The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)

candyred1 · 2022-07-02T17:59:20+00:00

I have C-PTSD from years of abuse and betrayal from men who claimed to LOVE me. No peen is worth that. I wasted so many years. I wish I could get them back.

notallowed2havepizza · 2022-07-02T20:15:58+00:00

I even noticed this long before this article. The hint is that there aren’t a lot of women on the dating apps. Seems like women are fed up with men pushing situationships and low effort dates onto them. I’m glad that it’s widespreading.

Wonderful_Row8519 · 2022-07-01T23:23:54+00:00

I think this will become MUCH more common given the recent overturning of Roe. Who wants to risk an unwanted pregnancy or being persecuted seeking an abortion when you can just stick to a vibrator?

HereToMessAround · 2022-07-02T08:48:09+00:00

I chose to be and remain single 7 years ago and I have been so stress free. I sleep better, my stomach problems (that no doctor could help me with) solved themselves and I don't have frequent headaches anymore. Relationships just aren't for me :)

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-07-02T00:32:02+00:00

Good. Hookup culture is one of the worst things that society came up with. Zero benefit for women but all the consequences

Skepticaltealeaf · 2022-07-02T03:04:12+00:00

I just turned 20 and I’m celibate for the foreseeable future. Got roped into a situationship when I was abundantly clear about what I wanted from the start. The garbage sex + the disregard for my wants made it one of the worst experiences of my life. Couldn’t pay me to hookup ever again

Ancient_Ad_8422 · 2022-07-02T05:56:50+00:00

This needs to become a much bigger thing. Not all women can afford to strike, but all women can restrict access to themselves.

Amanda_daville · 2022-07-02T02:18:05+00:00

Celibate since 2018 and counting. These men don't deserve shit.

jenaemare · 2022-07-02T07:23:31+00:00

Good. I'm almost 30 and I wish FDS was around 10 years ago.

I focused on the men in my life since I was 16. I helped my high school boyfriend get good grades at the expense of my own. Later, I didn't pursue a better college what was farther away because of my second boyfriend, because I didn't want to leave him. I literally focused on the wrong people between 16-24 and I'm very angry for it.

I hope FDS will save future generations of girls from these mistakes.

thechadman27 · 2022-07-02T04:07:49+00:00

Feminism never should’ve encouraged promiscuity and hook up culture. There’s no upside for women in it and it’s quite de-powering

LianaVinogradova · 2022-07-02T05:41:41+00:00

I’m 20 and after finding a feminism when I was 15, I’m not planning to date, have relationship and sex with men at all, especially with strangers. I never had and never will. I have way better things to do with my life.
Plus, I’m from Eastern Europe, we dont have a hookup culture here, but we have epidemic of hiv and aids in my country and attempts to ban abortions, so its a definite NO

96nugget · 2022-07-02T11:13:27+00:00

Gen z cusper/ Zillennial here! Most women ik in my friend group 22-26 are trying to reject the hookup culture of 2010s that was shoved down our throats. I always felt in my soul it was wrong but no one seemed to want to go against the narrative that being sexually liberated meant letting everyone Tom Dick and Harry near your magic conch. There’s no benefits to unattached sex that doesn’t even get you off and now comes with even greater risks. Ladies, we all know it we’re faking it half the time just to be discarded . I don’t agree with every point here in this subreddit, but this is a strategy I can stand behind and the younger girls coming up need to hear this to protect their mind body and spirit from the madness.

Edit: I HATE how YouTube and other online platforms are painting this community as femcels because I’ve avoided coming here for that main reason but from what I can see you guys have quality points that should be addressed in the general dating market and not written off. Since when was saving your body and time for someone who has your best interest propaganda?!

gabriellita · 2022-07-02T03:02:24+00:00

I have been celibate for a little over a year and a half now and it has been so good for me.

rperfection · 2022-07-01T23:19:08+00:00

raises hand never had it. Never saw someone that deserved it

Pizza-Mundane · 2022-07-02T12:07:52+00:00

My 12 years old already know there is something wrong with men. Her evidence is her dad and how he's using her as an emotional dumpster.

katkonfessions · 2022-07-02T00:07:26+00:00

Been on a dry spell after I had my daughter. Honestly I’m one and done, props to those who have like 5 children.

veniphyl · 2022-07-02T19:01:45+00:00

Of course, no surprise at all. Let it die. I wish I had started sooner. I mean, have you seen men? 😂

warinmymind94 · 2022-07-11T21:14:59+00:00

I turned 28 and haven't had sex in about 2 years. I had been open to dating if a man that was actually a functioning adult and expressed some effort came along, but that hasn't been the case. I've been very happy with my vibrator though. I've only been on a handful of dates since finding fds about 2 years ago and honestly I've saved myself a lot of time and headache that would have been spent on lvm confusing me with low effort and games, when the reality is they just weren't interested enough in me.

