It's different when it's about men because reasons!

CrowMagpie · 2023-06-15T20:33:39+00:00

man who either fits my above description, comes close to it. Otherwise, why would you be so sensitive?

I've been noticing this for a while. It's basically saying 'only a toxic person doesn't want to be called toxic'.

63daddy · 2023-06-15T20:10:13+00:00

Men have also been abused. In fact, men are overall victims of violent crime more than women.
I love your analogy to past arguments for discriminating against black people. The arguments feminists use today to justify discrimination against men are the exact same bigoted points, just used against men instead of blacks.

KeepThePainAway · 2023-06-15T20:08:02+00:00

Don't try and justify it, they don't listen, I wouldn't also say its all women who are like this, just abusive women, like abusive men. Easier just to ay abusive people,

My ex-partner, still wife by law was like this, went on a video call to her sister when I'd just woken up and gone to pee, I walked back in the room and she had the thing pointing at me when I was still groggy and only wearing by boxers with a semi from sleep.

I made a comment abut privacy in my own home and went downstairs, she then followed me accusing me of saying I couldn't speak to her sister and being controlling, I told her she could talk to her sister all the time for all I care.

Then told me her sister had seen me in swim shorts so why do I care.

I then gave her the other way round and said, well I've seen you fully naked, but will you stand here fully naked in front of me right now? No, no, you wont will you?

She just scowls at me and asks why would she do that...

Logic and reasoning doesn't work, people like this are out to be abusive and that's that. They will argue that black is white. And theyre never wrong, see Narcissistic abuse. It stems from them feeling inadequate.

I was love bombed, and a naïve fool because of autism, waited until she had a house and kid with me before she showed her real face.

Never again will I marry or cohabit, they're right, its a total scam.

AvailableCandidate89 · 2023-06-15T20:45:09+00:00

"I get to be a sexist shitbag and if you call it out then you're proving me right" - the sexist cunt, who proves me right by objecting to be called a sexist cunt

Net_Flux3 · 2023-06-15T21:16:09+00:00

But I am afraid of men because I have seen first hand how bad so many of them can be.

The average woman isn't afraid of men. If they really were so afraid, there wouldn't be so many Karens and women wouldn't have they audacity to use accusations as weapons against men. They love their power in society and she knows it.

SteveClintonTTV · 2023-06-15T21:32:34+00:00

And since I'm in a mood today, I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are exactly the kind of tighty-whitey underwear skidmark of a man who either fits my above description, comes close to it. Otherwise, why would you be so sensitive?

Classic. She has no argument, so she just attacks you. Child behavior.

amakusa360 · 2023-06-16T00:51:58+00:00

I've been hit, verbally abused, had a gun pointed at me, lied to, cheated on

Things countless men have suffered, yet they manage to not dislike the entire other gender for it, even when she has the privilege of facing less consequences than a man.

Otherwise, why would you be so sensitive?

When they say this, it's psychological projection.

girraween · 2023-06-16T01:09:19+00:00

Keep this up. Never stop. The more you rub in their face how hypocritical they are, the better.

People will hear and listen, the person in question may not change, but we need to keep showing these people just how dumb and hateful they’re being.

Traditional_life98 · 2023-06-15T22:08:16+00:00

I’m just here to say;

That new studies are showing Men are MORE susceptible to emotional abuse than women.. Actually 40% of domestic abuse (reported) cases are women AGAINST men.. often many men don’t report anything and it goes without being handled by the law or anything along those lines.

So the argument of men being the main ones to abuse and neglect can quickly be corrected.

blueyb · 2023-06-16T00:14:35+00:00

r/twox is literallly r/WeHateMen

Don't go there, they don't want to listen, they don't want to talk to you, they don't want a debate. They want to show up, post "MEN SUCK AND SHOULD DIE" and get a million upvotes and responses like "FACTS" and "PREACH IT, QUEEN"

Save your breath for places it might do some good.

Dapper_Platform_1222 · 2023-06-16T00:02:19+00:00

I always love to play this game and expose their bigoted beliefs. Watching them go through the mental gymnastics of trying to justify why their beliefs aren't bigoted and/or why their bigotry is ok is one of the more interesting sights.

Wasteofoxyg3n · 2023-06-16T01:26:43+00:00

r/menkampf

DemoniteBL · 2023-06-16T03:12:43+00:00

People really hate it when you draw an analogy between racism and whatever discrimination they support. Whether it's sexism, speciesism, homophobia, or whatever, you can always count on them getting offended at you pointing out their hypocrisy.

