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Who is responsible for abortions? According to ‘Ejaculate Responsibly’ author Gabrielle Blair, it's men of course. Never mind that men literally have zero say in whether an abortion happens or not.

GivesStellarAdvice

October 20, 2022
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Title Who is responsible for abortions? According to ‘Ejaculate Responsibly’ author Gabrielle Blair, it's men of course. Never mind that men literally have zero say in whether an abortion happens or not.
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Date October 20, 2022 2:06 PM UTC
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Comments

[–]delocalelectron 176 points177 points178 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

So - men must 'ejaculate responsibly' because women refuse to take responsibility for anything.

[–]skibby 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In isolation, the advice to ejaculate responsibly is quite good.

[–]Hefty_Ant1025 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

We are in the 'weak men' phase of the cycle

[–]darthnugget 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Curious, whats next in the cycle? I didn’t know this was a known thing.

[–]delocalelectron 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Good times make weak men. Weak men create hard times.....

I think Winston Churchill said it. And Hefty_Ant is correct. The world is changing fast. Fossil fuel will run out. Europe is as unstable as ever. China will invade Taiwan. The 'strong' women who are issuing their nonsense diktats will crumble in a moment, like British PM Liz Truss. They will come looking for strong men.

[–]darthnugget 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah yes. Thank you,

I wasn’t making the connection. It’s funny because my spouse was just talking about this being relevant earlier this year as we watched the war begin in Ukraine. It’s like… as life and organisms in this world (a.k.a reality) we require adversity to force evolution of body and mind.

Maybe that’s what this increased adversity for being male is part of, we need to evolve and be stronger and have resolve? Doesn’t mean men are perfect but we shouldn’t have shame, or be shamed, for being male. Shame is really just a different word for hate now, without the stigma of being a bigot.

[–]Hefty_Ant1025 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's also why so many men have totally checked out on alot of things. It's a real shame.

[–]throwawaygoodvibess 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What about fertilize responsibly? And/or accept ejaculate responsibly?

I’m dying at this 🤣

[–]delocalelectron 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe, some day, they'll come to accept this!

[+]silvrado -81 points-80 points-79 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Jfc no one wants any responsibility anymore. Everyone wants to just laze around and collect stimulus checks. Just vasectomy at birth and call it a day. The sooner this dumpster fire of a species ceases to exist the better for everyone.

[–]Daddy_Parietal 34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yo yo chill. I think you might need to take a break from the internet and news if you think people are genuinely like that.

None of us are 100% protected against propaganda.

TLDR: touch grass

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 95 points96 points97 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

"Women have choices. Men have responsibilities" ~Feminism at its core.

[+]lzzbian94 -59 points-58 points-57 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

When it comes to mens sperm yes you do have responsibility if having sex

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Woosh

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women just get to decide what that responsibility is.

[–]throwawaygoodvibess 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What about womens eggs? She should be quite protective and responsible about those right?

[–]lzzbian94 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We’re not fertile every waking moment like men so not the same comparison buddy

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like there's more responsibility since you have to control or know when you're fertile.

[–]fakemuseum 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

No difference between normal sex and rape huh?

[–]lzzbian94 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We’re talking about ability to knock someone up buddy. Not rape

[–]Affectionate-Car-931 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Why don't you simply be responsible enough to avoid sex if you don't want risk pregnancy and don't trust birth protection?

Unless it's rape, you get a say in the matter. Which means you get responsibility too.

At what point do you have to grow up and accept responsibility for your own actions?

I swear this is a Gen-Z thing. I remember when feminists weren't this blatantly stupid.

[–]equalRights111 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Would that also apply to women wanting abortions? Surely they have responsibility to have safe sex or no sex at all?

Obviously excluding rape and medical conditions from this.

[–]pretendmynameiscool_1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

You can't make this shit up honestly😂

[–]LocalNative141 31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

“My body, my choice! but also the man is responsible for it”

[–]Affectionate-Car-931 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No conceptual difference between this and any other thing feminists want.

[–]MicrosoftOSX1 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

lol let her speak. then they can't escape the fact the conception of a baby requires a man's conscious decision and implied "responsibility"... she fucked up big time

[–]WilliumCobblers 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“No dear, I don’t agree with the procedure. You must bear the child at St Palagia’s convent and hand it over to the Sisters for adoption.”

[–]Idiodyssey87 74 points75 points76 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"How do you write women so well?"

"I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."