Been leveling up since.

2022-07-10T11:05:53+00:00

Because nobody wants to deal with these porn addicted men who simp for porn stars/sex workers like they're the Madonna. I shit you not, a woman's highest virtue to these modern "males" (if you can call them that) is how many dicks she can take on camera. They can complain about women as much as they want but nothing gets lower than a moid and his slavish addiction to his sex drive.

modestgray · 2022-07-02T00:25:45+00:00

Good for them tbh. If I was in their shoes I'd do the same

Big-Paleontologist13 · 2022-07-05T15:06:34+00:00

SO much easier to listen to than the OK cupid episode! wtf was that episode? omg i almost threw my phone at the wall.

MariaSmithxx · 2022-07-02T10:35:30+00:00

I have been on this life since January now. Before the situationship it was 10 years lol he didn’t believe me either because he was religious and I held a longer title in monk land 😂

ahavaaa_ · 2022-07-05T14:01:57+00:00

Can someone please tell me how to access the handbook? I keep getting an error page.

virginwhorehouse · 2022-07-02T05:33:18+00:00

Abstinent or abstinence are the better terms not arising from judeo Christian patriarchal sexist bs

ShiningWoman · 2022-07-11T17:34:57+00:00

I'm a virgin and I couldn't be happier!

Certainly glad I don't have any horrible memories of being forced/coerced.

From what I hear, men are terrible at sex and all the consequences are on the woman.

I'd only have sex if I was married and or if a man had proven himself and devoted himself to me for years.

Levelupmama · 2022-07-02T13:20:04+00:00

Omg you’re back 🥹❤️❤️❤️

Top-Hurry-7624 · 2022-07-09T22:49:45+00:00

I think younger people choosing celibacy has more to do with the fact that hooking up and dating costs money and many of us are still trying to recover from the covid-19 recession and get jobs that pay enough to actually live and save up for even small luxuries like dental care lol. Plus lockdown has made it harder for people to get back to socialising outside of their existing social groups/friendships. For example, I find that fewer guys if none at all ever approach me at a bar or opening social setting to start a conversation or ask for my number anymore. There's also an increase in hustle culture, perhaps also accelerated by growing economic inequality/increased wealth gap that we saw developing globally since the pandemic. So people are prioritising building their wealth and improving themselves physically and mentally before prioritising intimacy on any level. Then there's the likelihood that younger people are becoming emotionally detached and anti-social because of internet dependency.

99power · 2022-07-02T20:40:59+00:00

Wow, I had no idea there was a name for this.

IWantYourDad · 2022-07-13T07:54:56+00:00

Thank god they’re not doing those daddy daughter virginity dances and pledges anymore tho. That was hella creepy. What was that movement called. Keep wanting to say promise keepers but I think that’s something else entirely…

pinkcityscape · 2022-07-15T16:36:49+00:00

Turning 29 this year and still no sex. Truthfully the past few years it’s been voluntary (I’d say at University it was involuntary I just had a lot of personal mental issues and body image problems). I don’t know if I will ever be intimate in this way but I’m at peace with it now. I’ve also decided not to online date since it’ll be an expectation if I go out with men. Better to just remove myself from the situation and focus on other things…

NewYorkerWhiteMocha · 2022-07-17T22:09:18+00:00

That’s really good!

JustTrustMeOkaay · 2022-07-07T01:03:14+00:00

My sisters, you all have been groomed for a cult. A lot of you are starting to see it. Please think for yourselves and listen to your inner voice.

31anddun · 2022-07-02T16:41:10+00:00

Feminism as a social adjustment was a good thing. Feminism as a political movement was a disaster.

factoremrisu · 2022-07-26T20:39:05+00:00

Damn nigga, I thought men was going celibate
really bullshitting on this one aren't cha'

Unlucky_Fig_5468 · 2022-07-18T15:32:53+00:00

The stats show men are 33% celibate to women’s 16%. Shouldn’t people notice this applies twice as much to men.

Title	The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)
Author	SnarkSticks
Upvotes	559
Comments	154
Date	July 1, 2022 9:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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