KrazyJazz · 2023-06-16T04:27:26+00:00

you are exactly the kind of tighty-whitey underwear skidmark of a man...

Totally not racist, discriminatory and vulgar. Why do you even go over there, OP? If you like pain so much, go to a MMA gym (or join the Foreign Legion). At least you'll gain something valuable out of the whole ordeal....

LettuceBeGrateful · 2023-06-16T04:34:53+00:00

That is gross and racist as fuck.

Self-awareness level: 0.

JustTwo5936 · 2023-06-15T22:48:34+00:00

It’s always different. Always. There’s never an analogy that fits when they want to enforce a double standard.

EternalMindRioter · 2023-06-15T23:36:08+00:00

What a perfect response! I agree with the rest of the commenters here in that there's just no reasoning with abusive behavior. It is them exerting power over you and that's it.

hendrixski · 2023-06-15T23:32:58+00:00

The best analogy, IMHO, is to antisemitism. Old racists thought that the Jews controlled the world from banking to Hollywood; modern sexists believe that men control the world. If you change most "men are bad because of their power over us" rhetoric to say "Jew" then it's very easy to identify it as hate speech.

Punder_man · 2023-06-16T02:34:04+00:00

I was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by a woman when I was 5 years old and again at my first job when I was about 17 - 18..

Yet if I said "Because of my experiences I am wary of women, I know there are good women out there. But it's hard to tell which is an actual good woman and who is a psychopathic ticking time bomb"

I would be labeled a "misogynist" or I would be barraged by claims of "Not all Women!!" or "Women have much more to fear than men do"

Its all a massive double standard to them and they will never understand that fact.

itsakon · 2023-06-16T03:15:02+00:00

tighty-whitey underwear skidmark of a man

Yeah, why can't we all just be cool, breezy, expensive pairs of boxers that take her crap.

ERiC_693 · 2023-06-15T22:18:03+00:00

Its a good comparison you made 👍

Its funny how you couldnt replace men with any other people. Its like prejudices against male teachers, daycare workers etc.. the "watch that paedo" prejudice men face. If you say watch blacks, muslims, gays etc around children you would not get away with it , and rightly so.

PlasticDreamz · 2023-06-16T04:22:20+00:00

yeah dude i’ve made some comments on their and I try to completely agree with them but add another perspective. I would get downvoted and attacked. I compare that sub to the incel sub, it should be banned too

MrVentz · 2023-06-16T04:52:28+00:00

Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pidgeon.

No matter how good you are, the pidgeon will knock over the pieces, shit all over the board and act as if it had won

Surv1ver · 2023-06-16T10:09:57+00:00

It’s funny because the negro test, negertesten, was original invented by a feminist woman who was a danish member of parliament for the democratic socialist party, and then it was popularized by a danish feminist stand-up “comedian”.

echo979 · 2023-06-16T11:00:58+00:00

You could have just replaced men with women. Some feminist are reacting like in the meme "wait, not that way...'

CarHungry · 2023-06-16T03:17:53+00:00

Men are treated unfairly because they are an outgroup, even "the left" clings to it's "ingroup/outgroup" dichotomy extremely religiously, except men aren't as hotly contested as an outgroup as say west african descendants, more like the irish.

Her annecdote is very trite and ridiculous because there are plenty of men who aren't excessively violent, she just happens to have a thing for particularly violent men and then in bad faith assumes it of all men. Women are literally the gatekeepers to sex and they usually vet their prospective partners very ardently, a significant proportion won't even date a man if they don't have the same friend group because then she can't dig into his background. I'm not trying to victim blame, but if I explicitly only date people with hiv and I go bareback and contract it myself I'm not going to go blame an entire gender is all I'm saying.

Pristine-Layer-7101 · 2023-06-15T20:05:54+00:00

Why do they have the right to vote again?

AllGearedUp · 2023-06-16T06:24:05+00:00

How is that racist? You're just making a point.

SuperAd9432 · 2023-06-16T12:02:50+00:00

ITS DIFFICULT BECAUSE I SAID SO! stops feet

Nailed it.

mrID007 · 2023-06-16T22:12:33+00:00

Stop listening to women about men’s issues. They have no business chiming in. Womensplaining is a thing and it’s not helpful to men.

