Keep in mind I’m a woman.

When I talk to guys who are in relationships and they’re really annoying, I sometimes wonder “how does his girlfriend/wife put up with him?” If they’re annoying to me then they’re probably annoying to their partner. Guys aren’t good at picking up social cues to stop being annoying & lack self-awareness.

A lot of guys are dumb, like they have nothing going on in their brain. Their sex is probably really bad. It takes a certain kind of intelligence to be good at sex. Most girls are putting up with sex in their relationships in exchange for emotional/financial support.

Girls are never going to admit how common it is for them to be desperate. Some of my guy friends realized the girls they were dating/hooking up with were desperate after talking to me. One of them would randomly insult his girlfriend all the time and she would just tolerate it cause she was post-wall lol. I guess you could get away with a lot when girls are post-wall. He wouldn’t had realized she was desperate without talking to me. Other guys realized their hookups/girlfriends were desperate cause they faked being overly positive and slipped up at times showing their pessimism underneath their mask. It’s really common for girls to fake being nice or positive to make guys date them/compensate for their looks. It has to be fake cause it’s our survival instinct to have a negativity bias:

Those who were more attuned to danger and who paid more attention to the bad things around them were more likely to survive. The evolutionary perspective suggests that this tendency to dwell on the negative more than the positive is simply one way the brain tries to keep us safe.

Anyway, most girls are desperate. CMV