[–]dw87190 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Last time I wrote fiction, I got heaps of hate because of a female villain I wrote. Apparently someone who is an abuser and a rapist who later becomes an assassin for a huge gun/drug running ring full of serial rapists should've been written as male lol

[–]TheSpaceDuck 65 points66 points67 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

You could reduce abortions. You could eliminate abortions without making an abortion law if you were legislating responsible ejaculations, if there was any accountability required of men to be careful with their sperm. We require no accountability.

Imagine being deluded to the point of thinking that being forced to pay child support or go to jail over a child you had no legal choice over is "no accountability".

Men are precisely the ones who have to bear the accountability without the choice. Then again, there's nothing more feminist than "my body, my choice, his responsibility".

[–]citruschain 29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"my body, my choice, his responsibility". That is so true and will never change as long as governments can get men to pay for the manpower they want.

[–]Daddy_Parietal 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I swear these "women" never grew up. I have many females in my life that arnt this delusional.

These girls just want the novelty of choice but none of the consequences. Just like getting a child a puppy.

[–]BigPangolin97 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

well there's plenty of us males that are also pretty fucking delusional too

[–]Daddy_Parietal 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh very true. But those childish men are already a accepted detriment of society, where these girls tend to be celebrated by others for the shitty things they do.

I mean there is a whole stereotype about men with pickups having small dicks. And this may be a fault of my imagination and memory, but I honestly cant think of a widespread functional equivalent female version...

Childish men are already considered trash, where childish women are sometimes celebrated (atleast much more than the occasional man)

[–]Acousmetre78 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also her argument seeks to legislate men’s bodies.

[–]Uncomfortabletomato 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would say that birth control and other preventative measures need to be made available for men but to say that reproductive health is only a man’s responsibility is asinine.

[–]user-and-abuser 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Accountability = oppression

[–]CawlinAlcarz 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hilarious.

Did any of you ever see the movie "As Good As It Gets"? Pretty decent movie, for its time, all things considered. It's probably 20 years old or more by now. One of the main characters in the movie is played by Jack Nicholson. He's a romance novel writer and is visiting his publisher in this scene. He's kind of a giant asshole with his own set of neuroses. The secretary is super excited to meet him as she is a big fan of his books and apparently REALLY loves the way he portrays the women characters in his books. The secretary asks him:

Secretary: How do you write women so well?

Udall: Well, I think of a MAN, and then I take away reason and accountability.

Found the scene...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-ecbGNxEHM

[–]Terrible_Departure90 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

They’ll say this but when I say I don’t want her to have an abortion, it is “not my choice”

[+]ebony-mori -34 points-33 points-32 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

It isn’t c

[–]Terrible_Departure90 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Then I have no control over abortions, thanks for proving us right 😂

[+]ebony-mori -25 points-24 points-23 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I think the opinion in the post above is a load of crap. The responsibility of pregnancy itself is on both- it takes two to tango. But abortion is a female issue and a woman’s decision alone.

[–]Terrible_Departure90 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

That’s just not right, I am either responsible for the child or not. That includes pregnancy and abortion, that’s why it has to be a joint decision at all stages or I can opt out of being a father.

[–]ebony-mori 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

I whole heartedly agree that men should be able to opt out of fatherhood, including child support payments. 100%. That would be a fair male equivalent of abortion.

When it comes to the matter itself, if the unwanted pregnancy occurs in a relationship, it is decent to consult the male partner for his opinion. At the end of the day though, it’s the women’s decision to abort, and a man’s decision to stay around after or not.

[–]CarHungry 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Well some states still have abortion legal and more states have it on their ballot. Men are still indentured servants with no recourse in all states, so you might as well call it the new jim crow.

[–]ebony-mori -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry, I am not very well versed in US law.

However, you most cannot compare racial segregation to men in abortion laws. At all. Don’t be bigoted.

Just for clarification, do you believe that a man should be able to have a deciding say in an abortion?

[–]randomguy7277 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men should be able to have paper abortions, whenever they want, within the timeframe of a normal abortion. Sign a paper, no more responsibility for the fetus in perpetuity.

[–]ebony-mori 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I completely agree. Definitely. Shouldn’t have a decision in the abortion itself, but a ‘paper abortion’ would be a very fair equivalent for men.

[–]strobro 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It is still black men that are the main victims of both.

[–]ebony-mori -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s still not segregation or oppression.
This issue may affect black men disproportionately, but this still affects all groups.

[–]_TheDarkArtist_ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I know you’re getting downvoted to hell, but massive respect for saying this. Based opinion.

[–]ebony-mori 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Me? If so, thank you. 😊 It’s alright, I think my overall opinions on the matter may have been misunderstood.

I am completely pro-choice, and I support both abortions and ‘paper abortions’ entirely.