LouisdeRouvroy · 2023-06-16T01:13:58+00:00

Deep down, feminists consider men to be the superior being, and thus he must be bound by more stringent rules as the superior being he is.

hostility_kitty · 2023-06-15T23:21:38+00:00

Not the skidmark insult 😭

ToastBreadPilot · 2023-06-16T10:56:16+00:00

Ever heard of r/menkampf ? basically does what you did. really made me realize how batshit crazy some feminists with massive platforms are

OldTrapper87 · 2023-06-16T14:27:13+00:00

I heard my neighbor who is a man hating lesbian say that if her celebrity crush walked by she would just rape her and face the consequences..... everyone just laughed like it was funny. Her crush is younger and very petite but all I could think about is it's not her morulas holding her back it's her fat body and her bad knee, unlike your advantage man who has the strength and power to do great harm but knows slef control.

With great power comes great responsibility 😜 not like anyone else can EVER step up like men have been for the last 100,000 fucking years.

The way I see it is the new anti male femanist movement will only last a few more years then when times get tough will see who wants to do what.

We've been the kigs the beginning of time I see no problem and giving it to women for 5 years...... You know like a pity vote lol.

danfromdevon · 2023-06-15T20:16:23+00:00

To be fair, pattern recognition is instinctual. If you’ve been abused by several men and if you believe that men commit disproportionately high levels of violence against women then you’re naturally going to be on edge around other men.

And whilst it’s an incredibly emotive and controversial topic. The same applies to black men. Where I live black people make up 15% of the population, yet are responsible for 70% of violent crime. In my area you are going to instinctively feel less at ease around black people you don’t know over white people you don’t know. That is human nature. Even though it’s obvious that the overwhelming majority of black men are not violent, you will instinctively be more guarded around black men who you do not know compared to white men you do not know.

So whilst, yes it might sound racist. It’s instinctual. Right or wrong don’t come into it. It’s wired into us. That’s not opinion-based, it’s science.

I’ve got no issue with women who have been abused saying stuff like “I’m afraid of men”. The average woman has absolutely zero chance in a physical conflict with the average man. They’d be daft not to be on edge around men they don’t know.

What does piss me off is when they say stupid shit like “most men are bad”. It’s simply not true.

RainbowJeremy24 · 2023-06-16T08:34:24+00:00

I think one of the problems is that women's perspective of what being a man is like is completely warped. Being hit, verbally abused, lied to, cheated on is in no way, shape or form exclusive to women. Kind of like when female online streamers make a big deal about toxicity and harassment. Male streamers get just as much of both but were taught to just get on with life. This honestly applies to workplaces where women claim they are being pushed out by men too. They think men do not have to tackle any of these issues and just stroll through life.

thomas_gabriel88 · 2023-06-16T13:24:37+00:00

And since I'm in a mood today, I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are exactly the kind of tighty-whitey underwear skidmark of a man who either fits my above description, comes close to it. Otherwise, why would you be so sensitive?

It's always the same "oh if you're offended you're obviously one of the types I'm referring to" uhm or more likely we are of sick of being generalised by the same people who would have a childish meltdown if anyone made a generalising comment about women.

mrauser347 · 2023-06-16T13:42:58+00:00

And since I'm in a mood today, I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are exactly the kind of tighty-whitey underwear skidmark of a man who either fits my above description, comes close to it. Otherwise, why would you be so sensitive?

Typical feminist response; the moment someone starts challenging your world view even slightly, bring out the ad hominem insults immediately. Also, the amount of hatred i have for the "if you're not toxic/evil/bad you shouldn't be offended" argument is indescribable, like how do these people make such generalised hateful comments about men as a whole and then act surprised when the people they're generalising, in this case men, get upset? it's even more ironic considering how they react with "stop generalising feminism" whenever feminists that say/do bad stuff get exposed.

But then again, these are feminists we're talking about, they don't use facts or logic at all, they're just a cult

WhereProgressIsMade · 2023-06-16T15:07:57+00:00

I remember someone taking a couple antisemitism paragraphs but changing “Jews” to “men”, getting a bunch of upvotes, then revealing the original quote. It caused quite the shitstorm.

lol-HI-IM-BANNED · 2023-06-16T16:12:10+00:00

The problem with this vile cunt is she has to make it about gender AS ALLWAYS. those things she listed isnt gender specific at all. But shes making it out to be. Utterly pathetic. As usual.

Verbally abused, yeah whamen never do that fo they. No according to this moron only men do all that. Urgh. Get a fucking grip.

I wonder if she litterally thinks her shit doesnt stink. Sounds like it. I bet shes a fat, purple haired, stinky minge. Sweaty vag energy.

Neither_Still8887 · 2023-06-15T20:42:04+00:00

I've seen many here say they don't like women.

Trauma is a valid reason to want to ignore a group. Of course we should try overcome it. But it is valid..

Title	It's different when it's about men because reasons!
Author	his_purple_majesty
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Date	June 15, 2023 7:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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