Women now a days are incapable of making logical, reasonable decisions. I’m at the point where I’m starting to believe someone somewhere has taken advantage of them and is leading them down a path of ruin. I don’t see nor know what this path benefits but it is utter ruin for them.

henrycatalina · 2023-03-06T11:50:56+00:00

I think when having a family and children was supplemented with careers and bucket lists, being happy has become unattainable. Too much is going on to relax and enjoy simple and free life experiences.

Social media added a window on the world never seen before. Expectations of travel, experiences, and filling a bucket list become essentials.

In my observation, men's opportunities are masked by all the "go girl" support.

The need and right to take offense and verbally abuse husbands has become normalized too often. Not all women do this, but it has become more acceptable. Somehow, manipulation to make a husband strive by positive reinforcement is replaced by constant criticism of failures. Ok. A little of this is a shit test.

XxJustadudexX · 2023-03-06T05:56:45+00:00

Feminism has ruined both men and women. Women especially though. They enthusiastically trash traditional values that have existed for thousands of years, and they wonder why they’re all on antipsychotics/depressants and mental illness is higher than ever.

Obviously212 · 2023-03-06T05:44:19+00:00

Man I should have just focused on my financial come up and not get involved with these lunatics. I got plenty of P**** when I was single focusing on my life and working out.

BaburZahir · 2023-03-06T06:15:18+00:00

It's called social media and pop psychology. Pop psychology is a disease.

clarkr10 · 2023-03-06T15:44:45+00:00

Yep! Women are more emotional by nature, which makes them more inclined to be brainwashed by the ad industry/social media etc. This causes them to never be happy because they think they are entitled to things they aren’t entitled to. Advertisements by nature make you want something you don’t have.

Women don’t know where to point the blame for their unhappiness so it falls on their husband.

My ex left to be closer to her family, and this was a major contention point in our marriage. We lived across the country and I have a great job here that I’m not leaving….She was never happy with anything I did (she complained a lot but wasn’t “depressed”) and thought being closer to her family would help. Now she’s with her family and she doesn’t get along with them either. She is severely depressed and has anxiety (two problems she didn’t have with me). Her family has told me they’ve never seen her so withdrawn. But it was my fault?

Alatornio · 2023-03-06T14:00:50+00:00

I am going to sound insane but.... I believe that social media is purposely influencing people in a negative matter as a way for foreign countries to bolster their economics, politics, population etc.

Look at Tik Tok and its ownership...

With men turning into women creating potentially weaker military, lower birth rates etc.

Boss babes destroying families.

Spend spend spend.

If this is promoted, who benefits?

007--Chill · 2023-03-07T05:01:26+00:00

It is called social media

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2023-03-06T13:59:46+00:00

Both sexes are to blame.

Women created unrealistic expectations for marriage and life.

Men became a bunch of betas and didn’t stand their ground.

Then factor in divorce laws and you have a recipe for disaster.

Competitive-Soup9739 · 2023-03-06T16:07:10+00:00

I call bullshit. Don't go blaming feminism for your divorce. Your ex, sure. You, probably. Feminism? Stop whining dude, and grow a pair.

jimsmythee · 2023-03-06T13:25:45+00:00

For my exwife, she can’t make a decision to save her life. Every 90 seconds she was changing her mind.

DetectiveGreedy9747 · 2023-03-06T05:16:03+00:00

Yeah, I'm feeling the same way. It is crazy.

dday_throwaway3 · 2023-03-06T18:51:28+00:00

Get familiar with the triune mind (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triune_brain). It boils down to this: Women are driven by emotions (the limbic brain) while men are driven by logic (neocortex). It's evident in everyday activities. Women have an interest in people, men have an interest in things. Just like you can't rationalize a woman into bed. You have to change her mood, not her mind.

So, no, it's nothing new. Just new to you. Spend some time educating yourself about female nature. Because our fathers sure as shit didn't do a good job of it because they didn't know either. I recommend reading The Evolution of Desire by David Buss for a perspective from decades of academic studies. At the opposite end, but part of the same spectrum, read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It's men swapping notes about women for two decades, with conclusions from convergent evidence.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2023-03-06T14:46:40+00:00

It's called Feminism. Feminism/Feminists support big Daddy Government and reduces Individual Rights. Feminists vote to have the male replaced by Government (Child Support and Alimony laws for example).

BurnDownTheMission68 · 2023-03-06T13:01:43+00:00

Are you saying THEY are the real victims?

JonathanApple · 2023-03-06T13:47:19+00:00

Man, so true. I have no idea what was up with my ex but man she made everything and I mean everything so much more complicated and difficult. F me.

warrior_up · 2023-03-06T18:22:35+00:00

Great observation, Red Pill manosphere has all the data and case studies to help you better understand why marriage in 2023 is a very poor decision for men

samk002001 · 2023-03-06T20:50:12+00:00

Capitalism is the reason why our family values and core structures are failing. Introducing equal rights, feminism, and bat shit family courts are just ripping the social membrane into pieces! Western women, doesn’t matter they’re white, Asian, or black, they’re just so entitled and living in La la land. For me, it’s just not enough juice to worth the squeeze in a marriage!

CleburnCO · 2023-03-06T19:54:08+00:00

That thing that has taken over is modern feminism. It has nothing to do with equality or even fairness. It is abusive misandry that removes all accountability, responsibility, and consequences...while blaming men for everything.

Nonamesfound · 2023-03-06T21:20:07+00:00

They really are literally incapable of it.

I’ve spent far far to much time trying to be rational and logical about things when it comes to them.

It’s modern society and social media for sure…it has turned modern women into self entitled, narcissistic, very very selfish “the world revolves around me” type of personalities.

I think relationships are doomed honestly…it’s only going to get worse.

Fun-Possible7676 · 2023-03-06T11:42:50+00:00

That someone is Satan. He delights in all failed marriages. He tempts them with lies of happiness and freedom. But all they receive in divorce is sorrow, suffering, and a limiting of choice. He also loves to enlarge people's pride until they perceive everything as a sleight or offense against themselves.

Zapped2311 · 2023-03-07T03:20:13+00:00

I'll probably get vilified for this shit, but I'm writing it anyway:

The pendulum swung the other way, fellas, and we're pretty much at the top of the arc. Be real-- whether right or wrong, chicks have been second class to us for a LONG fuckin time, and it's come back around.

BUT.

They're not *built for this. Seriously. Just like we're not built for all the namby-pamby shoegazing sitting down to piss bullshit going on with 'men' today.

I don't GET why the natural differences have to be used as sledges and wedges; FUCK, man-- we each have our roles, and each fuckin compliments the other. 'Modern'... what the fuck EVER.

I'm not defending either, it's just not as simple as 'woman = crazy, man = dumb'; end of the day? Find a quality broad, love her, keep her in check, and get kept in check when it's appropriate. Easy as fuck to say, damn near impossible to do today, though.

Pendulum's gonna go back the other direction reeeeaaal soon. REAL soon

EDITORDIE · 2023-03-06T20:51:12+00:00

Social media, specifically IG, can have a horrendous influence on people (men and women). And their algorithm will feed you crap that you interact with. So, if someone starts fantasizing about a better life, and interacts with such IG posts with that message, it can easily influence them down a destructive path. I’d guess this happens a lot more often than we know, particularly when users are feeling disillusioned in a relationship.

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