[–]_TheDarkArtist_ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, I really did mean to aim the compliment at you. I hold the same opinion though so I’m certainly biased.

Still, respect for jumping into this sub and calmly stating potentially controversial opinions, especially without diverging into a battle of petty insults.

[–]ebony-mori 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you very much, that’s really kind. 😊

I’ve had plenty of good and bad conversations on here. They’ve either been enlightening, or choc-full of attempts to insult my intelligence or sex.

Got to take the good with the bad with any movement to get to grips of what they stand for.

[–]denvercaniac 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In response, I say this: monk mode.

[–]jokerfriend6 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Never put you dick in crazy. You can't figure that out in the first week you meet somebody.

[–]duhhhh 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes not in the first decade. Mental illness, drug addiction, or brain injury can suddenly change someone's personality after years together.

[–]narfywoogles 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A normal woman can become crazy any time she wants to.

[–]jokerfriend6 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But a real crazy women will push things within 6 months and show her colors if you take things slow.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You have no birth control rights. WAKE UP! They aren’t pro choice. They are only pro WOMEN choice.

They want you to be a serf cucked to a job and a woman you hate.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

there should be adequate birth control for both men and women. However currently there isnt.

I will say, regardless of if either party used a form of contraception, the abortion is up to the woman as it is using her body as a host.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Then she should be perfectly ok with the man leaving her if she chooses to have the baby without his opinion present

[+][deleted] -10 points-9 points-8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, yeah. Even so, its not the same level of responsibility.

[–]Wild-Film8486 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then whether the man pays child support should be entirely up to him. Your body, your choice, your responsibility.

[–]_BlueShark87 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But then if men are given MORE responsibility and accountability then we have to address the fact that it’s half theirs. They helped make it, they get a say in what happens to it.

[–]Throning 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This has so much hypocrisy to it that it's laughable.

Short of a vasectomy - and not every guy is convinced they are safely reversible or willing to get snipped - men's only option is a condom.

You know how many stories have come out of women literally poking holes in condoms, or otherwise stealing the condom? Remember when Drake put hot sauce in the condom afterward? With an alarming amount of women saying they'd resort to sabotaging the condom or otherwise stealing the sperm after sex - Wendy Williams I recall got an entire audience to cheer on a woman saying she'd do either just to have kids.

So no, Gabrielle Blair. Even when men do try to "ejaculate responsibly" - there's an alarmingly growing trend of women who will do anything to cross the only reproductive autonomy men have. Kindly go fuck yourself, Gabby.

[–]ialwayspay4mydrinks 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is a two person game and the system is fucked but for the love of god insist that you wear a condom. And a condom that you provide that is not 10 years old and buried in your wallet. Pull out method is bullshit and you need to cover your ass.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mixed all of the cake ingredients together and put them in the oven. Someone needs to pay for this unexpected cake!

[–]Gevlyn507 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, I always ejaculate responsibly. All over her face and tits 🤷‍♂️

[–]icefire54 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw her twitter thread arguing this many years ago. I didn't know she wrote a whole ass book about it now. LMAO

Her argument is basically:

Men's ejaculation causes women to get pregnant, not women's ejaculation. Therefore all pregnancies are men's fault.

The problem with this line of reasoning is that women also choose to allow men to ejaculate inside them, therefore women are also responsible. Twitter thread and book debunked.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I ejaculate responsibility. I never put something that precious to me inside a woman.

[–]StingRayFins 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're strong and independent women but are never accountable for anything and need to have special treatment and privileges and be constantly babied.

Makes no sense.

Do people not see that our society is crumbling? You cannot give a whole group of people freebies, handouts, privileges, freedom, and choices but not make them deal with any consequences or results of their actions.

A misandric society that discriminates against men will soon cease to exist.

[–]MalloryTheRapper 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I think when a woman ends up pregnant both parties have equal responsibility for what happened. I think if the man does not want the child but the woman decides to keep it men should be able to sign over all parental rights and are not allowed to know the child’s identity or contact them unless said child chooses to contact the biological father after they turn 18. now if the father at first wants the child and willingly puts their name on the birth certificate, but later decides to no longer be involved in the child’s life, they should be on the hook for child support. otherwise if they sign those rights away initially they are not required to pay child support at any time. as far as if a woman does not want to keep the child but the man does, I don’t think anyone but the woman gets to decide to abort. it’s honestly inhumane to force someone to carry something in their body they do not want. and I would say the same if in an alternate world men are the ones that are able to get pregnant.

I think this way both parties have an out if they so choose. let me know if you disagree with my point of view and why. i’m interested in hearing an alternative route to handle pregnancies. please don’t be hostile as I am genuinely open to hearing everyone’s thoughts.

