t really have sexual feelings or sexual needs.

God, I wish. That's all I have to say about that.

EulenWatcher · 2022-04-08T19:38:31+00:00

Your description might be accurate for some men and women, not for all and most likely not for the majority of them though.

Men might have less understanding of their own emotions, it doesn't mean they have fewer of them or that their emotions are somehow simpler than women's. They generally do have higher sex drives, it doesn't mean they masturbate on every barely cute woman they know. Studies show they're less empathetic, they do have empathy though, otherwise all men would be sociopaths unable to relate to other beings. Men know love, they can genuinely care for others.

Women have lower libido, but it isn't nonexistent and we still have sexual desires. Women watch porn, read erotica, have various kinks and toys. Anyone can life without sex btw, human beings don't die from sexual starvation.

catchtowards12345 · 2022-04-08T19:41:05+00:00

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LittleDragonMaiden · 2022-04-08T20:18:03+00:00

You are generalizing all men and women but not even accurately at all. I can guarantee that most men don’t masturbate to pictures of their female family. Jeez where are you from, Alabama?

catchtowards12345 · 2022-04-08T20:43:49+00:00

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gofigure62 · 2022-04-08T19:57:55+00:00

Men are hyper emotional due to social psycho mutilation for the expectation of performed masculinity associated within that specific culture. And are only socially allowed to express happiness or anger socially, which often leads men to being incapable of processing or understanding their own emotions.

Humans are indoctrinated to whatever their culture tells them to believe specifically. Most societies have a history in establishment revolving around the benefit of a few select males. So most humans are going to have perceptions, beliefs, or biases that benefit a select group of people whether they're aware of this or not.

Individuals exists that disprove a significant amount of gendered stereotypical beliefs, then there are stereotypes rooted in some general fact. But on average most people are too stupid and indoctrinated to have a valuable or functioning ability to decern all people for either fact to be relevant in social application.

calfshrug · 2022-04-08T19:58:49+00:00

I disagree about men lacking empathy. We have plenty of it - at least, I know I do - but I grew up with an extremely egalitarian set of role model parents who gave me the innate impression that that is how the world IS, and unfortunately, it isn’t typical, and unfortunately, I developed a complex set of emotions and self image. For example, I epitomize Clint Eastwood. The image, the gruff nature of his famous roles, the ruthlessness. But I also see the emotional feminine side of myself, and I find it hard to rectify the two sides of myself. Overall I express myself as a man, but the areas where I am emotionally-hardened, like the desire to fuck a bunch of women, is brought on by feelings of not being wanted or liked by my peers, feeling undesired, plus my viewing of porn, and having high levels of testosterone. It’s complex

AdLast6017 · 2022-04-08T20:26:23+00:00

how do you explain me then? I am a 28 year old male and i haven't had any sexual thoughts in over a month or even had sex in over 6 months.

Barely-moral · 2022-04-08T21:15:22+00:00

Guys are unemotional in general.

Men seem unemotional because they live in an incentive structure that doesn't reward them for expressing all their emotions and punish them for expressing them in most ways.

They only have basic emotions like happy/depressed/angry/horny.

You are describing emotions that are less punished when expressed or emotions that are strong enough to the point that they can't be contained without being shown.

It strains their brain to think about emotions.

No. What is your source on this? It strains our brain to find an acceptable way to express most feelings because we don't want to deal with the consequences of expressing something in a way whoever is in front of us will consider wrong.

They don’t know what love is and only have sexual feelings for girls. Love is having a genuine drive to meet someone else’s needs.

Most humans will not share your definition.

They have no empathy

Demonstrably untrue. People that lack in empathy are rare.

and don’t even love themselves so how could they love anyone else?

Non sequitur.

They need sexual variety.

They need happiness. That is one way to obtain one part of it.

Your boyfriend/husband/exes imagine fucking your friends, sisters, etc, the women you’re closest to, they might even masturbate to their fb/insta pics. They think it’s perfectly normal to do this lol

Ok... If everyone within a population does x, then x is normal within said population.

Girls are practically asexual compared to men. They’re in post-nut clarity 24/7.

As a general rule I agree.

They don’t really have sexual feelings or sexual needs.

As a general rule I disagree. Less does not mean nonexistence.

Women are always going to deny they are nowhere near as horny as men and that they take advantage of mens sex drives. Men are going to deny not having emotions because it’s unpleasant.

This is a poor position to have when having conversations. It's assuming bad faith for no reason.

irongolemrocks · 2022-04-08T21:32:16+00:00

I do fall under this category of men unfortunately.

