Q4M: Would you have sex with an escort that someone else paid for?

passepar2t · 2021-03-20T07:39:13+00:00

I guess? The two times I tried whores, I just couldn't get aroused. Something about the experience just utterly fails to stimulate me. It's not disgust so much as profound indifference.

In principle though, sure, it's only polite.

gammaJinx · 2021-03-20T12:06:38+00:00

Nah mostly out of ego. As a 21 year old virgin I would still want to be someone purely because they want to be with me not because someone paid them.

TheJim66 · 2021-03-20T08:35:16+00:00

Balls deep

Fafner2 · 2021-03-20T08:29:02+00:00

The only men who'd say no to this are those who have strong moral/religious convictions, which I respect (and follow personally). But these types of questions never address the real argument men have against promiscuity in women.

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2021-03-20T14:17:31+00:00

" You can spend the entire night with her"

Do I have to? I'd prefer if she just gtfo after.

Hurlyburlyy · 2021-03-20T07:38:52+00:00

I wouldn't, but just because I never do escorts.

Pilling_it · 2021-03-20T09:31:01+00:00

Call me a choosing beggar, but I don't feel any arousal if there's money involved, so I'll just tell whoever's paying to keep it.

colgateexpert · 2021-03-20T10:57:55+00:00

PM_M3_Y0UR_B00B5 · 2021-03-20T12:50:58+00:00

No, doesn’t fit my values.

Lokipoki29 · 2021-03-20T17:31:59+00:00

Yes omg yes yes yes a thousand times yes

Hoopla420 · 2021-03-20T09:57:51+00:00

I will fuck anything at this point

2021-03-20T13:58:35+00:00

Not really since i have no need to.

I usually advice young men if they cannot get any right now and want to lose their virginity then go for an escort.

Other than that go work on health , money , status , personality. How to dress and many other things that raises mens SMV

Ohmaygahh · 2021-03-20T15:16:00+00:00

Probably not. Have strong mixed feelings about it. In the past I thought it was only losers and the desperate that would use such a service.

Nowadays my stance has softened. It's sexual junk food. I would completely discourage any virgin man who has never eaten before to try that first, it would be shameful and regrettable as a first and could start an unhealthy diet but for the satisfied man who wants something specific once and is unlikely to be able to get it realistically ( like being a 60 y.o. wanting to be with a mid 30s woman, there's no way in hell a mid 30s woman would find a regular old man sexually attractive ), it could be a good option, occasionally.

That's about it

lestratege · 2021-03-20T07:22:29+00:00

Absolutely? Where’s the downside to this?

CrossfadeAMV · 2021-03-20T10:35:14+00:00

Yes if I know who paid for her services.

QuenchlessGato · 2021-03-20T11:53:20+00:00

No. Personally, I refuse to services of prostitutes. I wouldn't have sex with her even if someone paid me to do it.

SlackerAccount · 2021-03-20T13:34:56+00:00

Why don’t you ask me if I would do a free massage that someone else paid for? The answer is obviously yes why the hell would I not LOL

Goodthingstartssmall · 2021-03-20T13:39:25+00:00

If i were single then fucking yes.

2021-03-20T15:23:02+00:00

Nah. It’s still the same thing, she was paid to want me. She doesn’t find me attractive, so the validation I’m looking for isn’t there

2021-03-20T18:28:41+00:00

Why the hell would I say no to that ? Lmao

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-03-20T19:02:06+00:00

Yup and I have lol

LabNo3096 · 2021-03-20T11:45:30+00:00

If I am not in relationship, why not? She gets money, I get sex. I don't have to care about her afterwards.

It's waaay cheaper than a LTR monetary- and emotionally-wise.

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-03-20T12:23:31+00:00

Nope, but only because I don't do ONS, fuck on the first date, or any of that. I started saying/doing that as a joke when I was 17, but it kept me from making so many mistakes (or being someone else's) that I never stopped. I'd hang out with her, I mean she's paid for and all, but you ain't getting me that easy...

2021-03-20T07:53:46+00:00

I've smashed escort once and I paid for it lmao, although she gave me huge discount.

So yeah, why wouldn't I ??

throwaway82643898 · 2021-03-20T09:36:02+00:00

She was only using you for money. Might not be yours, but she was still using you.

wub1234 · 2021-03-20T11:56:26+00:00

Someone else pays for her time, so you spend 0 dollars

I'd do anything if someone else paid for it.

just_a_place · 2021-03-20T08:21:18+00:00

Yes under the following conditions:

She knows she was paid for by a 3rd party
Is over 18 and knows what she is doing
I need to know the reason why she is a prostitute. Financial need? School? Fun?
I can communicate/talk to her in order to verify all of the above for myself

It is not beneath me to not have sex with her if anything appears off. I trust my spidey sense. Usually when something is too good to be true, it usually is.

Feminsmkildredtt · 2021-03-20T13:01:02+00:00

The concept of paying for sex is what I'm rebelling against the most out of anything here.

Feminists have turned all areas of life into a battlefield.

So now I don't give a f about objectification etc.

Given all this, I don't know how it matters morally if I'm the direct payer or not

michael1962-01 · 2021-03-20T09:49:16+00:00

Sure. If i'm not in a ltr or married.

Thousands of times there.

Business in foreign countries is like that.

OXOzymandias · 2021-03-20T12:36:21+00:00

yeah?

2021-03-20T13:38:38+00:00

Definitely never. ... why is this mysterious third party offering to pay? Seems like some sort of setup or trap. I like having kidneys.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-03-20T07:23:53+00:00

Can't wait for all the Trad LARPs to say they wouldn't

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g0juice · 2021-03-20T15:16:19+00:00

Oh for sure if she was hot

IOportA · 2021-03-20T17:16:59+00:00

I dont think I could bust a nut with a prostitute.

Something about directly paying for it would make me feel like less of a man.

2021-03-20T19:57:13+00:00

Hell yea i would!!

What’s next? Gonna buy me the new ps5?

AreOut · 2021-03-20T21:09:36+00:00

Currently I earn $50/hr and I can choose how much I want to work, so I would still be paying in a way.

Sufficient-Animal991 · 2021-03-20T21:23:39+00:00

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2021-03-20T23:43:07+00:00

Nah. But if the conditions are right and my will is weak, there's a chance. Not really my thing though.

2021-03-21T01:23:28+00:00

Only if her names Emma Butt

Draegur · 2021-03-21T09:35:21+00:00

... nope.

I'd feel gross about it.

Even if she were the one who approached me and indicated that she'd been paid in advance, the only response I conceive of having is, "well, you really don't have to. If there's literally anything else you'd rather do, please by all means go on ahead."

If she insists to spend the time with me, all that will happen is we hang out.

Let's go ONE MORE "if" further.

If she's dead set on initiating physical contact for some reason, I dunno let's assume work ethic or something, the most I could ethically consent to is cuddling.

StrangleDoot · 2021-03-21T19:16:32+00:00

No, I'd give her some money for the inconvenience, send her on her way and go fuck my gf.

Notsonewguy7 · 2021-03-21T23:23:24+00:00

Nah.

I don't have some deep moral reason against it I don't really believe in moral reasons when it comes to this. It just doesn't physically appeal to me, sex with a woman is only really worth anything if she wants to have sex with you otherwise I'd rather just masturbate

Title	Q4M: Would you have sex with an escort that someone else paid for?
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Date	March 20, 2021 7:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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