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

You won't get any women's support on this. They do bear the weight health wise. But why do they choose what responsibilities I have? If we agreed prior to no children but she changes her mind im entirely on the hook but feminists will say "advocate for yourselves" and call us man children for doing so.

[–]MalloryTheRapper 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

well i’m saying you both are choosing to engage in sex and with that comes risks. if you are afraid you need to protect yourself by wearing a condom. if you choose to raw dog you are just as responsible.

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Condom protects both. No condom protects one. Yet the woman is empowered for having a preference in if there's a condom in piv sex.

[–]MalloryTheRapper 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

how would no condom protect one? you both are at risk. again you should be wearing it to protect yourself regardless if it protects her too.

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because a woman has all reproductive risks and rights. Men have no say outside of shooting their sperm.

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Would you find it fair that one half of an equation holds all of the LEGAL power ?

[–]PoolPartyAtMyHouse 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am starting to think a lot of women are always angry and miserable because they have trained themselves they can't do anything while men can do everything.

[–]Still-Association-52 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Women have 30 different forms of birth control. On top of that how many guys here have slept with a woman who used a female condom?

Yeah. Thought so.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

bro female condoms are ew, but like. You should use a condom everytime anyway, unless you're in a long term relationship.

[–]Uths_CC 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

bro male condoms are ew, but like. You should use a female condom everytime anyway, unless you're in a long term relationship.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean in how they look, honestly I dont massively care, it protects me so I'd use either. But, female condoms are a lot harder to put in, to my knowledge. However, you can put them in and leave them there, so you could do it in advance ig.

[–]sabazurc 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

How the hell are there men left in the west who do not view these women as misandrists they are?

[–]3172695 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Because misandrists are aided by men otherwise they wouldn't have been able to achieve the results they have. That being said, I am not from the west so can't specifically tell the reason why these people still exist.

[–]CarHungry 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You are correct, american men have almost no ingroup bias, unlike women. Study after study shows men will sacrifice other men for women in most hypotheticals too.

I mean, when you look at history "women and children first" wasn't just a random phenomenon, it actually got alot of sailors and ship passengers killed (including women ironically).

[–]sabazurc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very true.

[–]Albertsongman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It takes to tango. It takes two to make a thing go right.

[–]brandon24745 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It takes two to Tango.

[–]Candid-Dish-4415 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh you could've sterilized yourself for life! /s

No wonder its us vs them. They want all the patriarchal benefits with none of the negatives thus putting them above us. They are all for a matriarchy.

[–]XoXSmotpokerXoX 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On one side you have complete wack jobs pushing an agenda of control, forcing birth of rape and incest and risking lives with not allowing removal of miscarriage's or dead fetus, on the other side consent is a one way street. If two adult consent for sex everything after should involve mutual consent. But we cant have nuanced discussions like that because we literally have a political party that fights for rapists visitation rights or forcing a 12 year old to give birth after a family member violated her.

[–]Ok-Translator2294 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have always found it interesting that women who do not want to be pregnant never got the idea of using contraceptives or the morning after pill. Better still is the fact that they can't stop spreading their legs.

[–]equalRights111 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

It’s getting absolutely insane at this point, that this is even being taken seriously. It’s not even worth arguing with them though, because they won’t listen.

Also hang on! ‘It’s the most dangerous thing we ask people to do willingly with their bodies’??! Is childbirth really that deadly? What about car accidents?

[–]OctaviaPinfold1 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

The death of women and children during or shortly after childbirth has been on the decline ever since Ignác Semmelweis, a doctor, a man, managed to almost single-handedly convince people and the entire medical community to wash hands before they assist at birth, among other things. He was laughed at because people have known nothing about how infections work yet, but he was persistent and proved his point. He's also called the savior of mothers. Pregnancy and child birth today (in the developed parts of the world) isn't more dangerous to an average woman than the common cold, maybe even less so.

[–]equalRights111 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But erm er, feminism!

[–]OhGodNoWtf 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow.

[–]McFeely_Smackup1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

ejaculation does nothing at all without ovulation.

ergo, women are responsible.

[–]jfartster 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My thoughts too, it's the same argument.

[–]Normal-Yogurtcloset5 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists will blame everything on men in order to avoid accountability. There are dozens of birth control methods available to women. Maybe they should start saying, “My body, my choice…my responsibility” instead of acting like children who aren’t mature enough to make adult decisions. The more these women run their mouths the more I understand cultures that literally keep women under wraps.