KickAss2021 · 2022-04-08T19:44:55+00:00

Girls are practically asexual compared to men. They’re in post-nut clarity 24/7. They don’t really have sexual feelings or sexual needs. They could live without sex if they really wanted to. It takes effort to think about sex, it strains their brain to think about it. They’re mostly having sex for transactional purposes, as they have done since the beginning of time, to manipulate guys to commit and provide. They like leading on a lot of guys with no intention of ever sleeping with them.

You funny kid! Sureeeee

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdp4he1bLs0

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-08T19:49:16+00:00

I entirely disagree with this comment. None of the men I’ve known are unemotional. They are loving, wonderful men. Stop selling men short.

enoesraht · 2022-04-08T19:48:12+00:00

I don't have most emotions, but I think that has more to do with me. I think I do feel love though, in a way.

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wtknight · 2022-04-08T20:08:48+00:00

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YoviQ · 2022-04-08T21:28:03+00:00

I think you're the delusional one here, my guy. I am a woman, and I swear I am more sexually obsessed than most of the guys I know. This is so weird.

sarkington · 2022-04-08T21:29:31+00:00

Not delusional

Entitled

throwawaythis2020 · 2022-04-08T21:45:55+00:00

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ashpr0ulx · 2022-04-08T23:04:26+00:00

men are capable of loving deeply and passionately. they are capable of loyalty, empathy, and understanding.

women are capable of genuine desire, sexual arousal, and also loving passionately and deeply.

is everyone perfect and wonderful? no. do some people fit into the shitty stereotypes? yes. but if you don’t even try to see the good, you guarantee you never will.

catchtowards12345 · 2022-04-08T23:10:50+00:00

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LarryLooxmax · 2022-04-08T23:32:55+00:00

This really isnt true for the entirety of both genders, but the platonic ideal man/woman? Absolutely.

If you averaged out every member of the male gender and every member of the female gender, the resulting two human beings would be as OP described. There is more variation within each gender than OP allows for but of course thats boring.

QueenWint · 2022-04-08T23:36:10+00:00

Most humans are not stereotypes. What you are doing here is genderism and that is why some people think they are outside of gender because they don't fit these two rigid frames.

For any objective observer these descriptions, for example, fit neither me or my husband. Shall we start our transition to opposite sexes? I would even say that on average men are more loving and romantic.

JoanGreenCat · 2022-04-08T23:50:37+00:00

I'm so asexual I masturbate very often.

catchtowards12345 · 2022-04-09T00:13:09+00:00

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Elegant-Umpire7385 · 2022-04-09T00:48:07+00:00

This just sounds like the average woman and the type of man she's usually into.

bluestjuice · 2022-04-09T00:48:12+00:00

I don’t even think this is close to true on any case. Like…. What are these magical emotions that women have that men don’t have?

Also, positive women would put up with a lot less nonsense from men if they didn’t have a desire for sex.

wtknight · 2022-04-09T06:44:36+00:00

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1962_beta-simp · 2022-04-09T08:25:51+00:00

i have to challenge your view; the only emotions are hungry/thirsty/tired

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-04-09T15:35:32+00:00

You are pointing to things that the respective genders may be out of touch with. But that doesn't mean those things don't exist for them; they just are immediately fluent in them. Culture allows guys a limited emotional palette, so they have to learn how to process more complex emotions more or less completely on their own. And the situation is somewhat analogous with women's sexuality: it may take her a minute to figure out which way she wants to go with it.

But no; women can enjoy being dirty, dirty, whores for a man who loves them, and men can love women who are very grounded in their sexuality (maybe I should have put it that way before), etc.

AelfredRex · 2022-04-09T15:46:46+00:00

"Women don't like sex."... this is where so many of these young men go so wrong.

Play_Muted · 2022-04-10T00:08:14+00:00

lol these are accurate.

Men are going to deny not having emotions because it’s unpleasant.

nah, tbf I dont even view not having emotions as a bad thing and most guys would rather be viewed as an emotionless person than as a crybaby.

Snowbattt · 2022-04-11T07:41:16+00:00

Oh please. I'm a man and I have more emotions than those 4 you mention. What are we, primal apes? I'm tired of people thinking men are some primitive beings whose only interest is emptying their balls and filling their stomachs.

Title	Everyone’s delusional about the opposite sex
Author	throwawaythis2020
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Date	April 8, 2022 7:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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