[–]CarHungry 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anytime I see abortion topics I just keep thinking of what dave chappelle said:

"If you can kill this mofo I can atleast abandon it"

[–]lzzbian94 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So I read this article and she’s right about something. As a man, you have to understand once you start having sexual urges, you’re the one who can impregnate a woman. Understand that if you’re having sex and you ejaculate into a woman you could knock her up.

All men should go into sex with that mindset even if you use protection. Because birth control pills or iuds aren’t foolproof and neither are condoms. They can and do fail. Just as a woman knows that too.

[–]Uncle_Touchy1987 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I got a vasectomy at age 25 to avoid the risk of children. I was warned that not only are they not a permanent fix but that there is no guarantee they can be reversed. Something else is that sex quality is reduced, orgasm intensity is reduced and there is permanent occasional pain. Also, I have low T, I think caused by the operation and have been on TRT for sometime now. Her solutions are just more problems, problems that can be fixed if women accepted accountability they way men do. She is a tick on the ass of society.

[–]cominginside 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Do U still ejaculate a lot?

[–]Uncle_Touchy1987 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Depends on what you mean by a lot.

[–]cominginside 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I guess like that guy in the Guinness world records horst or something like that, he shot his load 18 ft across the room and they say he was well hung that's what they claim and you know how they are.

[–]Uncle_Touchy1987 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nope.

[–]cominginside 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't feel bad neither do I they must have given him a ton of cocaine back of the old days

[–]GltyUntlPrvnInncnt 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just go MGTOW guys. Problems solved.

[–]and_another_username 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s the haircut that says- “never ever ever fucking approach”

[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

An excellent example of feminist misogyny.

She doesn't think women have more agency and power than a masturbation sock.

[–]Buffbigw76 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a smackable face…

[–]Far-Reputation7119 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These women are ridiculous.

[–]TAPriceCTR 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone assigning responsibility of women's choices to men? I've NEVER seen that before. 🤥

[–]The_Namez_B 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cause it’s always the men’s fault. Let’s just blame them for everything 🙄

[–]shit-zen-giggles -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On the face of it / effectively it's not far off from the MRA positon. We (or at least I) generally advise men that 'not getting her pregnant in the first place' is the only option men have.

The difference is that the MRA position comes from a place of empathy for men against the background of their never-existing reproductive rights while she comes from a place of resentment against about women's newly 'won' equality with men (aka RvW being abolished).

[–]Wolf_Man_Boy -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“It's the most dangerous thing that people willingly do to their bodies,” explains Blair. “We ask 84% of women to have babies. I don't say we ask them, we just assume they will. And we don't ask men to do anything that dangerous in those percentages. There's just nothing.”

One word: draft.

[–]Huffers1010 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"They're like, well the woman just needs to ask the man to wear a condom. Insist he wears a condom. Why? How is that 50-50?"

It's not, but what on earth is anyone going to do about it? At least women can tell if a guy is wearing a condom.

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So she's responsible for her own body and you're asking her to be responsible for the man's body.

No. No, I'm not. And I don't think you have any reason to say anyone is doing that. I thought the whole feminist perspective on pregnancy is that it's always, completely, and only about the woman's body, which to be fair is largely true, give or take the risk of disease.

It's the most dangerous thing that people willingly do to their bodies

Christ on a Harley Davidson, has this woman ever heard of, say, war?

I don't know that I've ever found a better example of absolutely psychopathic hubris.

[–]cominginside -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She looks STOOPID with that haircut.

[–]anillop -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you can’t get an abortion unless a man was involved somehow.

[–]gunter_grass -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No offense but you have to be more responsible. As a man that is sexually active I only ejaculate in her friends throat. And I wait while my girlfriend and her girl are done spitting back and forth. I make sure I collect everything so no abortions are needed.

[–]EviessVeralan -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I swear with how Pro Choicers talk about pregnancy, youd think that women get pregnant by random chance like being struck by sperm lightning bolt.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Basic bitch. Always avoiding responsibility, and blames everyone but herself.

[–]WareGaKaminari 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Ejaculate responsibly"? Fuck off

[–]NeoNotNeo 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminism is the cult you join where you are responsible for nothing but entitled to everything

[–]antifeminist3 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Responsibility for men, choice and power for women. Sounds like feminism.

[–]rm-rd 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If we didn't live in a patriarchy, they'd make pills women could take to avoid getting pregnant.

[–]Smacktardius 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These women spend the first 20 years or so of their lives watching their mothers blame absolutely everything on the husband/father, then when these women get all growned up... they continue the tradition and blame everything on men. And then they have daughters...

See how this works?

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